Single Men: How did you get started?

[DE_BBC]

I got started just by viewing some of the hot-wife websites online....which led to the Yahoo Groups...which led to meeting a local couple..that turned into a nice long-term relationship and led to many meeting other couples(and a few single women)...I think it help that I was/am a younger black male...so there were many older married white women/couples that were looking for that.

[Reminiscent]

When I was a frustrated engineering school student, I was blown away by this confident, attractive older woman who flirted with me and eventually asked for me number (I was 21, she was 37).

Later, when I mentioned this to some of my friends, Justin, one of my more worldly friends gave me a little slip of paper with www..Swinglifestyle.com" on it saying "You might find more of that here."

The ages have varied quite a bit in the 3 years since, but if I ever see Justin from RPI again, I'm going to buy him a few pitchers of beer and trade stories.

[Lean]

The idea of swinging was something I always thought of at a young age from seeing movies and magazines. I started to date a girl that also got turned on by the idea. It went from there, and I have always been into it since. Its been a few years since the last time though.