Difficulties of a SM meeting couples

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by NumbskullsX2

Ok, I see what your saying...But then that raises another question, "why wasn't he picking up on the fact that she wasn't into it?"

He's only met two couples so far, and this was one of the two. He's only played with one couple. He's a newbie.

We've been swinging for 4 years and even now we meet people we think are interested in us, and they aren't; and we meet people we don't think are interested in us, and they are.

LM

[Ellyanne77]

On a side note, it could of been the guy that got a weird vibe. I know that if I let a man lay with my wife then I have to be completely comfortable with him as well.

[8inches]

Originally Posted by iapr

In scenario described I would say that is probably more of a case of the couple not knowing what they were doing and not having their shit together rather than anything you said or did. It sounds to me like this is some kind of fantasy thing for the husband and the wife isn't bought in on it at all at this point. You could have had the looks of Brad Pitt, the dick of John Holmes and the charm of James Bond and it wouldn't have mattered. This issue is with them and not you..

Yeah, I had a different situation where the husband was overzealous with his wife. He invited FOUR guys to a hotel with his wife. We met at the hotel bar and the wife was flirty with the guys but I think she just didn't want four guys. So he asked two of us to leave - apologizing for his wife when in reality it was him not being in touch with what his wife really wanted....

[SCcpl40]

Sometimes single men think with one head when they should be thinking with two. That may be where the saying "two heads are better than one" came from. For MFM, it's all about the woman. The seduction of being the center of attention is overwhelming. Keep focused on the objective, which is the woman, don't let the "hard" head cloud your vision which could be either one. The moment it's not about her, you're going down in flames.