Married - Divorced - Single

[BiloxiCouple]

Read an interesting post on a different website. Basically like this:

My wife and I have recently divorced and haven't been out in a while. (Apparently they used to swing). Would like to come back to the club but don't want to sit at the bar with the weird guys. (Singles are restricted to the bar). Can anyone please help me?

That was the basic line of his story. Seems to me he doesn't fully understand it.

[OhioCouple]

Seems to me that he probably does understand it and doesn't like the fact that he can no longer mingle with the couples as a single male.

I have read where some clubs and the one that comes to mind right off the top is The Red Rooster in Las Vegas. Single men are restricted to the bar and not allowed in the upstairs area for couples unless invited and escorted.

If whatever club he normally attended as a couple had nights like most of ours do around here some men who are attending the club singly can be very annoying and not exactly those that you would want to hang out with or be associated with.

From all I have read this seems to be common place and is indeed annoying for single men who know how to conduct themselves in that environment.

Lori

[ATAK]

I'm beginning to be glad that there aren't any Swing clubs around where I live...LOL I don't know if I could handle the restrictions. What fun is going if you can't talk to nobody?

[DragonsLair]

Not all clubs are like that, ATAK. Some do allow single men to roam, but you might not be allowed in some of the more private group rooms unless you're accompanying a couple. Some let you stay in the common area where the bar and dj usually are. Each club is different. If you're interested in a club, you would need to contact them to see what their policy is on singles.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

[BiloxiCouple]

Each club does establish their own rules.

I feel that restricting singles allows the couples to play the way they want to play. If they want a single person then they can invite them to join.

I also feel that most couples are looking for other couples to play with.

[fun_pairTX]

We see it as the few obnoxious and classless single males ruining it for the majority, who are respectful. As Barry Sheck stated in the OJ Trial. It only takes one cockroach to ruin the whole bowl of spaghetti.

[us2]

Here in atlanta, they are not restricted to any one place, they just cannot go to the group room unescorted. Roam they will !many will fixate upon certain women. They stalk their prey, stake their claim and run off any would be rival singles guys or couples. They often pretend not to be looking, but the fact they won't look you in the eye is unsettleing. They are there for the wrong reason. We are some sort of show to them. We have a special word for these single gentlemen. (I use the term loosely) We call them"Peepers" You can find them peering around bushes peeking around corners, peering at some unsuspecting pair. Or even standing right next to you STARING with their mouths wide open in utter estonishment! This is frankly un-nerving. Soon you realize that the guy craneing his neck trying not to look like he's looking has his dick in his hand and is getting ready to cum on your back and you didn't even get kissed. We've even had someone just slide in and try to lend a hand. (Uninvited hand)
Oprah Winfrey has huge knockers. Anyway single guys are one thing. But, these people have a differet adgenda. It seems to be on the rise here in Atlanta. Anyone else run into this?

signed, Can you be stalked at a swing club?(just when you thought it was safe to suck your husbands cock in public...Oh Magoo, you've done it again!) and oh btw, size does matter...too big not good,hurt! too little tinny not good either...tongue all that matters!LOL)