Am I too young to swing?

[jonbmf66]

Hello everyone, I am new to this site and i have an important question to ask before i look too far into this thing. I am 19 years old, and i am wondering if that is too young for many of the couples out there. I know that many of the couple that post on here are in there mid 20 and 30's. I am completely new to this and i would like to get some experience in some shape or fashion, but i didnt know if being only 19 would not even let me get a foot in the door.

[menher1559]

19 is pretty young. However we don't think it is too young to begin exploring the wonderful world of swinging. Our first experience with a single male was when we were in our late 20's and our male friend was 19 and that proved to be a wonderful relationship for many years. The problem you may run into however is once you begin a relationship where you want to settle down and begin a family your future mate may not be as excited about swinging as you are. Our advice is gain your experience, stay grounded in your principals and realize the broad perspective.

Hope this helps and best wishes. We're from the other end of KY, so if you're ever over our way, holler real loud and we just might here you

[dave110256]

You might be too young for people our ages, 40's, but am sure you will fit right in with the younger crowd...Welcome to the board.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by jonbmf66

I know that many of the couple that post on here are in there mid 20 and 30's.

I wouldn't be too sure about that.

Welcome welcome to the board. For us you would be too young but there are a lot of couples out there that wouldn't have a problem with it. If you are interested in the lifestyle stick around here and read through the forums there is a lot of information. If you have questions ask, this is a friendly group and always willing to help.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[Dr Jekyll]

While I don't think you are too young, as a single male, you may get really frustrated really quick with the effort involved in getting into swinging as a single male. You have so many options in terms of good times with girls of your own age etc, etc... It might just not be worth your while.

On the other hand you may have a great experience from early on... Only way to find out is to try it for yourself.

What menher said about future mates not being too keen is a big issue though, you'll find girls are generally not too impressed when you tell them you are a swinger...

[LikeMinds321]

I think menher1559 had some very good advice.

I search three swinger ad sites for couples and see many in their twenties and thirties. I think these age groups would be very open to you. Even more important than age, in many cases, is maturity and personality. If you impress other's with more than looks and a cock, you'll fare much better in the lifestyle; unless you are a person who is looking for swingers only interested in looks and the length of a cock, and that can be okay, I suppose, it's just not my thing and most of the people who post on the board seem to be looking for more than a physical-only experience.

Swinging is not an easy alternative to dating. Swinging can be way more difficult. If you want it to be a satisfying addition to your life, you'll want to spend some time on the board reading and educating yourself. I hope you will. You'll find we don't all have the same views, which makes for some hot, fun discussions that will make your head spin.

To answer your question: No, I don't think you are too young.

Personally, I'd love to mold you into a fabulous single male swinger through this board. I believe other members would like to help you along as well.

LM

[Denver2some]

Originally Posted by Dr Jekyll

While I don't think you are too young, as a single male, you may get really frustrated really quick with the effort involved in getting into swinging as a single male. You have so many options in terms of good times with girls of your own age etc, etc... It might just not be worth your while.

This piece of Dr. Jekyll's reply summarizes my thoughts exactly. Seeing how difficult it is for most single males to find the right couple, you could spend a lot of time and effort looking.

It depends on what your goals are. If you want to experience an MFM, you probably will be able to find that ... eventually. (Your age may not be an issue for the younger set.) If you are hoping to find a single bi-female and then become a couple who swings, you're almost guarenteed to be very, very disappointed. If your goal is simply to have as much "no strings" sex as possible, you are better off picking up vanilla girls in bars.

Once you can legally get into bars, that is ...

And that's another thought: at 19, you won't be allowed in clubs ... so your search for interested couples may be even harder.

[sensuality]

I'm 34 and my hunny is 32...and 19 for us is too young. Whether it is a female or a male.We just recently got an e-mail from a couple where the female is only 19 years old.Being that we have teenagers at home, that didn't sit well with us.We will not even considering meeting anyone under the age of 24.However, there are quite a few people getting into swinging now that are in their early to mid 20's and you probably won't have any troubles finding playmates.Also, this is just how we feel about the subject..."There's someone for everyone" as the saying goes ....Good Luck!!

[JustAskJulie]

I think that if your purpose for wanting to swing is just to get sexual experience then not only are you too young but you are here for the wrong reasons. Most couples who will swing with single males aren't doing it to teach someone the ropes, they want someone who already knows what he's doing.

[dave110256]

I think Julie just hit it on the button..............

[jonbmf66]

First off, thanks everyone for the quick replies and information. To answer and reply some of the thoughts everyone has, to give a little better look at what I am looking for. Firstly, I am not wanting to explore just for the sexual experience, but for the experience as a whole. Sexually is a reason yes, but there are other as I have just mentioned. I have been through the girlfriend thing many times, and I just want to experience something new and exciting while I am still young enough to do that. And some of you have mentioned that people do not want to "teach someone the ropes", but its not like I haven't had sex before. You do have to crawl before you walk. And if noone "teaches someone the ropes", then how does anyone learn how to get involved?

I also understand that being under 21 prevents me from visiting all the swinger clubs that are available, so that poses another question. It is not like I have to have a couple to get involved with right away, I am young and in no rush. To sum up everything I said, I just want to get my feet a little wet with idea. Also, I love everything I read on the forum, it really is a good source for people that have no previous knowledge on swinging. Once again, thank you everyone for replying, and if you have any more questions and/or comments, keep 'em comin'.

[EvilMJ]

Well,

I am not a stickler for age, young or old. I guess it depends on whether or not we would click.....although to be honest there are times I meet a guy and I feel like I should be his babysitter.

YOu could always come to Canada...you only have to be 19 to get into the clubs

[JnCC]

Originally Posted by jonbmf66

I just want to experience something new and exciting while I am still young enough to do that.

Hmmm...so, in your opinion, just how old is too old to "experience something new and exciting?"

Please tell me now, before I renew my life insurance for a whole year.

[jonbmf66]

Actually I meant before I get married to a girl that doesn't want to hear about the whole swinger thing, if that is the case. I didn't mean to make it sound like when I get older I won't be able to experience new and exciting things. Sorry about that.

EvilMJ, we are actually planing a trip to Windsor for sometime this coming spring lol

[jonbmf66]

Also, to answer some of the thoughts that were raised. I read on another thread that one of the other single guys said swinging was just one thing he did, while he still went out after and dated girls. I'm not saying I am only interested in the swinging lifestlye, it is just something I am interested in as well. If nothing comes of it, oh well, I'd still have the girls I am dating. If something does come of it, then you can never have too much of a good thing