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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,489 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun
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If so, why ? What happened ? Did you regret it later ? Did she get upset and give you a bad mark to others ? Is it possible for a rain check ? Some would say we are pretty fortunate with this scenario, but we canceled a date last night . We could have done anything, and anything might have happened. We were to pick up our date and visit a house party. Yes, this single bi female is hot, very hot. I can't show you a picture, but you would be saying, "Oh my god, YOU SAID NO!!" (we will explain our reasons and what happened later) Its something we like to do. We date single bi females, not just sex all the time. Sometimes we could do anything together. Movies, dinner,shopping even a day in the boat. Heck, a day at the zoo or a museum is cool also. We don't just find em and hope to have sex, well.... I mean.. you know, but,there is more to it than that sometimes. Then we also have a few friends that may just come over, and sex is what its all about. Would you, or have you, canceled out on a Single Bi Female. Would you, or have you dropped everything, and went out of your way just to have a chance with the UNICORN ? |
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful
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Hot body is one thing. But there is, and always will be the most important thing - PERSONALITY. Now if it is sex without knowing the personality that is another issue entirely |
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| Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp
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We have turned down a few. Their are a number of reasons, but primarily we aren't interested in playing with singles and Mrs. GT isn't bi. For the most part they have taken it pretty good, with no repercussions that we know of.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 847 Location: Dallas TX Status: couple
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You always have to do what works for you as a couple. Will you regret it? Maybe, but chances are, if you could attract this one, you can attract others...so it wasn't that difficult of a decision for you two after all!
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
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So tell us the story Fun4Ds, what happened that made you cancel out?
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| I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female
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I have some guesses going, so I'm eager to learn more about what you discovered. Had MrsFUN met her privately, or spoke to her on the phone, before you set the date for all of you to meet? LM | |
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| Active Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 19 Location: Chicago Status: Single Male
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I get turned down by single females of all sorts all the time. It's part of being a guy. I always say that if you never get turned down, you're not approaching enough women. |
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 74 Location: Michigan Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:ABSingleMan
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This is not a swinger story, but it did involve a possible threesome, so it probably counts. I had a friend I'll call C.C. who was born with a body most women pay hundreds of thousands of dollars to get. Well, C.C. was a stripper and made more money than most of the other women at the club. Since she had just turned 19, that didn't make her too popular. Well, C.C. was my next door neighbor and her roommate was the girlfriend of one of my buddies that had been sent to Somalia, so I looked out for the two of them. There was an after hours party at the club and I went there with C.C. and her roommate. C.C. gave me an intense lap dance a I noticed a couple of girls watching. When C.C. left to talk with the manager, the other girls came over and asked me out. A couple of nights later they both showed up and said they would rather stay in and watch movies. I didn't realize they were the stars of the movie, and things started to get good. Then they said they had to freshen up, so I went to get some lemonaide. As I walked by the bathroom I heard them say that they wanted to make sure C.C. heard us and knew they both were doing her man, and that would teach her for taking their spot in the club's rotation. When they came out, I was dressed and told them they had to leave because I had to see a friend that was in trouble. When they left, I made sure they saw me knock on C.C.'s door. I sat down and told them everything that happened. I felt a little stupid, because C.C. said I should have had sex with both of them, then mentioned that I was going skiing with C.C. and her boyfriend that weekend, but would see them again monday if they were free. I love my life. LOL Too bad things like that don't happen in Michigan. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 814 Location: Virginia Status: female half
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Yes. We have a standard - if a potential play partner can't have a drink with us at a bar, they're just a little too young... We were sincerely complimented by the interest though. So sweet |
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
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We've now had two opportunities with a single female that have gotten passed up. The first was not really intentional (and I think I've posted it here before) but there was a hot female that I saw at the club one night and I knew she'd be Pet's type. I stopped her and told her so and got to talking to her. That was when I found out she was a single female. She was there with another couple she felt comfortable with (if I remember right - it might have been a single guy she came with - either way she wasn't alone). After talking with us for a bit, she said she needed to return to her friends for a few and she'd be back. As soon as she left another couple we'd been talking to earlier in the night moved themselves to our table. We were interested in them too and things just happened to work out with them. If we were ever given another opportunity with that single female we'd be all over it. The second was just a few weeks ago. Pet had seen her and thought her hot. The party host had asked Pet who he thought was hot and he mentioned her. Again, we had no idea she was single female until after that. She was very cute but the more he talked to her the less attractive she became to him. So, we took a pass. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 489 Location: Central Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:swyngcpl
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We have never been approached by a single female, hot or not and we have never approached one either. So it goes without saying that we've never turned down an offer. We see very, very few single females and the few we have met seem to be a bit wacky. I think the total is actually three and there's been no real attraction that would lead to a date. There is this one that I find so hot that I can't actually talk to her...and stuttering and drooling will rarely make you look like a reasonable choice for a few hours of wild sex. Trace |
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We have never turned down an attractive single bi female. In fact we've never actually been in a position to say yes or no with a single bi female we both found attractive. We'll hopefully get a chance to say yes sometime in the future |
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