Singles Profile Reviews

[GeeseWild]

Thank you very much, I am going to make edits based on your comments as well as LikeMinds321. You both have very positive and constructive comments that should have been more obvious to me. Best of wishes, Dwayne

[DE_BBC]

ok...I'm interested in seeing what others think about my Swing Lifestyle profile.











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[ncmd_couple]

DE BBC,

I don't normally hit the singles forum, and I'm the male half. From my perspective, if my wife showed interest in your profile, I would trust her. Being confident is one thing, but you border on the boastful. You might try softening the "performance" and tell a little more about yourself.

S

[BamaRide]

Originally Posted by CLITFRIEND

and I believe you have to be a member to see the profiles.

True, but signing up is free... Lifetime member here from SN. Different name there though.

BamaRide

[DE_BBC]

Originally Posted by ncmd_couple

DE BBC,

I don't normally hit the singles forum, and I'm the male half. From my perspective, if my wife showed interest in your profile, I would trust her. Being confident is one thing, but you border on the boastful. You might try softening the "performance" and tell a little more about yourself.

S

hmmmmm...perhaps. Thanks.

[mixtupcpl]

Originally Posted by DE_BBC

hmmmmm...perhaps. Thanks.

I think ultimately your profile has to honestly reflect who you are and what you're looking for. I don't think there's anything wrong with yours at all, BUT, I do think it's very definitive so will attract certain folks, but cause other folks to pass.

But there's nothing wrong with that as long as it is an accurate representation. There's someone for everyone and, personally, I'd rather see honest profiles of which many may not be a fit for us rather than "tweaked" profiles that are designed for near universal appeal but are acting as a kind of mask for the people behind them. Mrs. Mix and I both try to look for some level of friendship/connection beyond the physical most of the time, but not all the time. Knowing where someone falls in that spectrum is very helpful.

So if you are looking for a deeper connection with couples, then I'd agree that it's a bit too strong. But if you're looking for a purely physical connection, then I think it's fine.

I hope that makes some sort of sense

[DE_BBC]

Originally Posted by mixtupcpl

I think ultimately your profile has to honestly reflect who you are and what you're looking for. I don't think there's anything wrong with yours at all, BUT, I do think it's very definitive so will attract certain folks, but cause other folks to pass.

But there's nothing wrong with that as long as it is an accurate representation. There's someone for everyone and, personally, I'd rather see honest profiles of which many may not be a fit for us rather than "tweaked" profiles that are designed for near universal appeal but are acting as a kind of mask for the people behind them. Mrs. Mix and I both try to look for some level of friendship/connection beyond the physical most of the time, but not all the time. Knowing where someone falls in that spectrum is very helpful.

So if you are looking for a deeper connection with couples, then I'd agree that it's a bit too strong. But if you're looking for a purely physical connection, then I think it's fine.

I hope that makes some sort of sense

It makes perfect sense...because I'm not really looking for a deeper connection...if that were to happen, I wouldn't be against it, but for me it's not about that, that bond should be between the couple...with me brought in as a bit of a spice...'ya know?

But...that being said, I have developed relationships with couples...one that lasted almost 3 years, and would still be going on had I not moved across the country. So, it's not out of the question...but I don't try and force it..if it happens, it happens.

[rathor]

Here is my profile from Orkut.com . Orkut is the major site that Indians use to socialize. I don't see any specific Indian site dedicated only to Swing Lifestyle. So I use this social-network known as Orkut. You have to be a member to see anyone's profile ( though around 70-90&#37; of the profiles are fake). My name is Jay Rathor, location is Hyderabad, INDIA and you can easily find me there. If you have some advice for an Swing Lifestyle based site, please do so. I find swinglifestyle.com the only one genuine site (its membership is very expansive for me, when you change US dollars into Indian rupees, it becomes 50 times ) . Anyways, here is my Orkut profile, please tell me what I need to improve:

A Young single male opened to the idea of swinging life style, interested in meeting some nice couples along the way. I am 28, a Software Engineer and belong a middle class family.


I am not interested in single females, girlfriends or married women posing as singles, cheating on their husbands. Only couples are allowed. I want to have genuine and open friendship with couples who understand this lifestyle, who have strong relationship and who trust each other and like to explore their relationship.


Definition of a Single Male in Swinging

A single male is an added benefit, not the main item. Take this, both of you go to store and buy a 90,000 rupees of Golden Jewelery set for your wife. May be you liked a 70,000/- of or 98,000/- rupees of set but this is what your wife liked. The point is both of you together doing shopping. Since you have taken such an expansive ornament the shopkeeper decides to give you a 3000-9000 rupees of dinner set as a discount or bonus so that next time you come to his shop again. RESULT: you got your jewelery + you got a free gift. That Jewelery store is Swing Lifestyle (Swinging Life Style) and that 90,000/- of Jewelery set is your relationship as a swinging couple and that extra bonus of 3000-9000/- is the single male. Its just a small part of your pleasure, it does not matter much. What does matter is that 90,000 rupees, your relation out of Swing Lifestyle, that Jewelery set, which you will definitely buy whether you get the added benefit or not.

So a single male is an added pleasure for a couple in Swing Lifestyle. The main part is the relationship that comes in swinging. I heard the 90% of Swinging couples don't divorce (yeas, I mean in US) and look 10 year younger that the others. Thats the best ornament to wear I think. A single male is an OUTSIDER. He is not there to enlighten their relationship, he can not. The couple himself is the one who can, only both of you together can enlighten your relation, anyone else is outsider and so is a single male and so is me. A single is there to give the couple added/extra pleasure of Swinging + may be a long term genuine friendship. He is neither capable of nor should be allowed to do anything else.

Just mail me: jay.rathor2009 at gmail (same at yahoo) and see if we get along.

EDIT: I just created a Swing Lifestyle profile

[ncmd_couple]

Rathor,

Your Swing Lifestyle profile is ok. I would be concerned about putting swinging and the information you have in the other profile together because you could then be identified. Your call.

S

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by rathor

EDIT: I just created a Swing Lifestyle profile

I don't believe, rathor, that you are interested in S L S. You're interested in meeting couples. Yes?

I always advise people to avoid a long list of "I don't like" and "I don't want." List all of the positives and none of the negatives.

You don't have any experience of sex yet? Well, that sort of novel approach might bring you some surprising results. You'll have to let me know if this attracts attention.

Keep up the good work. And keep it positive.

~Michael

[rathor]

Originally Posted by ncmd_couple

Rathor,

Your Swing Lifestyle profile is ok. I would be concerned about putting swinging and the information you have in the other profile together because you could then be identified. Your call.

Hi ncmd_couple,

Thanks for taking time to read my profile. Yes, I have put the information from Swing Lifestyle profile into my Orkut profile. They have the same information now.

I always appreciate any advice from experienced Swingers

EDIT: You kiss your wife very passionately (saw your profile pic here)

[rathor]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

I don't believe, rathor, that you are interested in S L S. You're interested in meeting couples. Yes?

Yep..

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

You don't have any experience of sex yet? Well, that sort of novel approach might bring you some surprising results. You'll have to let me know if this attracts attention.

Keep up the good work. And keep it positive.

OK, I will keep this "keep it positive" in mind, will let you know if my profile attracts some attention. I edited my profile a little with this new addition in I/We are looking for section :

I want her to enjoy most before I think of my own satisfaction, if she can't get satisfied, I will never feel good. I want the involvement of two bodies in heat. I will be very happy if your wife is open minded about it and knows what she wants from a single and she does not hesitate to tell me about the ways to make her please.

[Ilove24nik8]

Hi guys, this is my first post! woo! I have my Swing Lifestyle profile that I'd love for you guys to review and give me feedback on. I think I did a pretty good job but I've been way off before, here it is:

Adult Swingers Personals Service and LifeStyle info.

[BiloxiCouple]

Originally Posted by Ilove24nik8

Hi guys, this is my first post! woo! I have my Swing Lifestyle profile that I'd love for you guys to review and give me feedback on. I think I did a pretty good job but I've been way off before, here it is:

Adult Swingers Personals Service and LifeStyle info.

You may to look at your link again. Doesn't work. Your profile name does work there.

[Ilove24nik8]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

You may to look at your link again. Doesn't work. Your profile name does work there.

Hmm sorry about that, here you go:

Real Swingers Home Page. ilove24nik8