Question about age... Am I too old?

[lb4u1952]

[b] I Am A Male 59years Old ,who Stays In Pretty Good Shape,i Would Have To Play Alone,no Wife To Join Me,am I Out Of Luck--probably To Old To Be Included? P/s No Boasting But Most Women Say I Look Younger.
Len

[jdavisauto]

Why do you think 59 is too old to play. Hell I will be playing up to the day I die. On my death day I would want to be playing. No 59 is not too old. At less not for us.

[fun4Ds]

Welcome aboard

No Len, your not two old. There are complications with being the single male though.

I'm just saying, don't let any discouragement lead you to believe its always the age issue. Single males are important but the competition is there. Its about getting out and meeting people. You have to put yourself out there as a trusted single male.

[SecretAsianMan]

Welcome & best of luck to you...!

[LFM2]

Oh Len... if you only lived closer to me. (Or us to you!)


We loved our single male!! Unfortunately for us and fortunately for him, he decided to seek a relationship with a vanilla woman.

[WeUse]

My uncle last Christmas at 82 was complaining that he doesn't get the action he used to, but his wife tells me they renew his viagra prescription about once a month. Hell, I'd settle for that at 62.

Go for it!!! - Besides, I don't know about you, but unless I'm just interested in getting my rocks off, I prefer people with some "mileage" who've paid their dues and developed some compassion and concern for others.nm

[lb4u1952]

thank u for the reply---i don't know where your at,but you sound likj a fun couple. i use to play with a couple but they moved to arkansaw. my email is lb4u1952z@yahoo if you ever want to i/m me or email me direct. have a great f'n day

[meforyou]

Your not old,just a few years older than us ,We are in are mid 50s and still goulg strongJust a little dry spell for the last 6 monthsm No 3 moved, But keep at it,your 59 years young

[jjtrindc]

I'll echo what the group is saying. If you don't get out there, you'll never know. The great thing about the lifestyle is that there are a lot of people interested in a lot of things. I sure hope we're still active in 10 or 20 years. Go to meet & greets that allow single men. Post ads. Get someone to take good photo's of you (or learn how to use a tripod). Be respectful and hopefully the opportunities will present themselves.

[JustMrJ]

My wife is 42 and has played with quite a few gentlemen around that age... 55 to 65 is not uncommon at some of the parties we attend.

This goes for the ladies also... I'm only 39, but I have enjoyed the company of many ladies 20 years my senior... and they can be SOOO HOT! ::p:

I want to die with a smile on my face from the orgasm I just experienced.

[lb4u1952]

can always travel

[Mr.Essex]

As a single male, I can tell you that your age is the least of your issues. Stamina, maybe, but some women love a man with a silver head and a silver tongue.

[PB&J]

Ok, I'm no spring chicken at 48... but while I have had some delightful experiences with men in their 40's, I have had a GREAT time with men up around 60. "It's not the years, baby, it's the mileage," as someone who is now a VERY hot 65 once said.

[Farcanal]

I too am a 60yr old male in this lifestyle and I endorse all that has been said here.

What I have found over the latter years is expanding your circle of friends can be difficult that's all.

Try local clubs and parties- can be hard to get into but worth it when you do. Many couples like an older man because we are not so pushy or arrogant. Move slowly and go with the flow.

It will work out great in the end.

[JustMrsJ]

Age doesn't matter in swinging. Quoting my husband I have played with men older or younger then me. Some of the men who are older has more energy then me.