Frustrated but Understanding

[des1re06]

Yes, on the pic. It's not just about cock, but the whole package. Are you really going to meet a lady for a date in a t-shirt?

Please fix the spelling errors. Copy and paste your text into MS Word and run spell checker.

Put some of what you just posted in your profile. Most ladies I know want a regular single male.

We're here to help you succeed.

Good luck!

Mrs. D

[Magemouse]

Thank you I did as you suggested with MS Word i think it helped alot still working on new pics i did post one more of me dressed up at school i think it looks decent would love any extra feed back on it you have all been so helpful to me. I doe appreciate it also any comments the words in my profile or helpful suggestions on what not to or what to add?

[screaminggood]

Magemouse,

You still have a spelling error "allot" should be "a lot."

The new picture is better, but you honestly still need a better one. Consider having a professional picture made, or find a friend that is an amateur photographer that could take a bunch for you to choose from.

Also, you might want to get a little more personal in your profile. Add something that makes you stand out from the crowd....you might want to take your strap-on fantasy and expand it for instance.

In my opinion, as a fem who does single men, I'd lose some of the "you're in control" verbage. Use it once but right now it's in there too often. The object is to make every word count, not to be reassuring repetitively. Like I said, it's my opinion, others may see it differently.

[Bama0468]

And smile in the new pic!! I know my wife looks at a smile and eyes, and I also know some of us guys like to be BEHIND the camera rather than in front and I having braces tend not to smile much but at least try to grin wide

[NumbskullsX2]

I'm guess I'm one of those who sees it differently.

I think he should leave his profile alone. It's fine as is.

What IS the use of fine tuning somebody else's profile, anyway? You're not changing that person, only substituting your words for your their own. If you're going to go to all that trouble, you might as well substitute your picture for theirs as well. Especially if you're better looking than they are.

Sooner or later, everybody meets somebody whose profile doesn't match the real "them" Usually they turn out to be older or heavier than their profile says they are, or their sexual interests or "relationship status" is more wishful thinking than fact. Whatever the nature of their deception, it's still a waste of our time to "meet" somebody that exists only in the past, or in the mind of somebody else.

Magemouse-

You didn't ask for a profile review, but it looks like you're getting one anyway. I feel your profile gives everybody who reads it a good idea of who YOU really are. I'm pretty certain that anybody who contacts you after reading it will not be dissapointed, or feel you've "promised more in your profile than you could deliver in person" The picture you've chosen for your profile is just fine also. It's true that the pics of you giving a "gang symbol" or standing in a convenience store may not appeal to some "Ivy League" people, but that's not what you're about anyway, is it? Just let your profile be a reflection of your real self, and you'll be fine.

[Bama0468]

Originally Posted by Magemouse

Hello i am not sure if i am posting in the right area but it seemed it had no other group related. I am a single Male in the Mississippi area i understand that this makes me one in a billion and usally overlooked but i have been looking for a way to enjoy the company of someone else for over a year now i just learned of this site and SLS so i gess there are a few good steps but if i could get some feedback on what else i might do to not be overlooked so much i would apprechiate it im not trying to push or anything just very fustrated.

right here is where he asked for help, all we were doing is giving input, No it does not change "WHO" he is, but he was asking how to not be so overlooked, Its Just our Humble opinion. But he has to do what is right for Himself

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

I'm guess I'm one of those who sees it differently.

I think he should leave his profile alone. It's fine as is.

That makes two of us.

I've been following this thread from its infancy and the only thing I thought Magemouse should change in his profile was adding what he mentioned here:

Originally Posted by Magemouse

I have come to understand theat my one true want (some would say need) in life is almost as obtainable as finding a dimand the size of a car in my backyard. that want is to find a Famale Dom that understands my background and can enjoy me fully

Adding what you are looking for sexually is always a good idea in any profile. Magemouse has since changed his SLS profile so that it mentions his interest in S&M, Bondage, and being a sub.



I don't think he needs a "smiley" picture, or needs to correct every spelling error. Making these changes would not protray him as accurately.

Your profile is just fine. Those who contact you will have the most genuine image of what to expect when meeting you because YOU have written the profile and selected pictures that you feel best describe who you are.

LM

[Magemouse]

Thank you I would like a better picure but as i said i crashed my computer and lost my 20 some picures i had (worning to all allways back up your info) lol i am working on a pic of me in a suite also maybe a few of me at a club or just relaxing.

[Clandestine]

I see this a lot on the sites I frequent in the UK.

The only way I've seen single males truly "successful" is by joining in, being themselves and not giving up after rejection.

There are lots out there who think all they have to do is contact a million people and they're "in". It doesn't work like that

In my experience, people have to get to know each other in order to be "successful" longterm and that involves effort.

Or go to a few swinging clubs and do it that way.

Personally I prefer to swing with my friends, rather than random strangers....unless I'm in a club so I meet people socially before anything swinging wise happens. It's also a safety thing, coming from a single female