Singles Profile Reviews

[pants_1]

I'd be honored if someone would like to comment on my profile. It is on Swing Lifestyle, and you can link to it through the little dealy at left (now that I activated the external profile).

Thanks!

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by pants_1

I'd be honored if someone would like to comment on my profile. It is on Swing Lifestyle, and you can link to it through the little dealy at left (now that I activated the external profile).

Thanks!

First problem. You DID put that you are interested in couples. In fact, you put that you are more interested in couples than Females, so you might want to go back and adjust that. If, as you said in your actual profile, you aren't really looking to play with couples.

That said, you are posting an ad on a swinger site.... which typically isn't the best place to find single females for one on one sex. Just sayin.

[pants_1]

Oooh, I'll have to fix that. Although I am actually not disinterested in couples... maybe I should take some time and take the profile apart and put it back together again?

And, yeah, I know its weird looking on a predominantly couples site (why I'm not on CT), but I've had some good interactions on that site.

Thanks very much!

Jon

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by pants_1

Oooh, I'll have to fix that. Although I am actually not disinterested in couples... maybe I should take some time and take the profile apart and put it back together again?

And, yeah, I know its weird looking on a predominantly couples site (why I'm not on CT), but I've had some good interactions on that site.

Thanks very much!

Jon

If you are interested in couples, I'd definately suggest a full re-working of the profile. If you aren't really interested in couples, I'd just change the interest level and leave it at that. I'd also put it upfront (at the top) that you are married and swinging with your wife's permission (and that she will confirm that in whatever means potential playmates desire).

Nice pic, BTW, it made me smile when I saw it.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by pants_1

I'd be honored if someone would like to comment on my profile. It is on Swing Lifestyle, and you can link to it through the little dealy at left (now that I activated the external profile).

Thanks!

Jon ~

I would suggest reconsidering posting a public face picture at this point, based on what you have written in your other posts on the Board. At this time, you might think about whether you want your family, friends and coworkers seeing your face on swinger sites. You could find a way to show part of your face (like your smile) that also shows your physique (clothed is fine), then leave the full face pics as private.

LM

[pants_1]

Julie: Under the circumstances, I have altered my profile on this and all other sites to reflect my current status.

What made you smile? I don't follow you.

LikeMinds: I have taken your advice, and pulled the close-up face shots. If I ever decide to go hunting again, I'll consider what you suggest.

Thanks very much for your feedback!

Jon

[ENCRYPTEDTX]

I welcome people to take a look at my Swing Lifestyle profile

Real Swingers Home Page. encryptedtransmission

Any help is super appreciated!!

Kyle

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by ENCRYPTEDTX

I welcome people to take a look at my Swing Lifestyle profile

Real Swingers Home Page. encryptedtransmission

Any help is super appreciated!!

Kyle

"**Statistically 98% of you will stop reading after previous statement, but I dare you to continue. " - not really necessary - if they weren't looking for a single guy they wouldn't have been looking at your profile anyway. Statistically 98% of them won't even open your profile.

"If we meet you will see that my no-pressure conversation will have you instantly at ease." - this sentence strikes me as rather egotistical. If they are going to meet you, they are going to meet you... saying something like this is more likely to make me NOT want to meet you.

" I have studied "how" a single male should act in the lifestyle. I exhibit traits not found with many other single guys. " -
This sentence would be better "I have taken the time to learn what traits couples expect out of single males in the lifestyle, and feel that I embody those traits".

"My favorite part is hearing an "I love you" between the couple while engaged in our wonderful act." this one could set off some serious alarm bells. You might want to clarify that you enjoy hearing them say that to each other (not you).

Other than that, it looks really good. I like the picture you chose and your general attitude displays really well.

[The Fuse]

I agree with everything Julie said. But I'll also just say, I think your profile is fantastic. If we were looking for single men, we'd be looking for you. We live near Virginia Beach, so if you ever start swinging here with a girlfriend, I hope we'll hear from you.

[ENCRYPTEDTX]

Julie,

Constructive Criticism taken and changes to be applied! I appreciate you taking the time to look at it.

The Fuse,

Thank you for your inputs.

Virgina Beach is slowly becoming where I spend what little free time I have.

I appreciate the invite however it is very difficult finding a girlfriend when I am gone so often. I see your profile on Swing Lifestyle is invisible to single guys. We are at a stalemate unfortunately!

If you do know of any mixers of parties that polite single men can attend, I am all ears.

Kyle

[N8ture Girl]

Ditto all the above, but I just had to had one little thing..... love the apron!!

[ENCRYPTEDTX]

Originally Posted by N8ture Girl

Ditto all the above, but I just had to had one little thing..... love the apron!!

Dont tell anyone, but the reason I have that pic is because its a great ice-breaker.

It alligns pretty well with my personality and sense of humor....


Kyle

[GeeseWild]

I would appreciate any constructive feedback very much!

Real Swingers Home Page. soloinfrederick

Thank you.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by GeeseWild

I would appreciate any constructive feedback very much!

Real Swingers Home Page. soloinfrederick

Thank you.

Looks good to me. You have stated very clearly what you are looking for and who you are. Good picture. Just one thing. How is it going to help you to snare a swinging woman to say that you are able do handiwork? The implication is that you are willing to trade home repair for sexual favors. Don't think women are in the lifestyle for that reason. Maybe we will hear from some Swingersboard gals on that point.

~Michael

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by GeeseWild

I would appreciate any constructive feedback very much!

Real Swingers Home Page. soloinfrederick

Thank you.

You look rather tense and serious in your pictures and that doesn't make me comfortable or draw me in. I'd like to see a couple pictures: one showing a nice relaxed smile, one showing a full smile, IF that is a part of your nature. If not, then forget what I said. I do like that you have a wide variety of pictures that clearly show what you look like.

You say, "I am in an open relationship with a woman that is a very tame swinger." Sounds a little like you are complaining about her. Makes me wonder if things aren't going well between you two, especially since you focus on the type of woman you're seeking and not the play preferences of what you seek. I get the feeling you are looking for a new woman to replace your present one.

I would want to see a statement that your woman approves of you playing solo and that she is willing to speak to people who would wish to confirm this. Also, do you swing as a couple, too? If so, do you have a couple's profile on Swing Lifestyle that you can refer people to?

You conclude your profile with this:

Differences amongst people are what makes humanity strong, not realizing this makes us weaker. Unwillingness to find common ground between people with different ideas often leads to pain and suffering.

Downer man! Your personal profile isn't the place for these thoughts..."pain and suffering" suck as closing words.

Always end a profile with something uplifting, positive, and inviting to others.

LM