Singles with a Single-Partner... ?

[SecretAsianMan]

Here's something which I've been wondering about ... how about swinging with two single people who play together as a couple?? Do couples NEED to be married (in your opinion) ... and at what level of commitment should this pair of singles be at before you'd consider being with them??

[TNT]

For us...no, couples do not need to be married. As long as they are both single and having fun, their level of commitment is of little concern to us and we see nothing wrong with two singles hooking up as swing partners.


Teresa

[good times]

with Teresa. A couple is a couple to us, in fact, whether they are actually married or not is not a question that usually comes up before we play.

[lustylearning]

Originally Posted by good times

with Teresa. A couple is a couple to us, in fact, whether they are actually married or not is not a question that usually comes up before we play.

Backing up the agreement train...

[slevin]

Definitely dont need to be married for us to play with them, but we have not played with any couples that weren't in a committed relationship of some sort. Everytime we started talking to a couple that was two single people, or a 'fuck buddy' kind of a relationship, the guy always tried to see if Katrina would meet him without me. Even after we made completely clear that we only ever played as a couple. It has happened every single time, so we pretty much don't bother talking to anyone who isn't in a committed relationship anymore.

Of course that is meeting people online, might be different at the club.

[des1re06]

Singles are fine - doesn't really matter on their commitment level.

I see singles who play as a couple in big demand.

The ones who pretend to be single and are actually cheating on spouses and pretending to be a single "couple" are the problems. We've run into those and steer far away.

Mrs. D

[two42lovers]

We play with singles, and a "play couple" is basically that - two singles. All the normal issues apply. Playing with committed, in love couples is different than playing with two singles - different energy.

We put together our single friends now and again. Many times when one of our girlfriends is coming over (especially if she is more on the straight side of the spectrum) we'll also invite a mutually agreeable boy-toy and make it a foursome.

[aster]

thanks for the thread. as a single, it was good info to hear.

[SecretAsianMan]

I was inspired the number of threads I'd been reading about some couples will only swing with a single gal as a threesome ... or another married couple. Finding a "single guy" is so "shooting fish in a barrel"-easy that it's somewhat difficult to find folk who want to play (they can afford to be more selective).

Where my only experience as a "couple" has been when I attended events while escorting a gal-friend (sometimes they were "girlfriends" ... others, they were "fuck-buddies"... occassionally they were simply single gals who happened to be going to the same event as I was and desired a male escort as either a car-pool buddy or the party was "couples" only and they needed to find someone to double-up with)

All of my other experiences have been as a single-guy... and while they've been very nice - I seem to have a much more fulfilling experience when I'm there with "a gal I've brought"

[JustAskJulie]

We would play with a couple in that situation so long as we were comfortable with both of them. As Desire01 said, the ones we avoid are the ones that are married to other people and playing together (regardless of their relationship status).

[quivers4me]

I have a single male friend and we play sometimes as a couple.

[LFM2]

Singles who play as couples do not need to be married to each other. It doesn't make any difference to us!! As long as everyone has fun!

We just don't want these couples married to other people.

[vegaskid]

IMHO - To really be true swingers, you need to be married and both husband & wife should always swing together, at the same time, not separately.

Just my opinion

[NumbskullsX2]

Originally Posted by SecretAsianMan

Here's something which I've been wondering about ... how about swinging with two single people who play together as a couple?? Do couples NEED to be married (in your opinion) ... and at what level of commitment should this pair of singles be at before you'd consider being with them??

We prefer couples that are married or in LTA, but "in the heat of the moment" we've made exceptions. Both parties still have to meet our expectations for personality and appearance.

One thing we DON'T make exceptions for are "couples" where the woman is clearly the males "ticket" to a party. We can usually tell when that's the situation, as the woman will be somewhat older or less attractive than the male she's with, and there won't be any history between them except attending clubs and parties. Guys who try that usually aren't invited back.