Cheating Wives & Male Bashing!!!!!!!!!!!

[Regularguy]

Ok, since it is pretty clear that male bashing here is the norm evidenced by such mean spirited comments like "single males are a dime a dozen
"contrasted with topics like "the elusive single female" where women solely by virtue of having tits and a pussy are elevated to near mythical status while guys are worthless dung, allow me to add evidence to the obvious and ask why isn't there a thread with near universal condemnation of cheating wives?

I do recall something brief from Julie to her credit, but why the almost total silence? And they claim we live in a patriarchy......

At all the swing clubs I have been to, people were there to have great, awesome sex, not pass moral values judgements on people....they really didn't care about ones relationship status.

Considering most people condemn swingers and swingers hate that, it is interesting to see all the stone throwing by swingers at married guys as they virtually leave married women unscathed.

Us guys don't dwell on that because we love women too much and don't like to bash them. The thread on "wqomens rules for giving head" or whatever that was called, most people found it more or less funny, but would people be as recpetive if guys wrote somethign about men's rules for pussy licking" and proceeded to berate women with our complaints? Nobody would think it was funny at all, instead we would be called misogynists.

When my guy friends and I get together, we celebrate women, not rant about how they are "a dime a dozen".

Guys, before you high five me for saying something unpopular but true so you'
re glad I said it instead of you, you need to get some self -esteem, then get a spine and start sticking up for yourselves, because alot of you tolerate this unkindness directed at you by virtue of you being foolish enough to be born with a dick.

[Flori_DAMAN]

LOLOLOLOLOL

OHHHH MY GAAAAAAAAAWDSS

This is hilarious. I tried to reply but hit it too soon. Before some one else coule LOLLOLOL


MAN OH MAN...how many couples are bitching about ALL THOSE PUSHY single gals?????????????????????
The little bitches just wanna fuck anything in sight.

They are all over the place. LMFAO


LMFAO and peeing too!!



THe clubs are full of FEMALES that just want to suck you cock regularguy!! and they leave there hubbys by the wayside....they are all over the place.....OH I CANT TYPEWELL NYMORE>>>>>>>>>>>TOO MUCH>>>>>>>>>>>hahaha

I HERBY FORFIET THE DAMANN PART OF MY NAME CUZ REGULARGUY IZ THEMAN NOW>>>>>>>>>>>>>>LMFAO

[Flori_DAMAN]

SOMEONE CALL 911 CUZ IM ABOUT TO GET ATTACKED BY SERIOUS MARRIED SINGLE GALS lmfaoap

[Flori_DAMAN]

REGILAR GUY please tell me you are fucking with us.

There is no way a human could possibly be the way you are. You get on this board and have fun...cmon tell us. You have enough intellect to give us more credit than to take you seriously. Dont you? LLLLOOOOLLLLLL if not...OMFG what a jerk


NO WONDER YOU DONT GET ANY LLOOOLLOOLOLOLOLOLOL

[RnKin Fla]

Nice post regular guy. I'd be laughing as hard as John, but your whining bugs me too much.

In case you have not been following several of the other threads closely enough, there are a bunch of us who have stated VERY CLEARLY that we will not swing with a married & cheating person regardless of gender!

Did you catch that? Or do I need to say it slower???

Pay attention before you slam everyone on the board.

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Regularguy

I do recall something brief from Julie to her credit, but why the almost total silence? And they claim we live in a patriarchy......

I'll address this part of your post now and the rest later. Julie is in the process of a MAJOR move at this moment which does not allow her to be very active on the board right now. Trust me she will have plenty to add soon. The reason you notice it more right now is that we have had several topics of heated debate.

Lori

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by Regularguy


Us guys don't dwell on that because we love women too much and don't like to bash them.

OHHHHHHH IM COMING ELIZABETH

[TeamSoBe]

Originally posted by Regularguy
...why isn't there a thread with near universal condemnation of cheating wives?

Because there aren't married cheating wives swarming all over this forum trying to fool me into fucking them. If there were then we would probably be pretty annoyed by them.

...get a spine and start sticking up for yourselves, because alot of you tolerate this unkindness directed at you by virtue of you being foolish enough to be born with a dick.

We bash married cheating husbands specifically because they show up here trying to defend an untenable position.

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
OHHHHHHH IM COMING ELIZABETH

For crying out loud John, don't you know I have to get dinner on the stove. Ya know the Donna Reed deal! Ya'll stop making me .

Lori......at least I think I am, I can't see through the tears.

[DragonsLair]

Regularguy,

If you'll read thru the threads in the various forums, most people have said they won't play with cheaters. Maybe they didn't say female cheaters specifically, but they mean them too. It's just the cheating male is much more vocal and shows up here much more often looking for ways to get into the beds of happily married couples. They tend to use all sorts of lame excuses for why they shouldn't work things out with their spouses. They try to sell us on how poor and pitiful they are that their spouse isn't interested in swinging or has lost her sex drive and they aren't getting enough sex at home and why they have to cheat to achieve sexual satisfaction. Seems to me that in our marriage vows it said something about "for better or worse, in sickness or health". The cheaters don't want to deal with the "or worse" or "in sickness" part of their vows. I don't recall it saying anywhere that if your partner loses their sex drive or refuses to swing you are free to go out and find someone else to satisfy your needs. Yes, it's unfair to you to have to do without. But you made the commitment to your spouse. You have to live up to it. And I firmly believe this all applies to the cheating female too. We're not going to endanger our relationship with cheaters of either sex. Not for some fun.

As has been stated many times before, if you are married and swinging without your partners knowledge and approval, you are cheating. Whether you are male or female, you are cheating. And most of us want nothing to do with you. Our marriages are too important to us to risk them with a cheater.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

[OhioCouple]

I really don't think that male bashing is the norm. It is more so directed at the married/committed men who wish to refer to themselves as single in order to plug the wives or other single females.

Yes you heard the statement of Single Guys are a dime a dozen, but if you would have read through everything you would have noticed that it only referred to those who were married or in a committed relationship and cheating on their spouse/significant other.

I have to wonder about why you are so defensive here. I'll go out on a limb and just flat out ask you,

Are you a married cheating single male?

Based on prior experiences from here, other places and my past experiences your actions lead toward that direction. I would have to think that IF you were not, then you would be standing up in defense of those that are *truly* single males rather than trying to divert attention from the cheating single males towards the cheating single females. I could be entirely wrong, but I have that killer gut instinct that is telling me other wise.

I don't really know what clubs you attend and I am not going to look up your status as to where you are located, but in our area....People do care about relationship status. Even in probably the worst club we have attended they cared about that. So that is a falicy, at least for our area. I can't reacall anyone just nailing someone because they didn't care about who they were with. And on the one night that I am speaking about here (which is a club we will never go back to) single men were pretty much left to whack theirselves off and were fortunate to find some free loving couples that decided to have sex in an open area. I'll bet that night I saw at least 11 or 12 men with their wangers in hand. Funny though, I didn't see any single females doing the same. They were actually non-existent. There in lies the problems with single males which makes it much more front and center than with single females.

Lori

[Alura]

Well, Regularguy, we've never gotten an email from a cheating married woman whose husband is frigid and will not listen to her interest in the swing scene; we've had a lot from men, particularly after Mrs. Alura wrote that "how to" post on blowjobs. Not a woman, married, single, cheating or otherwise, wrote to ask if she could please try those tips on Mr. Alura because her husband, boyfriend or neighbor refused.

You usually write posts that seem well-informed and worthy of being read. This one reduces your stature in our eyes, although we're sure you don't care what we think. The sad thing is that your post makes you seem just like the run-of-the-mill single guy most couples avoid like the plague.

Your post makes us understand why you do best in a club environment where folks go for great sex and don't care about the relationships of their partners of the evening. It reminds us why we don't go to on-premises clubs. There are too many god's-gift-to-women studs like you just waiting for the opportunity to show our husbands how to really fuck a woman right.

Your post makes us remember why we have a "couples only" policy and probably pushes any changes we might have considered years further down the road.

Alura, who are very disappointed in a guy who, in other posts, seemed to have something to say.

[JustAskJulie]

why isn't there a thread with near universal condemnation of cheating wives?

Why? Because as of yet (to our knowledge) we haven't had a cheating wife come in here pretending to be a single female. However, it has been said by several in various topics that they wouldn't swing with a married female cheater any more than they would a married male cheater.

This question is similar to one I've been asked several times regarding why we don't have a "single females" forum. Simply because we don't get enough questions FROM single females to warrent it.