Invited over to watch only, what's next?

Ok here is situtation. I know this couple and so they asked me to come over and to make it short they asked what I thought about watching them have sex. And bein a horny guy I thought about it not to long and I said hell yea that be cool. So they lay the rules out which I have no problem with, Simple I can look all I want but no touching So I agree. and damn she has a body too and to see her naked I would of agreed to anything. Well I got to look and that was really hot. So after they say when ever I am free to call and maybe they let me watch again. So a few weeks later I called and they say come on over and also say they feel comfortable with me watching and would I like to use a dildo on her while she sucked him off. Well I was there and after they got into it she hands me a dildo and says go ahead wow she is hot. Now my dick is up but I agreed no touching. I just wonder what you all think about this or what I should do or not do.

[TNT]

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I just wonder what you all think about this or what I should do or not do.

What do you want to do?

If you're happy with the status quo, then fine, continue with what you're doing.

If you're not happy then tell them.

It's possible that they might be testing you to see how respectful you are to their rules and eventually will ask you to join in fully. It's also possible that this is all they want, someone to watch them, and you'll never be allowed to touch or participate. Ask what their ultimate intentions are where you are concerned.

We each have a personal responsibility to do only what we are comfortable with and what makes us happy. Figure out what you are comfortable and happy with.


Oh, Welcome to the Board. If you'll register, you'll be able to come back and post any other questions you have.

Teresa

[cuzzeyesaidso]

I was in a similar situation a while back. I was allowed to touch with my hands but that's it. After a week or so I called back for another playtime and she told me that he was disappointed that I didn't touch him too so I wasn't invited back. Oh well.

[sexyshelby]

I agree with Teresa. If you want more, talk to them about it. Just be respectful of their boundaries. It seems that they are new to swinging and just trying to test things out slowly.

Please register so that you can come back and let us know what happens.


~SS

[NakedInSeattle]

I would have been good for the first time with a "no touch" rule but woulda told them on the second invite that we should have a little quid pro quo as the lawyers say or "tit for tat" as us swingers say. The second time with the dildo is going in the right direction but I'd tell them that this one sided deal is getting a little old and if I can't get in the pile, leave me out. I'd be getting tired of having Mary palm and her five sisters after a date with them.

How good of friends are you with this couple, anyway? Why are they using you with no regard to your needs?

I wrote before and I think you all are very helpfull. Well if u read whats next its about watchin a couple. anyway I called them the other day and we talked as normal and they say we'll be home all day and if i want to come over no problem. So I figure what the hell it was hot watchin them and maybe they just want to see if everything was ok with me and he also asked what I thought about everything and of course I say it was hot as hell and your wife has a great body and I never saw anyone cum as much as her (she was non stop). So after bein there a bit they ask if I want to watch again and oh yea I do So I get to use dildo on her while she is suckin him than she wants him to f--- her so she tells me I should go ahead and jackoff she wants to watch. Whew now I think we be gettin somewhere now but I got scared and chicken out this guy is hung like 9" and I have 4" at max .She is kinda beggin and I just say I like what I see now. So I just watch and now I really feel stupid. She was kinda disapponited I could tell, and she is the type you have wet dreams about. So any advice here I think its Hot just watchin has anyone else get into this predicment before..thanks

[JustAskJulie]

It sounds like maybe they MIGHT be trying to slowly work things up themselves, from you just watching, to you participating with a dildo, to you masturbating.... to what's next. I hate to say it but if she was dissapointed with the last session then you may have lost your invite to the next play session. Or maybe not. If you guys are friends then maybe you should talk to them about your worries and what they expect from you.

[Mr. Truelove]

Not all women are hung up on well endowed men. (haha puns are fun) Some women want variety. It really covers the whole spectrum. The only way you know for sure is if you put yourself out there. If she asks, I would.

Mr. Truelove

[prettylady]

Chances are good you would have been the only one who even noticed the size of your dick. She just wanted to see you masterbate.
I would bet that watching you getting off on watching them getting off would have made for one hell of a great orgasm for all three of you.
If you can, next time just go for it.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[curiousagain]

I agree with what others have said that it appears they are slowly testing you and or themselves. As far as dick size... She probably doesn't care. They could have invited any one of about a million guys for this but they chose you so there's got to be some reason and if pecker size was a requirement they would have checked about that before inviting you this far. At some point they will reach a temporary or permanent stopping point with the escalation of your physical involvement. Since each time has led to something else, if you want this to continue, take lube and condoms with you next time you go over there.