DP, Couples, & The Disappearing Single Male

[LarrySmith]

Hmmmmmmm...
Rate y'all selves on the Hypocryte scale...1 to 10 (1 = Not at all true, 10 = Embarressed to admit its absolutely true)
You want to try a DP. A solo male replies to your advertisement. His profile claims he is BI. You go "ick, no way". But you're looking for a guy who can get hard over rubbing stiffies with another male inside of the female.

Just thought I'd stir up the gray area a bit...

[fanofhose]

First off - hi eveyone - Im new here

Second, I have yet to expeience the whole MFM situation, although I find it incredably hot and exciting to see a beautiful woman in complete control of a situation like that.

As I may see it, as a single guy, its all about a trust factor and a comfort factor - lets say you get into the moment, and things just dont go the way they should, like the one guy who said he was on the bottom, couldnt move and felt crushed - Im not sure if I could keep it going if that was the case for me - also just as the lady and signifigant other that I could be blessed to be with says its ok, maybe I get uncomfortable with the whole thing and were all not clicking together - I just think as much as some guys dont want to admit it on a sexual level - its all mental - you have to be in the moment for it to happen and that includes being comfortable infront of the girl AND her signifigant other. Lets face it, just as its a comfort level for the other couple to make sure us single guys arent crazy, as a single guy, I want to make sure the other couple isnt either.

As far as our balls rubbing together - at this point, Im comfortbale in my sexuality to know that at this point, Id be ok - its all for the moment - if it happens it does - Im not gonna give up how good it feels and how incredable it can feel for her to worry about my balls rubbing into his - now its a diffrent story if he was guiding me into the woman and playing with my balls or ass - that would be a diffrent story - again - only speculation from a newbie - but this all goes back to my first point - how comfortbale you really are with the couple. Thanks for paying attention if your still reading Hope Im not too borning yet!


J

[destin-ez]

Good thread, this really hits home.....DP was and is one of the Mrs.' biggest fantasies. Like others have said here, it ain't easy and it took some practice and lots of communication for ours to happen. During our 1st MFM our playmate went limp, we all laughed it off. The 2nd time with our 2nd playmate it happened and watching the expression on her face was well worth the effort/time.

Like it has been said here too, it was her wish that only I had access to her ass, I countered with "I want to see the look on your face" as he entered her. Priceless!! We can't wait 'til it happens again!!

Mr. D

[Thrax]

I'm not sure if I would contact a couple that was looking for a DP on the "first date," although I have DP'd with a few couples at clubs after we had already done other MFM things. I was comfortable with them and what we were doing, so it was okay.

But this thread reminds me of the first DP I was involved in. I'd been in the lifestyle for about 2 years (and never was in a DP before) but it was the first time I was at a particular club near Pittsburgh. Clicked with a nice couple. We went to a corner of a VERY busy group room. The hubby and I had agreed to "no reach-arounds" and things were going just fine. After about ten minutes I was on the bottom, she was grinding on me, and he had leaned over to lend a hand with a nearby couple. All of a sudden, he stood up, leaned over his wife and "took the back door". She was rapturous, I was a little startled. I was a little too busy to really think about his balls hitting me, if they did. They were both so casual about it, and we were in the group room, so I just went with the flow, so to speak. And technically, it wasn't a "reach-around."

[JoeB]

This is one of my favorite memories. Even without DP there are times that the two males touch Big deal, either he is screwing my partner or I am screwing his. That is what we were into, not each other. Neither one of us (males) turned into raving bi's. We did vaginal DP but I would love to do anal.

[Mike and Jan]

OK, I've experienced it both ways. With my wife years ago and a friend and me with a couple who were dear friends.

This has nothing to do with bi or gay. It's for pleasure!

[HotMoCpl]

While a lot of guys dream about an MFM with another guy and his wife, there is a certain comfort zone that must be dealt with first. It would probably be better to meet and get to know each other first before setting a play date. We're still vanilla as a couple, but this is the way we would approach it first. Hey, if there is no chemistry.....then there's no chemistry. Pesonally it would not bother me and probably not the wife for sure; but the other guy has to be comfortable since in most DP's there will be contact between the males.

[intravox]

I have been in many MFM 3somes and have no problem with ocasinal and accidental touching with the other guy, and no big deal from both parts.

But what I can't picture is feeling HIS hads touching my anatomy.....

just that.