More Orgasms From Other Man?

[lott]

I was wondering how would the man in a couple feel if another man makes his wife have more orgasms than he has and they were also more intense than anything she has ever felt before from sex?.

Do you think this will cause a break in the marriage or will it make it better?.

I ask this because I know some techniques that can do exactly what I described but I don't want to cause a rift in a relationship. When I do it with a single woman I don't have to worry about her significant other getting mad at her constantly thinking about the orgasms I gave her but if it's a couple I don't know if this is the same case.

The techniques I use require a lot of exercises on my part to build strength and can't be accomplished in a week and some men might not even feel like doing the work and I'm worried the women might try to cheat with me to get these orgasms and I'm not into that. I really want to try some group sex with this knowledge because I love to see a woman in total ecstasy but I don't know if it's a wise thing to do.

Can anyone help me out?.

[Chicup]

Do you get them beyond where they are growling like a enraged she-beast filled with an animal hunger and lust which pulses uncontrollably through her body more like an electric current than muscular contraction?

Thats the best I can do, so if you can do better I'd like to subscribe to your newsletter.

[Fox n Hound]

I bet the Fox would love to meet you, bring it on. Do you live east of the Mississippi, I will bring her to you? I love to watch her enjoy herself.

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[LikeMinds321]

Well this is a new twist. More often I see threads from people who are worried that they won't perform as well as their playmate's spouse, or can't give their playmate what they hope for.

I don't see why you should be concerned about your great ability to please a woman. Why would you take yourself down a notch merely because you don't want to come out being better at providing an experience a woman may not be getting from her hubby?

Hopefully, you will find couples to play with who would get great pleasure from what you have to offer.

How about telling us what your technique is? I'm curious to know.

I could only see your eagerness to please becoming a problem if using your technique comes across as one-upmanship, or bragging. In that case you could turn couples off, but I don't see it having any chance of breaking up a marriage, they may only want to break it off with you.

Women wanting to cheat with you because of your technique seems simple enough to handle...don't cheat with them.

Again, I think you are needlessly concerned.

Have fun!

LM

[screaminggood]

From the fem half: what makes you think that you're better than the husbands? While your technique may be awesome....so are the husbands, and the hubbies have the advantage of knowing us for years so they know all the little details that make things perfect for us.

Could you break us up? No. Would I want to cheat with someone like you? No. Because you're misunderstanding that swinging for couples is like an extra play toy--it's playtime for the couple. The majority aren't in it to find satisfaction that they can't get at home---those are the cheaters and they aren't usually swinging couples.

[bbarnsworth]

This is a problem? How?

Seriously, if my wife has amazing orgasms with other men, I'm all for it. I know she's coming home with me. She might love the orgasms she got from you, but she loves _me_. I wouldn't feel inferior. Rather the opposite; I'd be so happy we'd gone into the lifestyle knowing my wife had had such a mind blowing orgasm. Woohoo! I'd also be wanting to ask him what it was he was doing to make her orgasm like that. Maybe I could learn something new!

If the woman in question suggests cheating to get more of it, drop her. I seriously doubt you'll run into this though.

Related; before my wife and I got into the lifestyle, one of the concerns she voiced was becoming obsessed with someone she played with because he was a phenomenal lover. I told her that was fine with me, so long as she didn't fall in love with him and stayed in love with me. If she was obsessing (in healthy way) over him, it would just prove to me she was having a great time, and I'd be trying to set up more dates with him for her to enjoy him more!

I agree with LikeMinds321. Let us in on this technique!

[Chicup]

I bet his technique involves bacon...

Everything great has bacon in it.

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by Chicup

I bet his technique involves bacon...

Everything great has bacon in it.

An old favorite commercial of mine is that one for Beggin Strips dog treats, where it's first person from the dog's perspective frantically looking around for bacon. When he comes across the package, he frustratedly says "Ahhh! I can't READ!" bloody hysterical!

Imagine women coming in to a club smelling bacon, and all of them hunting this guy down

[lovefest04]

I too am eager to hear an explanation of the technique. This doesn't invlove chocking or standing on ones head does it.

One concern I would have is that Lott sounds a bit cocky. That would surly be a turn off to my wife and probably many others. I can just hear the conversation over a drink, "Well Ms so and so, I'd love to have sex with you, but I'm so good at giving women incredible orgasms that I'm concerned your husband might get jealous" come on get real. Swinging is about pleasure.

However, I think there is an interesting point here. The idea that your SO might have a more intense orgasm while swinging. I think that is quite possible partly because swinging takes us out of our daily routine. (well maybe its a routine for some )

When we're on vacation our sex improves in frequency and intensity, when we're out swinging our sex improves in frequency and intensity. I think that's part of getting away from the daily grind, concerns etc that daily life imposes.

Certainly the evenings swinging including the preparation, build-up, hours of flirting, the taboo, the excitement and freedom all add to the ultimate orgasm. I never saw my wife nearly pass out from an orgasm until we swung. I vividly remember her eyes rolling back in her head, her squirting and then gasping for breath. I far as I could tell, mentally she wasn't even in the same room as we were.

Was I jealous? NOT AT ALL. Could I have done that on my own? Maybe, but I hadn't in 25 years together. Do I want her to experience that again. YES as often as she can. She deserves it.

So Lott, get over yourself and if you have a technique that works as you say, use it and enjoy, I know we would.

Now, share man share.

[realcplub2]

Ok, there are two takes to what the OP wrote, the first..

it must be someone NEW, because they dont understand the full dynamics of what this lifestyle is to MOST couples.. Would a male half of a couple be upset at seeing his SO, in the throughs of a spine tingling toe curling earth shaking orgasm..

Doubtful!

Second take is simply, If this person has the "super power"they suggest, why ask the question here.. instead write a book, and sell a million copies as the " Make her cum like never before" self help book.. Teach the technique in a DVD and sell a million copies of That..

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by realcplub2

Ok, there are two takes to what the OP wrote, the first..

Both involve bacon I'm sure.

But seriously, there is a certain absurdity about the original post which makes this hard to take seriously.

I mean really, if he is THAT good, then those single women should be clawing and begging him, pleading for those life altering orgasms, and he wouldn't worry about turning swinging wives into cheaters out of lust for his magnificence, he wouldn't have the time for it.

So lott, maybe you are all that, but I wouldn't stress over it. I've been told by a few swing partners that I was their favorite, but none have called me begging behind their husbands back.

[lott]

Thanks everyone for your answers I really appreciate it.

To make it clear I'm not arrogant just aware of the knowledge I have and how it effects people so I want to make sure I'm not causing problems instead of bring pleasure.

Also, I know what swinging is about but you have to remember we are still humans and crave something that gives us enormous pleasure regardless of how our logic tells us we are supposed to behave. This is why drugs like cocaine and crack tears apart families and relationships(not to make it sound like I'm a drug). I'm sure the person who created cocaine had no idea he would be creating such a problem for the world. He thought it would revolutionize medicine.

I'm just wondering what the outcome would be if I slept with someone who is in a loving relationship but has never had the type of sex that I can give especially when the average person doesn't do some of the things that I do.

As far as selling the knowledge, I'm not in the business of selling sex info right now, maybe when I get older but I want to be known for other things first but I will give a hint. It's all about using the different parts of the body before you have sex, concentrate these chemicals that are made in the body in the sex organs, and when you are about to have intercourse, use you muscles and this means standing up NO lying down.

Another hint if you have to eat whole foods and certain nutrients to allow the brain and sex organs to function at their maximum capabilities. Doing certain Exercises daily will make this even more greater.

I took years to learn how the body works and the last year to master my techniques so I can't give it all in one post. It's too deep to learn. Again I'm not being arrogant just telling the truth.

Anyway thanks for your answers and not being disrespectful.

[Fox n Hound]

Folks, this dude may be serious.

Not a slight chance that you are of an Asian or Indian culture is there ? My bet is Asian.

I bet the Fox will want your phone number and address.

Signed the Hound

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by lott

I'm just wondering what the outcome would be if I slept with someone who is in a loving relationship but has never had the type of sex that I can give especially when the average person doesn't do some of the things that I do.

Does this mean you've not yet done any swinging?

And I don't consider single men (you are single aren't you?) playing with single women as swinging.

If you have never played with a couple - never done any swinging - this would put a new slant on why you started this thread. You may have no clue how it is sharing a bed with a couple.

I doubt your techniques are unique, in fact I've seen numerous sites on the net selling videos, books, and tapes instructing men how to pleasure women to "whole-body orgasms." Bet you've seen them too...maybe purchased a few.

LM

[slevin]

If someone gave Katrina more pleasure than I can, I'd be happy and I'd be asking him what he did so I can do it too