Single females

magnum · 05-17-2009, 01:53 PM

Are there any single females in hear that are looking to meet a responsible single Male??? Are you wanting more than a one night play date??? Are you out there???

magnum · 05-17-2009, 01:57 PM

My first poll. Interested in the responses.

***JustAskJulie*** · 05-22-2009, 02:38 PM

When I was single, the last thing I was looking for was a relationship. I really avoided even playing with single guys within the lifestyle because it's been my experience (from what I've seen here and from those I've met in RL) that MOST are seeking more.

I believe that most single females who participate in the lifestyle are doing so because they want NSA sex. Single guys who want a relationship come with a lot of strings... even the ones in the lifestyle. I found it easier to stick to single (non-swinging) guys for that reason. Also, if they did start getting too clingy it was much easier to cut them off, then to cut off a guy I'd have to see at the next swinger party.

You also might want to consider that you worded your poll in such a way that the only ones who will answer it are those single females who ARE open to single swinging men.

absingleman · 05-29-2009, 08:45 AM

I agree with Julie. Maybe your poll questions should be
...3some with couples
...group play at private parties
...group play at clubs
...other women only
...single men one on one for NSA sex
...multiple men group play
...single men one on one for possible relationship

and have it set up to choose more than one choice.
I don't know of this site can do that but my old 3D graphics forum (I should start that again) allowed multiple selections. Then again I used .jsp instead of .php for my scripts.

Try that and see what you get.

magnum · 05-30-2009, 12:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

When I was single, the last thing I was looking for was a relationship. I really avoided even playing with single guys within the lifestyle because it's been my experience (from what I've seen here and from those I've met in RL) that MOST are seeking more.

I believe that most single females who participate in the lifestyle are doing so because they want NSA sex. Single guys who want a relationship come with a lot of strings... even the ones in the lifestyle. I found it easier to stick to single (non-swinging) guys for that reason. Also, if they did start getting too clingy it was much easier to cut them off, then to cut off a guy I'd have to see at the next swinger party.

You also might want to consider that you worded your poll in such a way that the only ones who will answer it are those single females who ARE open to single swinging men.

Thank you for the response's, I will have to consider more appropreate questions next time.

Ladies, you are so much more insightful than men "at least this male..." Cheers.

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View Poll Results: Single females; what are you looking for?
Just one night play date	1	50.00%
looking for a relationship with a single male in LS	0	0%
looking for a relationship out side LS	0	0%
what ever	1	50.00%
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05-17-2009, 01:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
magnum Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 577 Location: Denver area Status: single male Swing Lifestyle Name:Magnum	Single females Are there any single females in hear that are looking to meet a responsible single Male??? Are you wanting more than a one night play date??? Are you out there???

05-17-2009, 01:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
magnum Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 577 Location: Denver area Status: single male Swing Lifestyle Name:Magnum	Re: Single females My first poll. Interested in the responses.

05-22-2009, 02:38 PM	#3 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Single females When I was single, the last thing I was looking for was a relationship. I really avoided even playing with single guys within the lifestyle because it's been my experience (from what I've seen here and from those I've met in RL) that MOST are seeking more. I believe that most single females who participate in the lifestyle are doing so because they want NSA sex. Single guys who want a relationship come with a lot of strings... even the ones in the lifestyle. I found it easier to stick to single (non-swinging) guys for that reason. Also, if they did start getting too clingy it was much easier to cut them off, then to cut off a guy I'd have to see at the next swinger party. You also might want to consider that you worded your poll in such a way that the only ones who will answer it are those single females who ARE open to single swinging men.

05-29-2009, 08:45 AM	#4 (permalink)
absingleman Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 74 Location: Michigan Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:ABSingleMan	Re: Single females I agree with Julie. Maybe your poll questions should be ...3some with couples ...group play at private parties ...group play at clubs ...other women only ...single men one on one for NSA sex ...multiple men group play ...single men one on one for possible relationship and have it set up to choose more than one choice. I don't know of this site can do that but my old 3D graphics forum (I should start that again) allowed multiple selections. Then again I used .jsp instead of .php for my scripts. Try that and see what you get.

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