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[Thrax]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

...you can always look cool sitting by yourself sipping a latte and reading a book...

Been there, done that. Well, tried that. The "looking cool" part was somewhat problematical. Wash my hair or leave it insouciantly greasy? Should I grow the goatee again? Or maybe I shouldn't have been reading the "I'm a guy: Why I don't ask for directions, sartorial advice, or for the definition of sartorial" book.

...you might even meet a cutie sitting next to you.

LM, you are soooo cute because you are soooo naive. Well, really, you have a few other admirable qualities also...actually more than a few..., but still...

But now that I consider it, maybe a pretentious and highly-caffeinated woman wouldn't be that bad after all.

Thrax

[absingleman]

Originally Posted by Thrax

Been there, done that. Well, tried that. The "looking cool" part was somewhat problematical. Wash my hair or leave it insouciantly greasy? Should I grow the goatee again? Or maybe I shouldn't have been reading the "I'm a guy: Why I don't ask for directions, sartorial advice, or for the definition of sartorial" book.



LM, you are soooo cute because you are soooo naive. Well, really, you have a few other admirable qualities also...actually more than a few..., but still...

But now that I consider it, maybe a pretentious and highly-caffeinated woman wouldn't be that bad after all.

Thrax

Thrax, my friend. After I've been posting here 3+ years you haven't figured out that most of the women I meet are highly caffienated? Come on. Alcohol = depressant. Too much and potential playmate falls asleep. Coffee = stimulant. Too much and she won't let you fall asleep. Which one would you choose?

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by absingleman

Alcohol = depressant. Too much and potential playmate falls asleep. Coffee = stimulant. Too much and she won't let you fall asleep. Which one would you choose?

Depends on how talkative I feel at the time.

Thrax

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Thrax

LM, you are soooo cute because you are soooo naive. Well, really, you have a few other admirable qualities also...actually more than a few..., but still...

But now that I consider it, maybe a pretentious and highly-caffeinated woman wouldn't be that bad after all.

Thrax

Naive...pretentious

I'm not sure how to take your post.

I don't know whether to kiss you or kick your butt.

LM

[sweet_tna]

The bookstore idea is great--it would be a great test for the guy we'd be meeting. If I find him more interesting than the book in my hands, then we're good to go. If not, at least I'll end up with something good to read. (IF Mr. Sweet could drag me out of there . . .)

~Mrs. Sweet =)

[rpu3]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Naive...pretentious

I'm not sure how to take your post.

I don't know whether to kiss you or kick your butt.

LM

LM,

I'd go with "kick your butt", just for the "pretentious" commentary in relation to drinking coffee at a bookstore.

Rebecca

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

I don't know whether to kiss you or kick your butt.

Tease.



Thrax

[sweetrosy1956]

for a update we finally got the guy to agree to meet at a McDonald's he was half hour late even.. anyways we told him that she was not comfortable with his home and said motel only split cost and he keep saying his home he had candles going and flowers had pot of coffee-- anyways when she said no,, motel,, he got up and left ! gee not even a don't think it would work or not and the look he gave her--well we are glad it was public because it just wasn't a pretty site.

[8inches]

Originally Posted by sweetrosy1956

for a update we finally got the guy to agree to meet at a McDonald's he was half hour late even.. anyways we told him that she was not comfortable with his home and said motel only split cost and he keep saying his home he had candles going and flowers had pot of coffee-- anyways when she said no,, motel,, he got up and left ! gee not even a don't think it would work or not and the look he gave her--well we are glad it was public because it just wasn't a pretty site.

That sounds like a very weird experience to me. I'm a single male and I have met every single couple (except the first one which turned out to be super weird) in a public place and I have NEVER been stood up. There are several steps you can take to avoid being stood up not the least of which is getting a cell # and confirming prior to the meeting that the meeting is still on. Picking a place close to your home ensures that even if there was a no show you didn't have to drive far....

Public meetings are standard and expected so this guy had some agenda although I'm not sure what it is. Maybe in his home he felt he could make more demands or what not???

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by sweetrosy1956

...he keep saying his home he had candles going and flowers had pot of coffee...

Well this explains it!

This guy would never buy candles, flowers, or coffee for himself and the thought of blowing his pocket of dollars for "nothing" was too much for him.

With all the pressure he was putting on you, I'm glad you stuck to your decision not to go to his place.

LM

[8inches]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Well this explains it!

This guy would never buy candles, flowers, or coffee for himself and the thought of blowing his pocket of dollars for "nothing" was too much for him.

With all the pressure he was putting on you, I'm glad you stuck to your decision not to go to his place.

LM

OK, maybe he was just incredibly cheap and didn't want to spring for half of the hotel room. Who's idea was it to meet at McDonalds anyway?

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by 8inches

OK, maybe he was just incredibly cheap and didn't want to spring for half of the hotel room. Who's idea was it to meet at McDonalds anyway?

That we don't know. Maybe Sweetrosy1956 will come back with the answer.

But I will say, I'd never meet at a McDonalds. The environment is not condusive to bringing out lusty feelings in me.

LM

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

The environment is not condusive to bringing out lusty feelings in me.

Have you tried the new McSkillet Breakfast Burrito?

Spoomonkey

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Have you tried the new McSkillet Breakfast Burrito?

Spoomonkey

No I haven't.

Sounds like a farty little thing.

Here's where McDonalds could fit into my swing plans, after the play. If the next morning we all went to breakfast, I'd be okay with heading to the golden arches. We could all sit around and talk about the good time we had the night before.

Spoo, I usually order an Egg McMuffin, hash browns, and an orange juice, but next time I'll try the McSkillet Breakfast Burrito and think of you.

LM

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Sounds like a farty little thing.

Interesting...

That's exactly what you called me first time we met...

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Spoo, I usually order an Egg McMuffin, hash browns, and an orange juice, but next time I'll try the McSkillet Breakfast Burrito and think of you.

I'm honored

Of course, if you do that, you'll be thinking of me for the rest of the day as well

Spoomonkey