How does a single male find single female to swing with?

slowlover4u · 07-17-2009, 10:18 PM

I'm new and single male. How can I find a girl to swing with couples and groups?

ncmd_couple · 07-18-2009, 12:32 AM

Slow,

Welcome to the Swinger's Board! Finding "the girl" is a challenge that all of us have faced in life. Be yourself, be honest, and roll with the flow.

S

sweet_tna · 07-20-2009, 11:28 AM

Hi and

=)

slowlover4u · 07-21-2009, 08:06 AM

Wish you were here. It would be nice to have a uninhibited sexy hot girl around. ;-)

slowlover4u · 07-21-2009, 08:08 AM

Thanks, I trying! All, I need is one unihibited girl. Has to be one that wants to go on a date.

**LFM2** · 07-21-2009, 03:33 PM

Hi there and

to the board!

Have you been to any meet and greets? Have you swung (is that a word?) before?

slowlover4u · 07-22-2009, 12:57 AM

Yes I plan on it but some don't let singles in unless you have a couple recomend them. Of course you have to get in to meet a couple. catch twenty two??? Thanks there is coming up that lets singles in. Frank

Lean · 08-21-2009, 04:26 PM

I find myself with the same problem these days. It's very hard to find a single women to be your partner in this lifestyle. Also finding it hard to just find couples in my area looking for a single male. MFM has always turned me on. I have done MFFM before a few times.

magnum · 09-09-2009, 01:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slowlover4u

I'm new and single male. How can I find a girl to swing with couples and groups?

Welcome...

I agree, relax, be cool, be your self, go to a meet and greet. I meet a woman at a meet and greet, we are now friends, we went to a couple parties together and had good fun.

**fun4Ds** · 09-09-2009, 06:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slowlover4u

I'm new and single male. How can I find a girl to swing with couples and groups?

Changing your profile might help

Clubs aren't open during the day time hours, and most swingers don't play during the day either.

Sucks, but true.....

Can you entertain at home ? If not, you will have to explain that as a single male.

swingerzonecentral has booty calls now. You might try that

Welcome to the Swingers Board

bbarnsworth · 09-09-2009, 12:39 PM

Looking at your profile, it just screams "I'm married and cheating on my wife".

My wife and I are quite happy to play with males in an MFM. We're even quite happy to play with married males in an MFM. But, we absolutely require that married males are playing with permission.

Looking at your profile, we'd never contact you. I'm not suggesting changing your profile to hide being married (if you are). Rather, if you are cheating on your wife you will not make much headway in the lifestyle. Hiding your marriage (if you are married) won't work.

Rackir · 09-09-2009, 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slowlover4u

I'm new and single male. How can I find a girl to swing with couples and groups?

Hi and welcome to the board!

In answer to your question, I'd suggest just plain old regular dating.

Engage in the classic "guy meets girl, guy asks girl to dinner, guy and girl have great time, guy tells girl that he's not interested in a physically monogamous relationship and would she like to go to a swingers club on their second date" scenario.

Sure it's bound to fail more often than it succeeds, but then it only has to work once right?

Chicup · 09-09-2009, 04:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bbarnsworth

Looking at your profile, it just screams "I'm married and cheating on my wife".

Yea, 'daytime sex buddy' is sorta a red flag.

femnewb4u2 · 09-09-2009, 09:49 PM

Have to agree. As a single female over 50, your profile reads married or in a relationship to me. Meeting during the day time is a dead ringer for individiual in a committed relationship. Not saying you are cheating, but suggest you explain in your profile why it is you are looking for daytime play.

And as others have said, go slow, relax, and try the suggestions the others have made. It can happen for you if you are honest, real, patient and use every ounce of gentleman you have in you....

bbarnsworth · 09-10-2009, 09:40 AM

Assuming you're married...

Be honest about being married, and playing with/without permission. If you're not, you're going to cause drama.

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07-17-2009, 10:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
slowlover4u Registered Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 5 Location: Lady Lake FL Status: single male Swing Lifestyle Name:slowlover4u	How does a single male find single female to swing with? I'm new and single male. How can I find a girl to swing with couples and groups?

07-18-2009, 12:32 AM	#2 (permalink)
ncmd_couple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2,252 Location: North Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncmd_couple	Re: Slowlover4u Slow, Welcome to the Swinger's Board! Finding "the girl" is a challenge that all of us have faced in life. Be yourself, be honest, and roll with the flow. S
	__________________ Try anything once, twice if it is fun, three times if it is real good!

07-20-2009, 11:28 AM	#3 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Slowlover4u Hi and =)
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07-21-2009, 08:06 AM	#4 (permalink)
slowlover4u Registered Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 5 Location: Lady Lake FL Status: single male Swing Lifestyle Name:slowlover4u	Re: Slowlover4u Wish you were here. It would be nice to have a uninhibited sexy hot girl around. ;-)

07-21-2009, 08:08 AM	#5 (permalink)
slowlover4u Registered Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 5 Location: Lady Lake FL Status: single male Swing Lifestyle Name:slowlover4u	Re: Slowlover4u Thanks, I trying! All, I need is one unihibited girl. Has to be one that wants to go on a date.

07-21-2009, 03:33 PM	#6 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,750 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Re: Slowlover4u Hi there and to the board! Have you been to any meet and greets? Have you swung (is that a word?) before?
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07-22-2009, 12:57 AM	#7 (permalink)
slowlover4u Registered Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 5 Location: Lady Lake FL Status: single male Swing Lifestyle Name:slowlover4u	Re: Slowlover4u Yes I plan on it but some don't let singles in unless you have a couple recomend them. Of course you have to get in to meet a couple. catch twenty two??? Thanks there is coming up that lets singles in. Frank

08-21-2009, 04:26 PM	#8 (permalink)
Lean Registered Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 7 Location: NJ Status: Single Male	Re: How does a single male find single female to swing with? I find myself with the same problem these days. It's very hard to find a single women to be your partner in this lifestyle. Also finding it hard to just find couples in my area looking for a single male. MFM has always turned me on. I have done MFFM before a few times.

09-09-2009, 12:39 PM	#11 (permalink)
bbarnsworth Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,870 Location: South Central Indiana Status: Couple	Re: How does a single male find single female to swing with? Looking at your profile, it just screams "I'm married and cheating on my wife". My wife and I are quite happy to play with males in an MFM. We're even quite happy to play with married males in an MFM. But, we absolutely require that married males are playing with permission. Looking at your profile, we'd never contact you. I'm not suggesting changing your profile to hide being married (if you are). Rather, if you are cheating on your wife you will not make much headway in the lifestyle. Hiding your marriage (if you are married) won't work.

09-09-2009, 09:49 PM	#14 (permalink)
femnewb4u2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 176 Location: Indiana/Ohio Status: Single Female in relationship Swing Lifestyle Name:femnewb4u	Re: How does a single male find single female to swing with? Have to agree. As a single female over 50, your profile reads married or in a relationship to me. Meeting during the day time is a dead ringer for individiual in a committed relationship. Not saying you are cheating, but suggest you explain in your profile why it is you are looking for daytime play. And as others have said, go slow, relax, and try the suggestions the others have made. It can happen for you if you are honest, real, patient and use every ounce of gentleman you have in you....

09-10-2009, 09:40 AM	#15 (permalink)
bbarnsworth Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,870 Location: South Central Indiana Status: Couple	Re: How does a single male find single female to swing with? Assuming you're married... Be honest about being married, and playing with/without permission. If you're not, you're going to cause drama.

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