Just how rare are unicorns?

[ratimadan]

Originally Posted by VegasLee

Where most couples mess up is many don't understand that MOST of the single women in the Lifestyle are not looking to party with a couple, they are looking to party with the single guys and/or husbands that are allowed to play. Some are bi and are into the couple thing but not most. If the single women is not bi a couple really does not have anything to offer her that she can not get with a single guy and no baggage to deal with.

VegasLee, your hit the nail on the head.

A single unattached woman, or unicorn, if she is hetero, prefers a single male to play with and have sex. If she is bi she can find bi women. But she will consider playing with and fucking a married man provided she is comfortable with the female half of the couple. And the key is that the wife is not a bi woman that competes for her attention. In our situation, the wife is strictly hetero and has no interest in a bi female.

A unicorn who is also a "swinger" is an oxymoron. As a female, the unicorn is interested in enjoying glorious sex with a man. Swap is not a word in her dictionary. Our experience is that a "unicorn" is easy to find in the vanilla society and among your wife's friends and colleagues. The few unicorns we (the hubby) have played with found us, not the other way around. Most asked the wife if they could play with and have sex with the hubby. A single woman will prefer a couple where she can fuck the man provided she is comfortable with and has known the wife. That gives her an extra sense of security that she may not otherwise have with a single man.

I have always enjoyed play and sexual intercourse with an unattached woman (aka unicorn) with wife's knowledge and consent. If you treat her with respect and consideration she deserves, for opening up her pussy, to accomodate your dick she might even give you referrals to some of her girlfriends. In our case, she called up one of her friends on the west coast where we were visiting to introduce us. The two of us, her friend, a single lady and I had awesome sex.

Mad (Male Half)

[twoforone100]

Originally Posted by lookingfornow

In four years, we have met five single females who play regularly with others. Each introduction was by way of a common acquaintance with whom we had played. While each of the ladies has a profile on one or another of the swinger type websites, four of the five admit to rarely responding to unsolicited e-mails (using the site merely as a tool for meeting people through other acquaintances).

A disclaimer...we have never been unicorn hunters. So, it probably makes sense that we would only meet single females through acquaintances. However--at least for the single women who we have met--our sense is that they can find plenty of new play friends through introductions made by their existing play friends. Introductions mean less risk of phonies, less risk of drama, and greater likelihood of shared interests and compatibility (everyone knowing what they are after). So, in our experience, Unicorns are not truly mythical, just difficult for the uninitiated to find.

this is about par for us as well... we did start looking for unicorns.. and now that we are not looking for them as much we find them a little more often.. but mostly through others.