Question for Single Females

[justakidd2]

I am single and very interested. I am definately out of the relationship scene at least in terms of something long term. I am older now and want to explore more alternatives - I guess my drive is kicking in!!

[Red Lady]

I have never been married, but I'm not sure just what constitutes a "serious relationship." I have had (and still do have) long-term lovers whose company I enjoy (in and out of bed) but I've never felt any need to go further. I don't feel "possessive" about men, and I don't like men feeling "possessive" about me.

And as was said up-topic, I don't want kids.

[ohash01]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

You see where I'm going with this question then right? The idea that a woman who has just come out of a serious relationship is going to be a lot less likely to be looking for another one... and if anything would be interested in a situation where her sexual needs can be met while being around friends... without any pressure for more than that.

Does that sound about right?

This is pretty much exactly where I am. I would like to "date" someone, but I am by no means looking for another relationship right off the bat. I'd like some time to play around and have fun. Although I am finding it difficult to keep a date around once they find that out. I am sure that everyone is played out on Dark Knight references by now, but I constantly feel like saying "Why so serious?"

[quivers4me]

Originally Posted by Nickii_Lee

I had no idea single females could swing - I thought it was just for couples. I am sooooo glad I was wrong! I get to be naughty as I want, no strings attached. No dating dilemmas - just pure satisfaction! Also, since I'm single - this is all about me and fulfilling my fantasies. I have no obligations to anyone else. And, being in my peak, this is GREAT!

Don't get me wrong, if I met someone I wanted a relationship with, I would purse it. Just not going to sit on my couch waiting for it to happen - why not enjoy myself in the meantime.

I so agree with this. I'm not looking for a relationship right now but I don't want to sit out on a big part of my life. I'm sure in the future I'll want to be in a committed relationship again. Not sure how that will work out with this aspect of my life but it will be something I'll have to figure out then.

I have a single male that I have become good friends with and we play together on a weekly basis if not more. With both of us being in the LS we know exactly what the boundaries are. We play as a couple at times but in no way are obligated to do so. I do my thing and he does his.

As far as now, I'm just enjoying my sexuality and the sexual freedom swinging brings me.

[orchid84]

You could say I got into swinging because I was tired of trying to find a guy. I've never been in a serious relationship or really any kind of relationship and I wanted that. Now, I'm tired of the constant BS and I don't get that from couples. They are honest, say what they want, and give in return. If some would have said a year ago I'd be where I am today I would have told them they were rediculous. I don't regret one bit of it and although I'm new to it I can't wait to experience more of it. I just wish I hadn't waited until I was 24 to discover it.