Single Female looking for advice on first event

[goldengirl]

I'm a single female going my first meet and greet here in UT. I'd like some advice on polite ways to say yes and no and also ways to approach couples who I may be interested in. Since it's my first time I just want to meet and greet not take someone home yet.

[WesternSwing]

Wow, I don't think there really is any trick to it. Just be yourself as if you were going to a vanilla club.

I guess the answer is in the question: How do you let others know you're interested in them in the vanilla world?

Do the same, just here it's with couples.

Mr. WS

[looking2swing]

I think that you just need to be yourself. One thing that I do hate when single women approach us, is when the single women gives the vibe that she only wants to be with my husband. We go to play together!! Have fun, some of our best experiences have been with single women. Good luck!

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by goldengirl

I'm a single female going my first meet and greet here in UT. I'd like some advice on polite ways to say yes and no and also ways to approach couples who I may be interested in. Since it's my first time I just want to meet and greet not take someone home yet.

My advice is for you to be polite, and respectful....especially to the hubby. So many men are turned away because they go straight for the woman and act like the husband is absolutely useless, more of a hindrance than anything else. Remember, that with alot of couples if the hubby does not like you chances are it will be just you and your hand. Be honest and just act like a gentleman. The sexual attraction is usually the easy part, its the rest that gets tricky lol.

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

My advice is for you to be polite, and respectful....especially to the hubby. So many men are turned away because they go straight for the woman and act like the husband is absolutely useless, more of a hindrance than anything else. Remember, that with alot of couples if the hubby does not like you chances are it will be just you and your hand. Be honest and just act like a gentleman. The sexual attraction is usually the easy part, its the rest that gets tricky lol.

Woopsie! Wrong gender Shell! Man, I have more days like this than I'm comfortable admitting.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by intuition897

Woopsie! Wrong gender Shell! Man, I have more days like this than I'm comfortable admitting.

Sorry, you know I was tired lol.
But you know what I mean lol
Hey, I went to public schools, what can I say........

[goldengirl]

Thanks to everyone for the tips I ended up having a great time and meet some great people.

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by goldengirl

Thanks to everyone for the tips I ended up having a great time and meet some great people.

That's good to hear, goldengirl.

-B

[Morie37922]

How refreshing to read that there are single ladies who actually go out to meet couples. My girlfriend and I have talked extensively about bringing another woman into our relationship but don't have a clue about how to make this happen. Neither of us have experience in the swinglife, so this is strictly a fantasy for us at this point. She is not interested in another man and is straight, so the experinece would be strictly for my sexual pleasure and her voyeuristic enjoyment... nothing in it on the ff level for the bisexual lady. I have been doubtful that there are single women who would find this arrangement enticing. How on earth would we approach a single lady about this? Are swing clubs a good place to meet single ladies who may be open to a fmf menage a trois? I can't figure what would be in it for them over just playing with a single man.... except maybe a nice massage form my girlfriend while she enjoys sex with me????? Any advice or observations?