Another question for single men about gangbangs

[screaminggood]

Since y'all did so well answering my first question.....

would it be difficult to be involved in a gangbang where you don't know the other men? I've talked to a playmate about setting one up for me at our favorite club. He has a buddy that he highly recommends so that's two, but if I wanted more, would men that don't know them feel strange if they were invited to join in?

[magnum]

Originally Posted by screaminggood

Since y'all did so well answering my first question.....

would it be difficult to be involved in a gangbang where you don't know the other men? I've talked to a playmate about setting one up for me at our favorite club. He has a buddy that he highly recommends so that's two, but if I wanted more, would men that don't know them feel strange if they were invited to join in?

I would have to say, no, it would not be a problem if I did not know the other guy's. I have participated in only 1 GB and I did not know anyone there, or the female. She picked me from my photo I sent her and the rest of the guy's from there photos.

Have fun and let us know how it turns out.

[SecretAsianMan]

Most "gang-bang" scenarios involve strangers or very casual acquaintances. It's much easier to call things off or get away from them if things don't work out right. And there's less chance of any of the guys becoming more than a "fantasy element" for that scenario.

I would think it would be more awkward if you actually knew or were socially close to the other fellas involved.

[absingleman]

Gangbangs are a chore to organize, but fun once the 3 out of 4 guys you've invited canceled, the 3 out of 4 who arrive chicken out and leave, and the last 4 or five (if you selected the right amount to begin with) learn what your rules are. As far as guys getting nervous, well, 3 out of 4 will cancel at the last minute and 3 of the 4 who don't will chicken out and leave after they arrive...the first time. Your next ones will be better because you will know who to invite and will spend less time explaining what you want and making them comfortable and more time doing what you planned.

[screaminggood]

The complicative nature of planning is probably why I've never done it before....but most likely, I'd just pick up the single men at my favorite club for the night....Hm, how to ensure the club is letting enough in for a fun night?! Did I count correctly that I need to ask them to let 16 in the door just for me?

[JustAskJulie]

I've done this a couple of times and I'd have to say that I wouldn't want to do it in a situation where I hadn't personally picked the guys.

The first time I tried to plan one I went online and posted an ad, I got lots of responses and I made it clear that because I wasn't taking time to get to know the guys upfront, it was based solely on physical attraction. I got a lot of bad attitude in response to that. In the end, only one of the guys I invited showed up. So much for a gangbang.

The second time around I had met enough single guys that I was able to invite guys that I had already at least met and had a great turn out and a fun time. That didn't mean that there weren't guys who showed up only to realize that the GB scene wasn't for them, but enough showed up that I had a great time.

[realcplub2]

I have to echo Julies reply

The first two we set up, were disasters.. the first being planned out and then, as the evening approached, We had to cancel, mother nature intervined on many levels.. 3 days before, a major snow storm was forecast to hit, starting the day before.. making travel treacherous.., and,the nervousness, made the mrs start her monthly friend early so we cancelled everything

the second, planned for a fine spring evening, had the "players" set up everyone knew the ground rules, and as Julies went, only one showed.. the other 4 never showed or contacted us

We did get one finally set up.. by following a few simple rules of thumb.. first, we invited guys we already knew.. second we invited 10 total, and had 5 show.. the others cancelling hours before. and of the 5, 2 bailed right after things got started.. So, here is the best advice we can offer..

First, if you have had positive encounters with singles, invite them.. if you have played with couples, hell invite them.. the other woman can play fluffer if so inclined.. and bat clean up, again if so inclined..

When we were trying GBs, we were up north, in upstate NY, with no "clubs" other than 100 miles south in NYC.. But having since come south, we have attended a few. Most, if reputible, have owners who can allow/set up such an event.. it provides you with security, a safe enviroment, and them with a attendance draw, from the voyuers that wanna watch.. if you are so inclined

Also, look up the other threads on the forums dealing with this erotic subject matter, plenty of other pointers that you might wanna bear in mind...Hope this helps..

[Rob]

Personally, I would rather not know the other guys. The only situation I've been in other than MFMs was a thing where a couple invited me and another single guy over, and I had never met the other single guy before. But it worked out well. The three guys took turns pleasuring the lovely lady.

[screaminggood]

Thanks for the responses....I do have a trusted club available, with an absolutely awesome playmate who is willing to set it up for me. That's why I was asking, because he'd be choosing the men for me. It's not an issue for me because he knows what I like and I think he knows almost every one at the club. ....But I'm too greedy to involve other women!

[combatus]

this is so true....i had organized a GB once for a mate of mine....we'd shortlisted and invited 20guys we met online...... 6 turned up for the event and only 3 managed to live up to the task...the other 3 either just wanted to watch or were too concious of themselves that they could not get a hard'on....