Single Men: Do you prefer the husband just watch, or join in for a MFM?

[screaminggood]

I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.


So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

[magnum]

Originally Posted by screaminggood

I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.


So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

I would say your husband is mistaken...I have always played with the wife with the husband, I do not nor have not felt "awkward or uncomfortable". Part of the fun and turn on is to see the woman taking 2 or more cocks at the same time.

Although, I have not had the experience of playing with the wife while the husband just watches. I would not odject if that were to happen but again, part of the excitement is to see the woman enjoying several cocks at once...

[jumpmaster74]

I would not have a problem if I knew the husband was str8. I mean unless the wife wants double penetration, he can be on one end and i can be on the other.

[SecretAsianMan]

I've done both... shared a wife and simply played with her while the husband watched. I don't really have too much of a preference either way.

[Dallas Dude]

I have no problem playing with a woman and her husband. I'm straight and prefer not to play with couples were the man is bi, but I have no worries if the straight husband joins in. It doesn't freak me out or make me uncomfortable. I would guess most single males feel the same way or they wouldn't be interested in playing with couples.

Originally Posted by screaminggood

I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.


So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

[iapr]

Is that your husbands real reason for not joining in or is it just his excuse? It is really him that feels awkward or uncomfortable by it?

As the male half of a couple I have a completely opposite outlook than your husband. If a single male shows an interest in us I make it completely known that it will be an MFM experience with me being a fully involved participent. If that SM shows the least bit of discomfort with that concept he gets the boot. My thoughts are that if a SM is the least bit uncomfortable with a husband involved that means he is just a guy wanting a piece of ass and will have a higher chance of trying to get my wife alone for himself. Whereas if a SM is perfectly ok with it being an MFM situation that may indicate that he has a higher chance of being a "for real" lifestyler.

So in other words, IMHO the guys that are not comfortable with it being an MFM with a husband and wife, then those are the last guys you should be inviting into your bedroom. So instead of accomidating the comforts of the SM, you as the couple should be doing what you want to do and if the SMs don't want an MFM situation they should just find their own girlfriends like everyone else.

Now if the real reason is HE feels awkward and uncomfortable with another man in the bed then that is a whole other story and a whole other issue and one that should probably be discussed and everyone should be completely open and honest about.

[LikeMinds321]

with iapr

LM

[Rockon]

I have done both also.
I find it incredibly hott bo be with a woman that can take on two guys!

[JTcamp05]

I kinda think the lady takes the lead on this one, If you really wanted him to join...look over at him with those cum f**k me eyes..lol I'm thinking he'll join in (I would)....

[webbguy]

I love to be watched , but I also am bi and love to play with all.

[screaminggood]

Thanks for the feedback. In reference to Iapr and LikeMinds, you have a valid question.

In one case, I could understand why he felt that the guy might prefer to not have another man there because that particular single male was a "should have been a porn star" type of a guy. He really could make movies with both size and his take charge attitude. And before anyone gets defensive for my husband and wants to get mad at the single guy for his attitude, you need to understand that I absolutely love being with assertive playmates. My husband of course knows that, so he did sit back and get one heck of a show that night.

I do agree that we're doing the selecting so he should be less concerned about what the single guy wants, and more about what he/we want. He's made references about enjoying the view so I know he really does like to watch, but we've also talked about trying dp when we find the right guy...so he can't be completely against a MFM?

[absingleman]

do agree that we're doing the selecting so he should be less concerned about what the single guy wants...

Not exactly true. Your husband should be more open with the single guys so they are on the same page. I know from experience that a big part of my enjoyment of swinging with couples is having the husband see me with his wife and sometimes direct me in what to do. But he has to be as comfortable talking to the single guy as you are having sex with the single guy. If he doesn't get to that comfort level, he will start to back away from swinging altogether. That may not be a bad thing, but it doesn't sound like something you want.

have fun out there and don't hurt anybody.

[jarioso]

I enjoy participating specially while DP, but sometimes I watch a little as well and she does enjoy having to cocks for her pleasure

[Mr.Essex]

My favorite sex act is the "mirror game". Long story short, me and the husband pick a side (for some reason, the husband almost always picks his wife's left side) and try to copy each other's movements as accurately as possible. I don't get to do it very often, but women seem to enjoy it.

[screaminggood]

I'd be curious to know which side of the bed most men sleep on compared to which side they'd pick in a sexual encounter. I'm willing to bet my husband would take the right side because he sleeps on that side so most of our sex starts with him on that side!