A change of heart

[3sumff]

At one time, I wouldn't even have considered the idea of a single man. Let alone any man having sex with my gf, but I have had a change of heart. Since we have been swinging and I have seen my gf have sex with another man is exciting. It was very exciting to see my gf giving me oral pleasure while a male was pumping her from behind.
We still haven't gotten together with a single male. The actual experience happened when we were with a couple. I am sure we will have that single male someday. The idea of it has sure excited us both.

[sweet_tna]

That's great that you've had this change of heart. What, if I may ask, inspired this change? Best of luck to ya'll in your quest for the single male.

=)

[Chris&Amelia]

Interesting that you feel this way. A threesome can be very exciting.

How does she feel about this?

[3sumff]

I would have to say that it was seeing my gf get as much as she could get. Unfortunately for us we still haven't had a swing moment (with a couple) that was out of this world. Back to the "Male Aspect". My gf is an absolutely sexy women and we both think it would be fun to have her play with both of us. Not only that...she just learned that she doesn't really like playing with woman all that much. Especially kissing...light kissing OK, but make out sessions forget about it. She also doesn't like when a woman goes down on her, but she doesn't have a problem with herself. Thanks for responding to the post...sweet

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by 3sumff

I would have to say that it was seeing my gf get as much as she could get. Unfortunately for us we still haven't had a swing moment (with a couple) that was out of this world. Back to the "Male Aspect". My gf is an absolutely sexy women and we both think it would be fun to have her play with both of us. Not only that...she just learned that she doesn't really like playing with woman all that much. Especially kissing...light kissing OK, but make out sessions forget about it. She also doesn't like when a woman goes down on her, but she doesn't have a problem with herself. Thanks for responding to the post...sweet

Part of the whole swingning experience is figuring out what does and doesn't work for you. Some things you know you won't be up for from the get-go. For example, Mr. Sweet is absolutely positively certain that any male bi stuff is NOT for him.

But I'm still trying to figure out where I fit on the bi spectrum . . . and it's been a lot of fun finding out.

So as you get a better sense of what you're into, it'll help to improve your experiences.

=)

[TNT]

Originally Posted by 3sumff

I would have to say that it was seeing my gf get as much as she could get. Unfortunately for us we still haven't had a swing moment (with a couple) that was out of this world. Back to the "Male Aspect". My gf is an absolutely sexy women and we both think it would be fun to have her play with both of us. Not only that...she just learned that she doesn't really like playing with woman all that much. Especially kissing...light kissing OK, but make out sessions forget about it. She also doesn't like when a woman goes down on her, but she doesn't have a problem with herself. Thanks for responding to the post...sweet

That's one of the great things about swinging, you can try one thing and if it's not exactly what you like, you can move on to something else. It's always nice to see those who are open to trying all the different aspects of swinging.


Teresa

[MRSfun]

Yes its true, things do change from time to time. Not that they have too, but its best when you can move from one level or experiance, to something more. If it dosent feel good then you have at least learned something.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by TNT

That's one of the great things about swinging, you can try one thing and if it's not exactly what you like, you can move on to something else. It's always nice to see those who are open to trying all the different aspects of swinging.


Teresa

Always keep an open -mind you never know what might fall into it!

[JDApopka]

Oh we only do mfm it's very exciting for us. i love to see her pleasured by other guys

[3sumff]

Originally Posted by sweet_tna

Part of the whole swingning experience is figuring out what does and doesn't work for you. Some things you know you won't be up for from the get-go. For example, Mr. Sweet is absolutely positively certain that any male bi stuff is NOT for him.

But I'm still trying to figure out where I fit on the bi spectrum . . . and it's been a lot of fun finding out.

So as you get a better sense of what you're into, it'll help to improve your experiences.

=)

To answer the "Sweets": I am by No means gay or bi. Not that there is anything wrong with that, but for me personally I don't want the "Man" factor for me. I want it for her! With that said, I have learned that my gf doesn't care to play with woman, so I figured since we have talked about it before it would be interesting to have two men. We both seem to get excited by it. All I truly care for is her getting all we can from every experience. I mean why not! She wants to sit back while I play with a woman without her involvement. She would just like to sit back and enjoy the show...the thought really excites her. Thanks for everyones response....didn't think anyone even care.

[lotsoffun201]

We have done the MFMF thing numerous times as well as the FMF thing many times. Only once did we do the MFM thing, and I must confess that it was by far more of a turn on for me, than any of the others.

I guess I am like some of the other posters, but my SO mentioned she did not like it as I did but would be willing to do it again. We have never had a full swap, and I don't think right now either one of us would be into it.