Single Males, would you consider soft-swinging with a couple?

[K&JIntimates]

Any feedback from couples who've had experience with this is welcome.

Recently K and I experimented with single males. We were in an area open to all and were joined by two men. It was a baby step as we were open to them caressing me while we were err....occupied, something I enjoyed very much.

My question is....

If a couple approached you (a man), explaining that the wife would like to touch and caress (and maybe a little more) your parts under the towel but made it clear this was their first time and didn't know where the threshold of comfort was would you be willing to play?

~J

[Chicup]

This is a question only a woman would ask.

Woman: Hey guy wearing only a towel, can I touch your penis a bit, but I don't' want to do more?

Man: Yes.

You would have to make it clear how far you are looking to go but other than that, I rather doubt a single male at a swing club would answer no.

[good times]

I agree with Chicup, as long as I find a woman attractive, I am all for her playing with my private parts. Granted, I am sure I would want to take it all the way, but I can't imagine any guy saying no even if their were limitations to how far it could go.

[BiloxiCouple]

I would be negotiating. If you touch me there, then can I touch you here?

[Mr.Essex]

I'd be ecstatic.

[maniaco333]

That should be a new experience and a turn on for any single guy. You got to remember that guys will spend a lot of money buying girls drinks just for the hope of getting some making out or sometimes just a phone number. Why would would any guy turn this chance down when they know that if they play cool they would be on the short list of candidates whenever you guys are ready to progress to the next step and go all the way.

Mr Maniaco333

[eurotrash]

I get numbers and can take girls home without even buying them drinks... even in China.

That being said, if the girl was cute, I'd consider it, but I'm into that sort of thing. A vanilla guy might get freaked out.

Originally Posted by maniaco333

That should be a new experience and a turn on for any single guy. You got to remember that guys will spend a lot of money buying girls drinks just for the hope of getting some making out or sometimes just a phone number. Why would would any guy turn this chance down when they know that if they play cool they would be on the short list of candidates whenever you guys are ready to progress to the next step and go all the way.

Mr Maniaco333

[jdavisauto]

I am a male half of a couple but was single a while back. Yes I did have limited play with ladies half of a couple but only if we click. I did respected the limits that was place on me and never violated those limits. Now if the lady half change the limits during play and all agree then yes we move ahead. Now as a x single male in the lifestyle I found out a long time ago that if I follow the limits of a couple that soon the limits would be lifted and then we could get more involve. Rules of a single male. Respect both male and female of the couple. Respect the limits set down by the couple. Include the male in the conversation with the female.

[crazi429]

I it would be fine with me but I would hope it went futher.

[fun4Ds]

[QUOTE=K&JIntimates;350948]

Any feedback from couples who've had experience with this is welcome.

O.k. I cant say we have experience with this. Are you just wanting to cop a feel ?

Recently K and I experimented with single males. We were in an area open to all and were joined by two men. It was a baby step as we were open to them caressing me while we were err....occupied, something I enjoyed very much.

So they were touching you but you didn't touch them ?

My question is....

If a couple approached you (a man), explaining that the wife would like to touch and caress (and maybe a little more) your parts under the towel but made it clear this was their first time and didn't know where the threshold of comfort was would you be willing to play?

I cant say how I would feel. I mean, suppose you had fun and left me sitting there with a hard dick and then left I know me, I would be thinking why did you leave That would probably bother me... I would be wanting more.

I think I would definitely want to be let in on this touching play and know you just wanted to feel a dick before hand. (pun intended)

One of my stumbling blocks I found in swinging was knowing for sure if a woman has definite interests in me sexually. Mixed signals happen. Soft play has its difficulties understanding where the limits are. Letting me know for sure where to stop would be a good thing before hand. I have to admit, Mrs fun wouldn't stop with a feel, there would be more.....

Personally, I like to be touched. It shows me a woman is interested.....Touch me anywhere. Touch my face,shoulders, chest and we would have to talk. Spank my ass and I will presume you know how to get wild,and want to.. I would think if a woman had my dick in her hand there would be more....

I would be careful giving a signal like this, without communicating that this would be all... Now if you approached me and said "I have never felt another mans cock and just want to get a feel under a towel". I would say NO. I don't want to get worked up and then just play with my own thing. Some guys will take anything, and jack off in the crowd. I'm just not that way....

[maddog92307]

I'd be fine with it.

[DominicanPapi]

If it happened to me i think Ill just go with the flow, if they asked to be played with then thats what ill give them, i really don't think any guy would reject this request...

[K&JIntimates]

I guess I should have added that what I have in mind is stroking said cock to climax (with lube!). It's a huge turn on to watch and feel a mans responses to someone else stroking his stuff. Depending on how he behaves he would have a good chance for being invited for more.

[K&JIntimates]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

So they were touching you but you didn't touch them ?

It was a Sunday night and pretty dead. We had gone into one of the big playrooms without a door and it was just us for a long time. It was when I was on top that two guys came and joined us. I was okay with them touching me but was a little nervous about doing likewise. I wasn't sure how far I wanted things to go and I wanted to talk to K before just leaning over and sucking the guy closest.

To date a MFM has just been sexy pillow talk. It's hot to think of two men at once but, I'll admit, the reality makes me a bit nervous.

That's why I'm interested in baby steps see related post.

[Chicup]

Ok so what you are really saying, is how will a single male respond to you giving him a hand job to completion at a swing club?

Now I know without a doubt you are really a female posting, only a woman could ask such a question. It wouldn't even occur to a male posing as a female to post.

Is water wet?
Is grass green?
May I give you a hand job single guy?