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This is a discussion on Finding a single guy who will swing within our boundaries within the Singles & Swinging forums, part of the Swingers Topics category; Hello all, 1st post here. I have a couple questions and hopefully some folks can give me guidance. My g/...
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10-15-2008, 12:27 PM
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| Registered User Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 2 Location: Pennsylvania Status: Couple  |  Finding a single guy who will swing within our boundaries Hello all, 1st post here. I have a couple questions and hopefully some folks can give me guidance. My g/f and I have never had a 3 or 4some before. As a result of our vigourous and imaganitive sex life, I came up with the idea of wanting to watch her suck off a guy while I'm doing her. Nothing else though. She's up for that, but not any sort of couple's play. Questions: are "swinging" places a good place to find a single guy, who will respect and understand those boundries? How likely is it that another couple would let the husband just take part? Ok, so what am I forgetting, missing etc. being a newbie? Be gentle though.  |
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10-15-2008, 01:04 PM
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| mildly abnormal  | Re: Hello there, Am I in the right place? Hello, I think you're in the right place  We've had lot of success with single men. Our method is to seek them out on singles sites. Things that are geared towards swingers don't tend to be overly singles friendly and if you go for a couple you'll have the wife to worry about - and since she's not part of your plan here, why bother with the added stress? You might have some luck with clubs that allow single men, but I'm not a club goer so I don't really know. Someone is sure to come along with clubbing stats for you though
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10-15-2008, 01:11 PM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 813 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple | Re: Hello there, Am I in the right place? Welcome! I'm a fem club goer--and yes, if the club allows single men (especially "select" single men) then you'll be able to find the man you're looking for. Just tell him the ground rules up front. You may or may not find a couple where you could borrow the male, but I agree with the previous poster---there are so many good single men willing to help out, why bother to look for something you're not interested in? |
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10-15-2008, 03:56 PM
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| I wish I may  Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 3,302 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful | Re: Hello there, Am I in the right place? Quote:
 You won't have a problem finding a single guy to do this for you with a little prior discussion. Even a couple. Eventually you may find that you want the wife to jump in to with a prior discussion also as to what everyone is comfortable with.
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10-20-2008, 09:36 PM
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| Shy but brave  Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 209 Location: North Dakota, where freezin's the reason! Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:MrEssex | Re: Hello there, Am I in the right place? Quote:
"Swinging places" have two advantages over Internet sites or personal ads: You can have a face to face meeting with your target and you can assume that your partner for the evening is actually interested in meeting a couple. Of course, this is assuming that your (you and your wife's) desire is to have a one-off. Otherwise, my personal recommendation is for you to find a pet website, then make your intentions known to the regular posters. One hint, though: Make sure that your site is appropriate for your desires. Literotica, for example, has a very efficient Personals board, but the amount of time needed to establish a connection can be daunting.
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10-25-2008, 10:25 AM
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| Has Left the Building Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 172 Location: Arvada, co Status: couple | Re: Finding People who will swing within our boundaries Quote:
the good news is they will say and do anything to get a blow job  . If you tell them that they can get a blow job but they will have to be a gentleman and respect your your boundries 99% of them will do it. | |
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