where do i start?

[Dynamar]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Single on single is swinging just because you are in the lifestyle. No. Not in my opinion.

Your opinion about "swinging" appears to be biased to a single persons view.

Just as yours is biased to a coupled person's view.

[ourrockstarlife]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

I agree with what you said with the exceptions of the areas I have highlighted in your quote.

Swinging is still largely a couples activity. That is about as "complete" as it gets. If we want a single it is because we want it.

Easy to find a single male/female? Yes and no. Everyone still has to be compatible. And the elusive unicorn is difficult at best.

Single on single is swinging just because you are in the lifestyle. No. Not in my opinion.

Your opinion about "swinging" appears to be biased to a single persons view.

I think that most people twist the idea of swinging to fit their own agenda. Swinging is defined as the practicing exchange of partners, especially spouses, for sex. If you are single, and have sex with other single people, i don't think you can consider it swinging.

As for the topic at hand:
DJ and I tend to make our encounters with singles infrequent. Most of our single playfriends are only "single" at times, mostly because their significant other allow them to play alone. In our experience ( not the law, as most opinions are not, so please refrain from lighting me up ) couples allowing single women into their bedroom on a frequent basis USUALLY end up with a disaster. (we have a couple we have been friends with that have a court date pending over this kind of situation)

Perhaps the "unicorn" truly is a fable. Is it possible to enjoy a NSA relationship with a single female? I don't know, but based on what I have observed, we prefer to stay away.

For us, it is couples only, and the occasional single male (once in a blue moon)