Single guy signs up, shows up, gets hard, will not do it

[jedi6942]

All that has been said makes sense to me. Yet, another possiblity remains. He may have been put off because the husband entered her first. To a young man not accustomed to swinging that could play a major head game.

Not all think like this; but, some definately do.

[NumbskullsX2]

OK, this is an old thread and the original poster probably isn't even around, but I've been giving some thoght about why the guy couldn't stay hard.

For starters, I think there are a lot of single guys who are trying to connect with not very many couples so the couples can be pretty particular. They didn't say what there ages were, but maybe what was happening is that the guy was a little too young and good looking to stay turned on by the female half of the couple?

My husband had a threesome with a couple when he was on vacation in his 20's (before he met me). He said that it wasn't as much fun as he thought it would be because she was much older (25/50 something) and a little larger than the women he nrmally went with at the time. He said that every time the woman would get him hard, her husband would get all excited too and start masturbating and talking dirty and moving in on them which just killed the mood for him causing him to lose his erection. That happened about 2 or 3 times before the husband gave up and left the room (at her suggestion). My husband did what he had to do (I guess) and went back to his room also. He felt bad about it then, but it's funny when he tells the story now,