Couple swinging with a single guy

[JulieK2006]

I had my first experience with a single guy recently. My husband encouraged me and kept telling me he really wanted to watch me with a single guy. So one night at the club, I picked out a guy who was hanging out by himself, (really cute too!), started talking with him, and ended up having incredible sex that night. It was really really great!! My husband only watched, then fucked me like there was no tomorrow after the other guy! It was so great, I even let the guy cum inside me. (well, we were both ready to cum at the same time, i wasn't about to make him pull out!)

My question is-- is he wierd or something? He had no jealousy or regrets, it really turned him on. We are very new to this, we "played" with only 1 couple before, and it was only oral.

[sexyshelby]

Lucky you! Sounds like you all had a good time - nothing wrong with that! This doesn't sound "weird" to me...but it might not be for everyone. As long as you are all ok with it and it works for you, then that's fantastic. Enjoy and have fun!

~SS

[RANDJ4FUN]

Nothing get me hornier than watching some guy fuck my wife!!! If that is "weird" then thats OK with me!! The only thing I enjoy more is watching SEVERAL guys fuck her. Then its my turn!!

[meandher2go]

my wife is my favorite porn star so why wouldn't i wanna watch her get taken good

[fwohiocouple]

he did the right thing no need to get upset i hope we can have onother 3some with the same results as you 2 thanks

[Deptydog]

We've had a single guy friend who joins us on average of once a week. I love to watch my wife writhing in pleasure. Our friend is very respectful and nice and we have a realtionship with him outside the bedroom as well. He's a good friend. We look for couples and the elusive single female as well, but this is still a lot of fun for us.

[skyhigh619]

He is not weird at all. I only recently did this. I wasnt sure how I would feel, but I thought it was great. We fucked really good after it happened.
It was with a friend, not a stranger. But I think we might go out and do what you guys did with a stranger.
There are a lot of guys out there who love to watch their wives.

[WesternSwing]

You're hubby is not weird at all, and either are you. There is something very primal about having sex with a woman right after she's had sex with someone else. I know I love it, and I can't really put my finger on why either. It's just a huge turn-on.

Glad to hear it all worked the way you wanted it too! Next time make a JulieK sandwich and get all the attention at once.

Mr. WS

[Edison Carter]

Susan here: There are many social and psychological dynamics. For the man, he's reclaiming his woman and reconnecting. For the woman, it's a reconnection and communication that sex with another man has not effected her relationship. Then, there's just the fun of watching sex, getting laid, etc. There's been studies confirming that observing something is almost as good in the mind as actually doing it. This would explain the thrill of everything from porn to sporting events to movies. So, for a man to watch his wife have sex, then have sex with her himself, it's a total 'double dipping'' rush. Frankly, you can analyze this stuff to death, but the only quesitons are is it a positive experience for you and are you having fun. For me, there's something so powerful in that first moment when another man enters me with his wife/gf watching: permission, lust, acceptance and more distilled into a single moment of sexual intercourse. But hey, that's me and I gotta be me

[essexcouple]

Nothing wrong with meeting a single guy! That's how my and my hubby got started, its fun and it turned him on loads as well. As long as u all enjoy it and are honest and open with each other, its all about the fun

[MikeandDawn]

Originally Posted by JulieK2006

I had my first experience with a single guy recently. My husband encouraged me and kept telling me he really wanted to watch me with a single guy. So one night at the club, I picked out a guy who was hanging out by himself, (really cute too!), started talking with him, and ended up having incredible sex that night. It was really really great!! My husband only watched, then fucked me like there was no tomorrow after the other guy! It was so great, I even let the guy cum inside me. (well, we were both ready to cum at the same time, i wasn't about to make him pull out!)

My question is-- is he wierd or something? He had no jealousy or regrets, it really turned him on. We are very new to this, we "played" with only 1 couple before, and it was only oral.

No, there's nothing wrong with him wanting to watch someone fuck you, getting horney while watching it, or you wanting someone else inside you while he watched.

Dawn and I have engaged almost exclusively in manogamous MFM relationships for the past dozen years or so. I would watch out about letting a stranger (or newly met friend) cum inside you, though. I assume your husband knew what was in you, right? ;-) All of our long term partners must get tested for STDs before we will play unprotected. Dawn had her tubes tied, and takes birth control pills for other reasons, so pregnancy is not an issue. I trust Dawn absolutely. I know the act of a man cumming inside her is important to her satisfaction, so I have no problem with it, and enjoy watching it myself.:-) We discuss and screen the guys we invite into our bedroom activities vigorously. We have an efficiency apartment over our garage, so we invite our male partners to live there. All five invited have thus far accepted (one at a time, of course:-)). This keeps them available to service Dawn while I am at work without arousing much suspicion from the neighbors or our kids. She usually goes over to "talk" to him about something and stays for an hour or so. Then if I want to play with them in our bed when I get home, like after the kids go to bed, we can let him in through a side entrance.

It sounds like you and your husband had a lot of fun. Just know there are pitfalls and you need to be in agreement over what happens. But by all means, if both of you are cool with it, enjoy it!

[Amanda69]

Nothing wrong at all, just a man who is in a secure relationship with a woman he loves and it able to include some outside sexual activity to add a little extra spice without feeling threatened...You are definately a lucky lady.

[MrXxotic]

If you are both in agreement go for it. We have done several MFM with guys we picked up in vanilla bars and are working out he details of her doing the "hot wife" thing and doing some lucky guy solo while I watch from a hidden location or listen on the cell phone.

[gaznrachy]

Hi Julie K

I think we're all wierd in our own ways

But seriously, it sounds like you AND your husband had a great time. Thats what really counts at the end of the day. Good to see you both have the trust, love and respect to do it and enjoy it.

Good on ya!

[Midwest Stock]

The primal attraction to seeing a woman with another man, was much of why I have had the opportunity to enjoy swinging. I have yet to actually enjoy a FMF. So far my experience has always been MFM, including just watching as a spectator.

The relationships I have had, where my female partner was with another guy, left me feeling utterly driven when I was given the OK, to approach her/them. I found my hesitation to be near another naked man vanished pretty quick as well. The focus was the woman, and much of my pleasure was amplified by seeing how she reacted.