"PAY FOR THE PARTY"

[gatorvol64]

I have to say that your decision certainly makes the thoughts of going to a club more enjoyable since I know you won't be attending.

Now, I think I'll tell our single men playmates just how happy I am that they are who I've met and been with and not you or someone like you. And I think I'll tell them in person and naked (then they will be thanking you too). They and some on this board are why I say it is possible to find a nice single man to those who are looking. I do warn them that they have to be on the lookout for guys like you.

I don't have to put out for my husband (though I'm known for not turning down the chance to have sex with him. ) so what the hell makes you think I'd do so for someone like you?

Vol

[Cpl2share]

I have not seen (although my eyes do seem to be failing me) anyone make the big point: Swinging is about couples sharing a "hobby". Couples sharing something together. If another guy (or woman) is invited as part of a threesome, then so be it. If couples swap, so be it. Swinging is not about singles trying to get some. That is what the local meat market is for. I (Mr. Cple) am not blessed with the nice gene. Adults tend to be a bit leery of me. The proof is in the pudding though, children, dogs and cats will not leave me alone even though I do not like spending time with any of them. The way I see it: We have paid our dues by developing and sustaining a relationship. You have to pay yours at the door. Works for us.

[LOL_OMG]

Originally Posted by Cpl2share

I have not seen (although my eyes do seem to be failing me) anyone make the big point: Swinging is about couples sharing a "hobby". Couples sharing something together.

Oh hunny you don't wanna open that can of whoopass worms. Last one was a year ago and I think it went 6 or 7 pages.....

Mrs

[sereneiders]

Originally Posted by LOL_OMG

Oh hunny you don't wanna open that can of whoopass worms. Last one was a year ago and I think it went 6 or 7 pages.....

Mrs

[Dynamar]

Originally Posted by LOL_OMG

Oh hunny you don't wanna open that can of whoopass worms. Last one was a year ago and I think it went 6 or 7 pages.....

Mrs

No, indeed.

[BradAndJanet]

I'm quite sure we've seen this movie before...

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by jojo_man

Well it seems like I didn't make a very good first impression. Oh well, I never was very good at the "game" like a lot of the other guys are in here. You guys know what I mean- shoot all the BS you can at a woman, blow some sweet smoke up her hiney, and tell her every damn thing she wants to hear to keep her satisfied and her mouth shut tight around your dick. I suppose thats why women don't migrate to me very easy- Im no good at BSing and blowing sweet smoke like some of these swinging boys are.

I admit you swinging fellows have got it made. You BSed and Sweet Smoked a sexy lady into your life and your getting some good stuff. Now you got her going around telling all the other women how great you are which helps you get that much more good stuff. When actually you know your a "No Damn Good - BSing, Sweet Smokin- Son of a Bitch". Sometimes I wish I had the gift, but I don't have what it takes. Some guys have it, some guys don't.

Wow. I'm suddenly sopping wet. Sliding off my chair, jojo.

Yup, you're right: some guys have the knight-in-shining-armour belief system down pat...and others obviously don't. But as they say, don't hate the playa, hate the game.

I'll give you this: there's no denying that single guys pay a hefty price to get in to the same club where single chicks get in for free. And now we know why. It's exactly this kind of arrogant, self-centred attitude of entitlement that club-owners try to weed out of their clubs. Tell yourself what you like honey, but in the deep dark of the night when you're laying there all alone in bed wondering why you got your ass kicked out of the club again, a thought comes to you...maybe you're not as sweet a peach as you think you are.

[arioch]

Is a single guy at a party really a swinger? Isn't he almost always just a lonely guy looking to score? I realize there are exceptions to this, I was one of those exceptions for a short time about 8-9 years ago The very one sided and heart felt response this initial trollish post has illicited pretty much says it all.

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by arioch

Is a single guy at a party really a swinger? Isn't he almost always just a lonely guy looking to score? I realize there are exceptions to this, I was one of those exceptions for a short time about 8-9 years ago

Good, then you know a little about the controversy regarding this topic. It has been covered several times before on this Board. I'm too lazy to look up the threads -- prolly ANOTHER reason why I'm a single male -- but if you search the Board and find that the other threads don't address your opinions and/or concerns, feel free to start a new thread on THAT topic.

Seriously, I'm not trying to be confrontational with you Arioch, it's just that that issue is a hot-button here, and has been debated by many of the regulars and the newbies. If you have new insights into the issue, or feel that your opinion hasn't been properly covered, please feel free to expand on another thread or start a new one. Just be aware that you might open up a can of worms...the whoopass kind...

I respect the opinions of most members of the Board, but this is one issue where I, as a single male, diverge from the opinions of some longtime posters; people that I have great respect for. Otherwise, I am shoulder-to-shoulder with them on other issues. So, if you want to work your way through the "a-single-can't-be-a-swinger" minefield, then go ahead. But that should be another thread.

Good luck!

Thrax

[Chip_n_Muffy]

The answer to Jojo's problem is obvious. He needs to find and marry a swinger. Then he can get by on the cheap like the rest of us.

Anyone else have a problem that needs fixed? I have a few minutes before supper is ready ........

Chip

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Chip_n_Muffy

The answer to Jojo's problem is obvious. He needs to find and marry a swinger. Then he can get by on the cheap like the rest of us.

All it takes is knowing how to blow the right smoke up the ass of a weak-willed woman, eh?



Yeah - that is how swinging works... :rollseyes

Spoomonkey (on of those gifted smoke-blowers)

[spectraschain]

Then he can get by on the cheap like the rest of us.

Hehe...I like this Chip guy.............

[spectraschain]

Spoomonkey (on of those gifted smoke-blowers)

Well then, kind sir, would you be so kind as to inform us mere mortals as to what the right smoke would be....I gotta get me some of that...

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by spectraschain

Well then, kind sir, would you be so kind as to inform us mere mortals as to what the right smoke would be....I gotta get me some of that...

I have seen your pics... You blow some righteous smoke, my friend

Spoomonkey

[spectraschain]

You blow some righteous smoke, my friend

As do the 'Gators...... :surrender