Single Men: Do you prefer the husband just watch, or join in for a MFM? - Page 2

inDenver · 01-15-2009, 01:32 AM

I am straight and have no problem at all doing a MFM. My feeling is that as long as we don't "cross the streams" LOL I am just fine.

athenagirl · 01-18-2009, 02:21 AM

Hi "In Denver"! I am not too far from where you are... so welcome!

Athenagirl

magnum · 01-19-2009, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by athenagirl

Hi "In Denver"! I am not too far from where you are... so welcome!

Athenagirl

Hello to both of you, I am in the area as well.

Oh by the way...Athenagirl, nice perspective on "finding love in the life style".

athenagirl · 01-19-2009, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by magnum

Hello to both of you, I am in the area as well.

Oh by the way...Athenagirl, nice perspective on "finding love in the life style".

Thanks, Magnum... we'll see how that goes! I'm definitely a hopeless romantic and a sex maniac in search of someone who can satisfy both sides of me! Ha ha!

inDenver · 01-26-2009, 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by athenagirl

Hi "In Denver"! I am not too far from where you are... so welcome!

Athenagirl

Hello there Athenagirl...I tried to send you a PM to say hi but....looks like you have them turned off.

Chicup · 01-26-2009, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by screaminggood

I'd be curious to know which side of the bed most men sleep on compared to which side they'd pick in a sexual encounter. I'm willing to bet my husband would take the right side because he sleeps on that side so most of our sex starts with him on that side!

Eh?

Hes doing it wrong. You have sex on the side that SHE sleeps on. No one likes sleeping in the wet spot after all.

gribber · 01-28-2009, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by screaminggood

I've enjoyed many single men, but my (straight) husband always chooses to watch instead of join in for a MFM. He thinks it would make the single men feel awkward and that the single guy would find it less enjoyable.

So, single men, is he correct? Do you have a preference between the husband just watching or joining in the fun?

We do MFM and I am the husband. I love watching my wife getting excited and in the moment so sometimes I watch. Other times the both of us pleasure her at the same time. She always wants me close by which is good with me as well. We tell the 3rd that husband is straight so there has never been a problem.

kenmann · 04-04-2009, 07:49 PM

To me it's more awkward for the husband to just watch. I think it's a look more fun if everyone participates and has a good time.

ENCRYPTEDTX · 06-11-2009, 10:24 PM

As you are talking to single guys, this topic should come up.

I always ask couples what there boundaries are, and where the left and right side of acceptable is. I have been with couples who wanted to experience a condom free night of fun with a young Drug/Disease free (with paper proof) single guy. We chatted back and forth and I was tested and got my clean bill of health from the Doc and showed I was interested and very serious and we talked about ground rules.

NO KISSING. That was an intimate act and only they shared it.

My stance and view is that a single guy is there for the pleasure of the couple. If you want me to join in a threesome, that is fine, your rules remember, or if he would like to watch her pleasured thats fine too....

Since you asked what we prefer, I prefer JOINING him in giving her pleasure. I want to be a part of the massage, the touch, the teasing and the pleasing.

I think if you chat more with single guys and find the guys who have experience with couples, you will find lots of guys are secure sexually and straight that can work in tandem with the MR to give you the pleasure of 2.

Kyle

DE_BBC · 06-14-2009, 10:38 PM

I'm ok with whatever, if the husbands want to join in that's fine(no-bi stuff)
or..if he wants to just sit back and watch ...hey, that's fine too.

In my experiences the hubby usually wants to watch me with his wife.

mack5689 · 08-09-2009, 11:16 PM

i got to say i almost prefer the husband to be involved more fun that way, plus i love to see a women take on two men at a time

JDApopka · 08-11-2009, 05:12 PM

I really enjoy watching my wife with other men and I think the better they are the more I like to watch. She has complained before that I didn't join in before. So now when she wants me she just tells me.

I don't understand the no kissing thing mentioned above. To me the foreplay and kissing is a big part of the whole sexual experience. but to each there own

Rackir · 08-11-2009, 06:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by screaminggood

he should be less concerned about what the single guy wants, and more about what he/we want.

That sound there..,,thats the sound of a nail being firmlly stuck in the head.

What do you both want, figure it out and then go find a playmate to match and enjoy!

adventure37421 · 08-11-2009, 09:27 PM

I don't really have a preference as to whether the husband joins in or not as long as everyone is comfortable with and agrees to the arrangements.

I have, however, been pretty uncomfortable with one situation where the husband and I started out fondling his wife, sucking her tits and using toys on her pussy as she stroked my cock and sucked on his. He has problems getting and maintaining an erection due to being on blood pressure medications. This day, he was unable to attain an erection despite her best efforts and sat back to watch as I fucked his wife. I usually enjoy being watched and have no problem with it, but I couldn't help feeling as though I was upstaging him.

xyzzy07 · 08-11-2009, 09:48 PM

When I've been the second M, the husbands have participated, although they always hung back for a while (as did I) for variety. I've never had the experience of just being watched by the husband for the whole session, and imagine it might be a little odd. Is it?

One of our friends likes to direct the action. LOL.

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01-15-2009, 01:32 AM	#16 (permalink)
inDenver Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 12 Location: Denver, CO Status: Single Male	Re: Question for Single Men I am straight and have no problem at all doing a MFM. My feeling is that as long as we don't "cross the streams" LOL I am just fine.

01-18-2009, 02:21 AM	#17 (permalink)
athenagirl Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 56 Location: rockies Status: single female Swing Lifestyle Name:athenagirl	Re: Question for Single Men Hi "In Denver"! I am not too far from where you are... so welcome! Athenagirl

04-04-2009, 07:49 PM	#23 (permalink)
kenmann Registered Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 5 Location: U.S. Status: Male	Re: Question for Single Men To me it's more awkward for the husband to just watch. I think it's a look more fun if everyone participates and has a good time.

06-11-2009, 10:24 PM	#24 (permalink)
ENCRYPTEDTX Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 112 Location: Virgina, NY too! Status: Single MALE Swing Lifestyle Name:encryptedtransmission	Re: Question for Single Men As you are talking to single guys, this topic should come up. I always ask couples what there boundaries are, and where the left and right side of acceptable is. I have been with couples who wanted to experience a condom free night of fun with a young Drug/Disease free (with paper proof) single guy. We chatted back and forth and I was tested and got my clean bill of health from the Doc and showed I was interested and very serious and we talked about ground rules. NO KISSING. That was an intimate act and only they shared it. My stance and view is that a single guy is there for the pleasure of the couple. If you want me to join in a threesome, that is fine, your rules remember, or if he would like to watch her pleasured thats fine too.... Since you asked what we prefer, I prefer JOINING him in giving her pleasure. I want to be a part of the massage, the touch, the teasing and the pleasing. I think if you chat more with single guys and find the guys who have experience with couples, you will find lots of guys are secure sexually and straight that can work in tandem with the MR to give you the pleasure of 2. Kyle

06-14-2009, 10:38 PM	#25 (permalink)
DE_BBC Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 86 Location: Delaware Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:delbbc	Re: Question for Single Men I'm ok with whatever, if the husbands want to join in that's fine(no-bi stuff) or..if he wants to just sit back and watch ...hey, that's fine too. In my experiences the hubby usually wants to watch me with his wife.

08-09-2009, 11:16 PM	#26 (permalink)
mack5689 Registered User Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 2 Location: northeast Status: singl male	Re: Question for Single Men i got to say i almost prefer the husband to be involved more fun that way, plus i love to see a women take on two men at a time

08-11-2009, 05:12 PM	#27 (permalink)
JDApopka Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 198 Location: Apopka, Fl Status: Couple	Re: Question for Single Men I really enjoy watching my wife with other men and I think the better they are the more I like to watch. She has complained before that I didn't join in before. So now when she wants me she just tells me. I don't understand the no kissing thing mentioned above. To me the foreplay and kissing is a big part of the whole sexual experience. but to each there own
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08-11-2009, 09:27 PM	#29 (permalink)
adventure37421 Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 25 Location: TN Status: M. Male	Re: Question for Single Men I don't really have a preference as to whether the husband joins in or not as long as everyone is comfortable with and agrees to the arrangements. I have, however, been pretty uncomfortable with one situation where the husband and I started out fondling his wife, sucking her tits and using toys on her pussy as she stroked my cock and sucked on his. He has problems getting and maintaining an erection due to being on blood pressure medications. This day, he was unable to attain an erection despite her best efforts and sat back to watch as I fucked his wife. I usually enjoy being watched and have no problem with it, but I couldn't help feeling as though I was upstaging him.

08-11-2009, 09:48 PM	#30 (permalink)
xyzzy07 Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 79 Location: NC, USA Status: Male of a couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ScorpioSphinx	Re: Question for Single Men When I've been the second M, the husbands have participated, although they always hung back for a while (as did I) for variety. I've never had the experience of just being watched by the husband for the whole session, and imagine it might be a little odd. Is it? One of our friends likes to direct the action. LOL.

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