Swinging single male ?

[MoonLightKiss]

ES then allow me to say I apologize for misunderstanding your post.

[EternallySingle]

I'm not offended. Like I said, I was just expressing my opinion based on my experiences and how some of the comments EatsCherry reflected some of my doubts at times. IMO he (like many single men who swing) put a lot more emphasis on the sex aspect than the social aspect in most of his posts. Thats not bad, but its not realistic. Single men especially need write more about their realistic social expectations when writing about anything to do with swinging, because most couples who swing ARE more suspicious of our motives than they are of other couples and single females. Thats just the way it is, and if single men don't take that into account and tailor their approach and the words they use accordingly, they are going to fall into despair.

And comments from people that put them down (rather intentionally or inadvertantly) doesn't help anyone, especially the serious single men or the couples and/or single women that may want to meet them but don't know how to go about doing it safely.

stepping off my soapbox. I'm starting to get a nose bleed from the altitude. LOL

[eatscherry]

Your right , I still have other things in my head ,so I dont want to get alot of other people in my problems if there trying to have fun .But I do want to be up to speed soon . I only see two of the lady's I used to swing with right now and a lady I see right now .I'll go to a few party's for shure .