Trying to be the "M" in a MMF

hotcpl4unfla · 04-06-2008, 08:15 PM

The wife and I are getting a divorce,and the couple we played with has been hinting that I get together with them for a mmf. I am really into the idea,and since they had a falling out with my wife too, the meeting is not going to be indiscreet. I know it is real soon after a breakup like this,but I am really sexually wound up,and I am really comfortable with them. It's been a month since I have gotten so much as a kiss,and I want some playtime before I get back in the saddle. Is this wrong? I am being selfish right now....physical pleasure ,no emotional commitments.I guess what I am wondering is there any moral issue in playing with a couple you played with before now as a single male? The wife is amazingly sexy. She and I talked the other day,and she told me she has great oral skills ....lol. I told her Id like to test her claim. Her husband is also all for it,I did speak to him as well.

**LFM2** · 04-06-2008, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by hotcpl4unfla

The wife and I are getting a divorce,and the couple we played with has been hinting that I get together with them for a mmf. I am really into the idea,and since they had a falling out with my wife too, the meeting is not going to be indiscreet. I know it is real soon after a breakup like this,but I am really sexually wound up,and I am really comfortable with them. It's been a month since I have gotten so much as a kiss,and I want some playtime before I get back in the saddle. Is this wrong? I am being selfish right now....physical pleasure ,no emotional commitments.I guess what I am wondering is there any moral issue in playing with a couple you played with before now as a single male? The wife is amazingly sexy. She and I talked the other day,and she told me she has great oral skills ....lol. I told her Id like to test her claim. Her husband is also all for it,I did speak to him as well.

There's just couple things I don't understand. You've played with them before and you have no idea about her oral skills? WOW!

I'm not the moral police, nor do I even play one on TV.

If this was me in my relationship, I'd keep clean until all the 'T's were crossed and the 'I's were dotted on those divorce papers for obvious reasons (children, property, monetary assets). JMHO.

**two4youinswva** · 04-07-2008, 12:05 AM

Based on the information you're giving, I don't see any problem with it at all.

However, LFM2 makes an outstanding point relating to the divorce side of the picture. Depending on where you're at in the proceedings, you could possibly end up hosing yourself big time.

Best of luck to you!

**screaminggood** · 04-07-2008, 09:39 AM

I agree with the previous posters. If it won't hurt you legally, enjoy the offer. If it will hurt you legally, explain it to the couple and make a date for the night the x's are signed.

***JustAskJulie*** · 04-07-2008, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by screaminggood

I agree with the previous posters. If it won't hurt you legally, enjoy the offer. If it will hurt you legally, explain it to the couple and make a date for the night the x's are signed.

hotcpl4unfla · 04-07-2008, 02:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LFM2

There's just couple things I don't understand. You've played with them before and you have no idea about her oral skills? WOW!

I'm not the moral police, nor do I even play one on TV.

If this was me in my relationship, I'd keep clean until all the 'T's were crossed and the 'I's were dotted on those divorce papers for obvious reasons (children, property, monetary assets). JMHO.

LOL....We didn't swap back then.It was just same room and girl play.

hotcpl4unfla · 04-07-2008, 02:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by screaminggood

I agree with the previous posters. If it won't hurt you legally, enjoy the offer. If it will hurt you legally, explain it to the couple and make a date for the night the x's are signed.

OK..I agree.In all honesty,it wont hurt my situation legally,so I am going for it!

jnbsmokin · 04-07-2008, 02:35 PM

All I can say is enjoy!!!!

**LFM2** · 04-07-2008, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by hotcpl4unfla

OK..I agree.In all honesty,it wont hurt my situation legally,so I am going for it!

Good luck then and I hope you have one helluva time!!

hotcpl4unfla · 04-07-2008, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by LFM2

Good luck then and I hope you have one helluva time!!

Oh,its going to be awesome .The wife is amazingly sexy ,and since I am not bound to any restrictions,anything goes!! I cannot wait!!

NakedInSeattle · 04-10-2008, 09:40 PM

Go For It!

vonnegut136 · 04-16-2008, 12:22 PM

Go for it. Don't sweat it.

it'sso · 04-17-2008, 11:32 AM

I'd be careful, at least until the ink is dry on your divorce papers.

Chicup · 04-21-2008, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by it'sso

I'd be careful, at least until the ink is dry on your divorce papers.

THIS.

Divorces get ugly, don't give potential free ammo to the other attorney.

NumbskullsX2 · 04-22-2008, 09:43 AM

Which "M" are you trying to be in this MMF, the M who does most of the pushin' or the "Lucky Pierre" M?

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04-06-2008, 08:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
hotcpl4unfla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 168 Location: Tampa, Florida USA Status: Couple	Trying to be the "M" in a MMF The wife and I are getting a divorce,and the couple we played with has been hinting that I get together with them for a mmf. I am really into the idea,and since they had a falling out with my wife too, the meeting is not going to be indiscreet. I know it is real soon after a breakup like this,but I am really sexually wound up,and I am really comfortable with them. It's been a month since I have gotten so much as a kiss,and I want some playtime before I get back in the saddle. Is this wrong? I am being selfish right now....physical pleasure ,no emotional commitments.I guess what I am wondering is there any moral issue in playing with a couple you played with before now as a single male? The wife is amazingly sexy. She and I talked the other day,and she told me she has great oral skills ....lol. I told her Id like to test her claim. Her husband is also all for it,I did speak to him as well.

04-07-2008, 12:05 AM	#3 (permalink)
two4youinswva Better than Ice Cream Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 2,253 Location: va Status: Couple. He posts, She reads Blog Entries: 1	Re: Trying to be the "M" in a MMF Based on the information you're giving, I don't see any problem with it at all. However, LFM2 makes an outstanding point relating to the divorce side of the picture. Depending on where you're at in the proceedings, you could possibly end up hosing yourself big time. Best of luck to you! __________________ The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. -Walter Bagehot

04-07-2008, 09:39 AM	#4 (permalink)
screaminggood Julie's Helper Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 547 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple	Re: Trying to be the "M" in a MMF I agree with the previous posters. If it won't hurt you legally, enjoy the offer. If it will hurt you legally, explain it to the couple and make a date for the night the x's are signed.

04-07-2008, 02:35 PM	#8 (permalink)
jnbsmokin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 174 Location: maryland Status: couple	Re: Trying to be the "M" in a MMF All I can say is enjoy!!!!

04-10-2008, 09:40 PM	#11 (permalink)
NakedInSeattle Loving life (style) Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 421 Location: Seattle, WA Status: Couple SLS Name:NakedInSeattle	Re: Trying to be the "M" in a MMF Go For It! __________________ "The Engineer says the glass is too big" Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. YES is the answer!

04-16-2008, 12:22 PM	#12 (permalink)
vonnegut136 Registered User Join Date: May 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Florida Status: Single male	Re: Trying to be the "M" in a MMF Go for it. Don't sweat it.

04-17-2008, 11:32 AM	#13 (permalink)
it'sso Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 74 Location: Lakewood, Ohio Status: married male	Re: Trying to be the "M" in a MMF I'd be careful, at least until the ink is dry on your divorce papers.

04-22-2008, 09:43 AM	#15 (permalink)
NumbskullsX2 Has Left the Building Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 204 Location: Columbus, OH Status: Couple	Re: Trying to be the "M" in a MMF Which "M" are you trying to be in this MMF, the M who does most of the pushin' or the "Lucky Pierre" M?

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