What's Up with Swinging Single Males? in S. Ohio

[6ezluvin9]

I always find it interesting , that when we receive an inquirey from single men , the only thing that they think is necessary is a hard cock. Many have no photos avaiable, but will send one soon, no available phone numbers , but expect yours,lets meet for coffee, lunch or dinner is too expensive. They love women in sexy clothing , but show up needing a shave , haircut, clean clothes and can barely afford a cup of coffee.But would be glad to meet you at a motel after you get a room . And there sorry but their registered as free members on SLS , but can be reached on yahoo or aol, etc. etc.
And please if you do meet with them they seem to think that they can leave any personality , that they may have , at home .
Or am I just to damn cynical.

[des1re06]

First, welcome to the board.

I'm sorry to hear you are frustrated in your search, and I can assure you there are some nice single men out there. You just have to weed through the bad ones to get to the good. Alot like dating really.

Do you go to meet and greets or clubs? Ask other ladies for references.

Good luck!

Mrs. D

[sweet_tna]

Hello. It seems you share a lot of the same frustrations as some of our board members. This is a great place to vent these frustrations and discuss ways to deal with them.

=)

[JustAskJulie]

That's just many of the reasons listed why so many couples don't bother trying to find single males online.

to the board

[sexcupid]

I htink I'm a little cynical too...but we are a couple that are currently free members on SLS...but we do have pics...and prefer to be contacted on Yahoo. lol

I will agree that there are some (be they singles, m or f, or couples) that stress hygiene, and being well dressed...but may not realize these things include themselves...lol

As for the invite to coffee instead of lunch or dinner...well...I don't know that I would flat out tell people that I don't want to pick up an entire dinner tab. I was under the impression most people that want to meet for coffee or just drinks do so for reasons such as time constraints...or if things aren't clicking or going well...then there is less of an obligation to stick around for hours while you wait on dinner. Did these guys actually say these things or are they motives/reasons you have assigned them in your frustration?

I'm from Southern Ohio...when I was a single fem, I had no problems with the single guys there...but I'm about a decade or more out of the area...so maybe attitudes have changed?

[fun4Ds]

I suppose you could look at it that way but then again...

The last time our current single male play partner came over. He was needing a shave ....actually so was I. He needed a shower ... but so did I. We had a frozen pizza because I cooked.. and we were all hungry.. and it was on the menu of the day. He was totally worn out and I felt like shit.....

Mrs.fun treated us like kings... fucked us, sucked us, and put us to bed ! Well... actually the poor bastard slept on the futon .





He is a Military Doctor on leave from the middle east... We support our troops
I was recovering from surgery... My wife loves me and I love her.

I'm just sayin..... you know, make lemonade

Oh yea, we met him on-line