Question for Single guys

ct3sum · 07-10-2006, 01:13 PM

A question my Wife and I have been pondering. We had a long-term relationship with a friend of mine (MFM). He was the ultimate companion. We could travel together, hang out together, have a beer together etc and have FUN together. Everything ended about 6 months ago and we no longer see this person. One request we had was that he did not cum inside when we were having fun. He respected our wishes.

Here is the question: Even though there is a towel on the bed etc, why did he always cum on the wife's stomach? Is this just unique to him? or is it to show her that she has satisfied him and it is his way of showing his satisfaction? We are just curious and wanted someone else's take on it. Thanks

stangstud36 · 07-10-2006, 01:17 PM

I think it is just sexier to cum on a woman than to just cum on a towel. I personally will respect peoples wishes and ask where it is ok to cum. Some women find it a turn on to be cummed out, just as well as the husband may enjoy it as well. If you do not like being cummed on I suggest you tell your partners that and I am sure they will respect your wishes.

WesternSwing · 07-10-2006, 01:46 PM

I personally would prefer to cum on her rather then in a towel. It's just sexier and more personal, which the whole towel thing seems terribly impersonal.

Mr. WS

Tantra · 07-10-2006, 02:16 PM

It's much more sexy and satisfying to cum on someone's skin than on a towel. For me it's very much a letdown to lose that "connection" to a woman especially at the moment of climax. My ideal would be to cum inside her (with condom) or in her mouth, but it's still super sexy to cum on her stomach or breasts.

Having said that, I would certainly respect a couple's preferences regarding this issue or any other issue assuming, of course, that their "issues" are sufficiently okay with me to play with them in the first place (yes, we're very selective).

singleagain · 07-10-2006, 03:40 PM

Well, when I'm horny and tanked up on viagra I cum on the wall just above her head. She gets to see it shoot three or four feet through the air...

just kidding. Where is not the problem for me...its more when...and usually on her hand or wrist as she helps me masturbate. Age does cause one to get weary and not be able to keep pace.

All kidding aside, just ask her where she wants it and comply. She'll be grateful.

JnCC · 07-10-2006, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ct3sum

Here is the question: Even though there is a towel on the bed etc, why did he always cum on the wife's stomach? Is this just unique to him? or is it to show her that she has satisfied him and it is his way of showing his satisfaction? We are just curious and wanted someone else's take on it. Thanks

Are you sure it was a towel? He might have been a Hindu, and what you're calling a "towel" might have been his turban.

Or maybe it was a towel, and he was planning to wipe his face off after he was done having sex.

Or maybe he came on her chest because he had bills to pay, and didn't want to have to lick the envelopes. (paper cuts, you know...)

Maybe he was hoping to get "stuck" to the Mrs., as a way of getting her to stay longer.

Seriously...how can anybody here know why he came where he did? Why didn't you ask him?

xxoticangel · 07-11-2006, 10:41 AM

I actually prefer that my male playmates cum on my stomach or back (depending on the position) or in my mouth. Having them cum in a condom or on a towel seems like such a waste.

ct3sum · 07-11-2006, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by JnCC

Are you sure it was a towel? He might have been a Hindu, and what you're calling a "towel" might have been his turban.

Or maybe it was a towel, and he was planning to wipe his face off after he was done having sex.

Or maybe he came on her chest because he had bills to pay, and didn't want to have to lick the envelopes. (paper cuts, you know...)

Maybe he was hoping to get "stuck" to the Mrs., as a way of getting her to stay longer.

Seriously...how can anybody here know why he came where he did? Why didn't you ask him?

Geez, Sorry I asked!

Chicup · 07-11-2006, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by ct3sum

Here is the question: Even though there is a towel on the bed etc, why did he always cum on the wife's stomach? Is this just unique to him? or is it to show her that she has satisfied him and it is his way of showing his satisfaction? We are just curious and wanted someone else's take on it. Thanks

Umm because its there. You pull out, are you going to now shit your aim?

**LikeMinds321** · 07-11-2006, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ct3sum

Geez, Sorry I asked!

ct3sum ~

Ignore those who don't try to be helpful.

As others who posted here have said, it is usually considered more sexy to see the guy ejaculate. Most women and men prefer this, rather than for a man to ejaculate in a towel.

The best thing would be to ask the guy. He'd have the best answer.

Also, if you and your wife prefer that he come in a towel, let him know. He should be agreeable to what would be most comfortable for you.

LM

**TNT** · 07-11-2006, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by ct3sum

Here is the question: Even though there is a towel on the bed etc, why did he always cum on the wife's stomach?

There's really no way to tell why he did, unless you ask him but...to me, it would seem awful silly to cum on a towel.

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Is this just unique to him?

Nope...lots of men and women enjoy this.

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or is it to show her that she has satisfied him and it is his way of showing his satisfaction?

Possibly...again, you would have to ask him why.

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We are just curious and wanted someone else's take on it. Thanks

I personally don't really care where they cum. I'm not a big fan of swallowing and if a man is going to cum in me, he needs to have a condom on...other than that, it's nothing that soap and water won't clean up.

Teresa

JnCC · 07-11-2006, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by ct3sum

Geez, Sorry I asked!

I didn't mean to sound harsh or dismissive. Sometimes, the best way to answer a question is to get the questioner to answer it themselves. It's a technique I use with my kids all the time. After a while, they know the answers to things even before they ask.

As for why guys shoot on a woman's tummy, it's probably something that relates to tiny segment of DNA that goes back to our cave man days. When we males have completed our role in the reproductive process, we like to cuddle...at least long enough for all the little "Mark Spitz's" and "Johnny Weismuller's" to complete their journey up to where "the goods" are waiting. It's to our reproductive advantage to protect our sperm while that's going on, lest some other cave man sneak in, scoop out our own "contribution," and replace it with their own.

Of course, I still like to think of it as an alternative to licking envelopes...

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07-10-2006, 01:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
ct3sum Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 6 Location: Torrington, CT	Question for Single guys A question my Wife and I have been pondering. We had a long-term relationship with a friend of mine (MFM). He was the ultimate companion. We could travel together, hang out together, have a beer together etc and have FUN together. Everything ended about 6 months ago and we no longer see this person. One request we had was that he did not cum inside when we were having fun. He respected our wishes. Here is the question: Even though there is a towel on the bed etc, why did he always cum on the wife's stomach? Is this just unique to him? or is it to show her that she has satisfied him and it is his way of showing his satisfaction? We are just curious and wanted someone else's take on it. Thanks

07-10-2006, 01:17 PM	#2 (permalink)
stangstud36 Awaiting Email Confirmation Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 10 Location: Boston Status: Single Male	Re: Question for Single guys I think it is just sexier to cum on a woman than to just cum on a towel. I personally will respect peoples wishes and ask where it is ok to cum. Some women find it a turn on to be cummed out, just as well as the husband may enjoy it as well. If you do not like being cummed on I suggest you tell your partners that and I am sure they will respect your wishes.

07-10-2006, 01:46 PM	#3 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,824 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Question for Single guys I personally would prefer to cum on her rather then in a towel. It's just sexier and more personal, which the whole towel thing seems terribly impersonal. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

07-10-2006, 02:16 PM	#4 (permalink)
Tantra Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 65 Location: Texas Status: Couple - Male half primarily	Re: Question for Single guys It's much more sexy and satisfying to cum on someone's skin than on a towel. For me it's very much a letdown to lose that "connection" to a woman especially at the moment of climax. My ideal would be to cum inside her (with condom) or in her mouth, but it's still super sexy to cum on her stomach or breasts. Having said that, I would certainly respect a couple's preferences regarding this issue or any other issue assuming, of course, that their "issues" are sufficiently okay with me to play with them in the first place (yes, we're very selective).

07-10-2006, 03:40 PM	#5 (permalink)
singleagain Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 110 Location: Charlotte, NC	Re: Question for Single guys Well, when I'm horny and tanked up on viagra I cum on the wall just above her head. She gets to see it shoot three or four feet through the air... just kidding. Where is not the problem for me...its more when...and usually on her hand or wrist as she helps me masturbate. Age does cause one to get weary and not be able to keep pace. All kidding aside, just ask her where she wants it and comply. She'll be grateful.

07-11-2006, 10:41 AM	#7 (permalink)
xxoticangel Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 362 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple SLS Name:xxoticangel	Re: Question for Single guys I actually prefer that my male playmates cum on my stomach or back (depending on the position) or in my mouth. Having them cum in a condom or on a towel seems like such a waste. __________________ Multiple orgasms are proof that God is a woman.

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