If you were asked by a couple to bring in an additional single male?

[curiousagain]

Yeah, if a couple I was comfortable with was comfortable with the other SM, I probably would be too. Just give everbody a few minutes and a drink to get acquainted or maybe have a sort of "meet and greet" with everybody there.

[tncinmd]

We approached this a little differently. It was the wife's birthday and we happened to be going to a non-swing event where several of our swinging friends were also in attendance, including some single males.

The event was beiing run by a couple we knew well who also swing. We stayed to clean up and then one of our friends invited us over to celebrate the wife's birthday, along with another of our mfm partners and the couple running the event. Well, the wife and the two guys headed up to a bedroom, where I joined them with the husband of the couple. I was nearly an mmfmm, but the wife of the other couple grabbed her husband and when we heard the bedsprings squeaking in the other bedroom, we figured he wouldn't be joining us anytime soon.

Anyway, it turned out to be a great time for all. She loved it and expressed a definite interest in doing more than three in the future. Basically, for us, we have enough partners to do this without having to ask one of the guys to bring anyone new into the situation. For the wife, she finds it much more relaxing to do this with guys with whom she's already been.

We'd feel like we'd be putting unnecessary pressure on the guy and introducing a factor that could possibly ruin the good relationship we already have. Just our two cents.

[geocom]

I am new to the board so I thought I would say hi and give my input

I have in the past, been involved in both MFM and MMFM and MFF situations
I have to say that all experiences were good except the first and it was not a sex thing it was an unstable couple thing. Many men are uncomfotable with being nude in the same room with another man let alone being near enough that another man might touch them accidentally or otherwise in the heat of the moment, I have seen this firsthand in swinging situations usually first timers.. I have to admit that after my first threesome my head was reeling and I wasn't sure what to think but it was all fine (as it usually is) I also have to say that you men who have not had a MFM encounter have no idea what you are missing out on. It is truly amazing to see a woman go from apprehensive to hungry to complete lust , and the lengths she will go to for her lovers pleasure I love that look of complete abandon.
Personally I am not afraid of being naked in front of another man not even afraid of brushing up against them in the heat of the moment and though I thought it would it did not bother me when the situation got sticky for all of us after all in the name of good sex there is no way to avoid the sticky mess..
As far as introducing a friend to a couple I would have no problem with that at all... just a handshake and a smile

Sorry for the long post
GEO