Single and Married-as-Single Males

[clem]

It's a late Saturday afternoon and we've invited a single male over to share a pipe and fuck my wife. She's high and happy with a big cock in her. He's paid for the beverages and for her.

The Single and Married-as-Single Pool is Vast.
Two years ago when we met and married, I had fun just watching her with a guy, like the old days, (we're talkin' now about the 70's with two other wives and a niece and a few other men's wives) having a good time. I'd take pictures. Send the photos off to him in an email -no charge. About Guy III in the Lifestyle, she was pissed off: she'd be sore and cranky for days.

Then, I started listening to her. It takes time to Produce a wife: She's got Hair, Nails, Shoes, Cleaning, Booze, and much miscellaneous. When a single or married-as-single guy is Dating in the straight world, I know, you know, we all know he's Spending. A Lot!

The Kinds of Approaches we get:
In the last coupla' days, for example, I was contacted by a Married-as-Single guy from a town an hour away whose swinger-wife was "away on Sabbatical." His Deal was do my wife now while he's in town on business and then we all get together when his wife returns with the Holy Grail (right!). I gave him the Rate Card and wished him a Happy two days in our town when he was Shocked by my inhospitality, I suppose. My opinion is that I had just been in contact with a Mooch.

We charge Single Guys. Married Guys, too. They still are required to meet pre-requisites for cleanliness, coolness, size, attitude and they must have money to spend. I still make photos available at no other cost as an option.

The Adult LifeStyle for us is a Bitchin' Couple.
The Guy is Great; has some qualities very different from myself, things that I enjoy and admire. The woman, someone we can relax into. When any of us calls, "honey?" we all respond, "what?"

[TNT]

Originally Posted by clem

He's paid for the beverages and for her.

I'm not sure what you're trying to say.

Are you saying that you "charge" men to have sex with your wife?

Could you explain a bit better?


Teresa

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by TNT

Are you saying that you "charge" men to have sex with your wife?

Even if it is not what he meant, after re-reading his post that sure is what it sounds like!

[clem]

Read it again. It's not a piece that I could write without re-writing and I think it's pretty clear. Single men and Married-as-Single men have Social Options -they can go bowling for example, but they may pay to rent the shoes, the ball and certainly the lane. There is no Free entertainment in this world of Disney.
I do not expect this to be a Popular post. I wrote it in response to everything else I've read here from Single Males and Couples in discussion of What's Fair? How To? Descrimination Against.

[fun4Ds]

We charge Single Guys. Married Guys, too. They still are required to meet pre-requisites for cleanliness, coolness, size, attitude and they must have money to spend. I still make photos available at no other cost as an option.

Is that legal in your area ?

[clem]

No, it is not; particularly in our area. The CBS series Swingtown profits on material representing activities between consenting adults who might be legally prosecuted in their Areas. The television series is produced, and sponsored by major corporations, legally, for large $$ Profit. Is the contradiction of the Law not clear to you?
Again, the subject is How We have Answered the Question of the Single and Married-as-Single Male. My purpose in writing it was for legiitmate discussion in the Forum.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by clem

No, it is not; particularly in our area. The CBS series Swingtown profits on material representing activities between consenting adults who might be legally prosecuted in their Areas. The television series is produced, and sponsored by major corporations, legally, for large $$ Profit. Is the contradiction of the Law not clear to you?

Umm, no. It is not.
If I understand your argument, then any act of violence can be justified because they do it on TV too.




Either way, being a libertarian at heart, I don't have a problem with the direction you two have taken with your play. If it works for you, then that's all good. It's not for us, but that doesn't really matter either.

[2inVT]

I don't get it. Are you charging people to fuck your wife? I don't think that's legal, really.

[clem]

I don't get it. Do you let single and married-as-single men have biblical knowledge of you wife for free ?
I've responded to your follow-up comment already. Follow the thread from the top of the page; reading to the bottom of the page and you're sure to find it.
And here's a Bonus Question because you seem to be as average and honest as anyone I've ever read here: How Does Our Approach to (for brevity) "Single Men" Make You Feel ? I think you're angry or maybe confused? Maybe I'm missing it; tell me.

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by clem

I don't get it. Do you let single and married-as-single men have biblical knowledge of you wife for free ?

From this statement, and your signature line, I'm guessing you have certain spiritual beliefs. In a number of faiths, extramarital sex is considered wrong, so I'm guessing (?) that you feel you must "sin" in order to come to appease your sexual fantasies. What I don't see is how the exchange of money for your wife's sexual services would make it any better. Frankly it seems worse.

Personally, I don't buy that there is something inherently dirty about sex outside of marriage. Seems a cruel joke, to be designed to have healthy sexual urges for multiple partners, and then be told you're going to hell if you trust God's design. Hmmm...doesn't make sense to me.

[Alura]

I think you're mistaken about Swingtown being profitable, Clem. By the last episode most of the sponsors were gone.

Mr. Alura

[screaminggood]

Are you expecting a strong reaction, either positive or negative, to your post? Or are you attempting to advertise your wife's services in a free medium? To be honest, I understand that what one writes seems perfectly clear to him/her at the time, but what you wrote doesn't seem have a clear objective.

[socolais]

You ask, how do your activities make us feel. I wouldn't want to be around any of it. I'd be concerned about others associating us with that behavior. I don't like the thought of my wife "putting out" for any financial benefit. If a single offered to pay for the hotel, we would not let that offer influence the decision to play.

You're welcome to choose your activities and we can choose ours. You don't need our approval just as we don't need yours.

I'm wondering about the perceptions of the "single men". They're paying for sex and expect entertainment value in exchange for their dollars. I know how people treat rental cars and I'd have to think some of that same lack of concern would be in the minds of the men. When my wife is with another man, I know she's there because she wants to and he wants to - and I'm not suggesting you guys are any different about that. I think our lack of exchange of dollars is a DEMONSTRATION that our fun is based soley on "want to" and no one is being exploited. I suspect, many single men trying to find their way through the maze of couple dominated swinging expect an arrangement similar to what you provide. I think that expectation is a big part of what causes their personal interaction to be generally less than desirable to some other couples.

How do you avoid feeling like you're a pimp???

[Chicup]

I'm pretty much completely confused as to the point of this post, and I had to read the original one three times to fully comprehend it.

The only conclusion I can come to is that its an add, after all the Swing Lifestyle profile is linked.

[fun4Ds]

What about couples, do they have to pay for everything also ?