Maried but Single

[robertmilt2000]

She has no problem with me doing it and that was stablish
from the begining but was also very serius about her not
involment. I love my wife and I respect her opinion "she is
wanderful". I am 35 and been involve with swinger couples
before but, I also know how hard is for a single swinger
in Fort Myers Florida only accept couples, anibody have any
comments or ideas



ps. I am from Puerto Rico and a veteran (former Green Beret).

[DragonsLair]

I think you're going to find it difficult to find couples to play with. Even though you say you have her permission to play, there are those that will call it cheating.

You might try letting your prospective playmates know they can contact your wife to verify that you have her permission to play without her. I'm not sure if that'll work, but it's a start.

Good luck.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

[LIZA]

Well since there are so many SINGLE men trying to swing and not having a lot of luck, chances are you are going to have two strikes against you.............a man swinging alone plus a married man

To be honest, I find it pretty hard to believe a wife would say she is not interested in swinging but say go ahead honey, bang away. Most marriages don't work that way

[ciscosv]

Originally posted by LIZA
Well since there are so many SINGLE men trying to swing and not having a lot of luck, chances are you are going to have two strikes against you.............a man swinging alone plus a married man

Word.

[kycpl4bifem]

Originally posted by LIZA
Well since there are so many SINGLE men trying to swing and not having a lot of luck, chances are you are going to have two strikes against you.............a man swinging alone plus a married man

To be honest, I find it pretty hard to believe a wife would say she is not interested in swinging but say go ahead honey, bang away. Most marriages don't work that way

We agree 110% we would never concider a single married man under any circumstances! We had a cpl like this approach us at a club she only comes along to explain to cpls he is interested in that it's ok and she has no interest in swinging. We told them he would be welcome to join us when pigs fly!!!!
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[ciscosv]

Originally posted by kycpl4bifem
We had a cpl like this approach us at a club she only comes along to explain to cpls he is interested in that it's ok and she has no interest in swinging.

Did he have a permission slip for his wife to sign and return? j/k

[kycpl4bifem]

Cute. No permission slip they go to clubs together he aproaches cpls and has her there to tell them her story. And give verbal permission. She just sits in the common area and hangs out. Weird cpl. But hey what ever floats your boat.

[OhioCouple]

robertmilt2000,

Hmmmm, first off it is inappropriate to put Married and Single in the same catagory.

A marriage is a "UNION" which means there must be two or more people. MF, MM, FF or whatever the politcally correct terminology is these days. With that said, in your case you are admittedly part of a "union" , meaning two or more people.

I don't buy it for a second that the little lady is going to sit home, be perfectly content, while you get your feathers groomed.

I would highly suggest that you read this thread.

My own opinion on cheating husbands

This thread will give you the overall opinion of a male who is part of a committed couple and how they are viewed by swingers.

And since I am in a particularly foul mood this evening, this post script just ticks me off. Whew....needed to say that.

ps. I am from Puerto Rico and a veteran (former Green Beret).

Lori

[bimrdcpl]

Amen Lori!!!!!

Could not of said it any better myself. All of it!!
Dawn

[robertmilt2000]

Originally posted by robertmilt2000

She has no problem with me doing it and that was stablish
from the begining but was also very serius about her not
involment. I love my wife and I respect her opinion "she is
wanderful". I am 35 and been involve with swinger couples
before but, I also know how hard is for a single swinger
in Fort Myers Florida only accept couples, anibody have any
comments or ideas



ps. I am from Puerto Rico and a veteran (former Green Beret).

Thank you for all your coments but already started swingin and for the one questioning my Military just ask
or let me know if want some pic.

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by robertmilt2000
Thank you for all your coments but already started swingin and for the one questioning my Military just ask
or let me know if want some pic.

I wasn't questioning your military per se, I don't need to see a picture, I am surrounded by military personnel and know what most uniforms look like. What I questioned is the reason you chose to include that in your post script.

I would like to ask you another question though. Since you have started 'playing around' do those that you are playing with know that you are married?

Lori

[jakelaw]

I can relate to your problem. My Wife loves the "Hotwife" aspect of the lifestyle and enjoys hunting solo. She, however, is not turned on by swinging as a couple. She always encourages me to have my on fun as well. The problem is that its a hell of a lot easier for amarried woman to go solo than a married man. What's a guy like me to do, but be labeled with all the "cheating married man" styereotypes.
I love my Hotwife, but it does make things a little hard for me.

[OhioCouple]

The difference here Jakelaw, would be that your wife is knowledgeable your play partners could meet her, talk with her and know that she was fully aware of your intended relationship with them. She doesn't have to participate in the sense sexually, but the participation in the other factors separate you from the cheating people. I've heard of many couples that do swing solo, but the only ones I have heard that do it, began by swinging together and decided that either it was cool to do it or that they didn't want to be a part of the two or more couples interaction.

As a suggestion, why not go to a club together where you would be established as a couple and meet people that you could 'hunt' out and swing with separately? Swingers will be more accepting knowing that the spouse is a party to the scene whether they participate in the actual engagement of sex or not. If and when you have met others that have become comfortable in knowing that you both swing separately, clubs probably will no longer be a tool in order to meeting with others.

Lori

[Quin]

As a single female, I stand steadfast on my rule to never ever indulge without both members of a couple present. Lets face it, people lie and people really lie when they think they're going to get some action. IMHO, anyone who swings with a married person who's spouse is in no way involved in swinging is opening up a big ole fat can of worms and I hate worms.

Quin
()()

[jakelaw]

Fortunately, My wife is willing to be present with me an another woman. My situation is reallly of my on making as I really am turned on by the "Hotwife" experience. I shared my fantasy with her and she loves the thrill and its resulted in a real boost to our sex life. She came very close to going all they way but her "friend" could not "get it up". I guess being with a married woman who is in an open marriage can be intimidating.
So we are relatively new to the entire concept of swinging/Hotwife etc.