Being a couple have you ever went to a swingers party as a single?

[jdavisauto]

I and my lady half been going to a swingers club for about 9 years and we told each other that we would never go without the other. So far to this date we have always been to the clubs as a couple and always played as a couple. Being a couple have you ever went to a swingers party as a single and never told your other half?

[BiloxiCouple]

Yes I have partied without her. And I have always told her whatever she wanted to know before and after. All she normally asks is did you have a good time?

[lotsoffun201]

Unless you agree to playing without the other there in advance, only bad things can happen.

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by jdavisauto

I and my lady half been going to a swingers club for about 9 years and we told each other that we would never go without the other. So far to this date we have always been to the clubs as a couple and always played as a couple. Being a couple have you ever went to a swingers party as a single and never told your other half?

Never have and never would unless she explicitly said it was ok for me to party without prior knowledge. Anything else would be cheating.

[mervsmom97]

Personally I wouldn't party without the Mr. Swinging to me is about a shared experience. Doesn't mean I would go into a seperate room, but I don't know if it would be as fun for me if I didn't know that hubby was having a good time too. But thats just us..

[two4youinswva]

Mrs two4you went to the local club party one weekend when I was out of town on business. Yes, I knew, and encouraged her to go. She mainly went to help out the hosts with their assorted duties.

She was miserable the whole night.

She said it wasn't the same without me there, and she just felt lost being there alone, even though she knew most of the people attending on at least an acquaintance level.
She didn't play around with anyone, and said she probably wouldn't do it again unless she was needed as a volunteer.

When we attended the next party together, quite a few couples made the comment that she looked like a lost puppy the month before.

[sexcupid]

I went to a party by myself last year. My sweetie encouragd me to go. We had planned to go together, he ended up having to work late, and didn't feel like going after that. It was a house party, not a club.

The part of your question that really had me going was the 'never tell your other half'. Why on earth wouldn't you tell them?! Particuarly if you are going some place where people know you as a couple. Most people won't lie for you (ie: not mentioning to the wife that you were there alone...and it probably wouldn't be a malicious thing...'hey where were you last week...mr. davis was here...').

[LFM2]

Dave and I come and go as a package. When I was working some late shifts, I've often told him to go without me, but he won't. I don't think I'd go without him either. It just wouldn't be the same. We enjoy being with each other and we enjoy watching each other.

I do know many couples who go to M & G's without the other. We know that each has the permission of the other and there's nothing wrong with that, but it would just seem unnatural to us.

Holly

[JustMrsJ]

I would not think of swinging without JustMrJ. Unless I give him permission and he tells me where he is going. JustMrJ said the same about me.

[VANudistcpl]

To us going without the other and then not telling is just plain cheating.

[Brian and Jo]

We have both gone to parties as singles for example when Brian was travelling or I was visiting family. We always know what the other is doing and it is fun to tell each other what happened.

Jo