no questions, just a story (of a well-behaved single male)

[Mecka]

This isn't a thread of asking you guys questions, or anything of the sort. I just had a night, that i thought i needed to get off my chest. I was going to make this longer, and more story wise, but decided, short and sweet. Just needed to vent abotu finally doing something right in my life.

Tonight i had the chance to have two of the hottest girls i know at once, and have a very good time at it. But instead, i choose to go home, and bang my head against a wall.

Not all single swingers are jerks, and i proved that tonight. No matter how much i wanted that, One person wasn't there that had to be. The husband of the group, was asleep, and had just passed out before i got there. They waited for me, and i was late. So Rather then try to start something that wasn't right, I sucked it up, and went home. The single of the two, was the pushy one by the way. Which isn't a badthing. She is kind of a domanatrix. But we came to an understanding. The girls are allowed to play with out the guys, but one guy can't play, with out the other being there.

I know some single guys would have just gone for it, but I had one of those once in a lfie time conscience checks, and said, " Dude, damn. fuck. leave. it sucks, but its right." So i drove home.

I know tomorrow I'll feel a better man about it.

[Randalls_angel]

Originally Posted by Mecka

I know some single guys would have just gone for it, but I had one of those once in a lfie time conscience checks, and said, " Dude, damn. fuck. leave. it sucks, but its right." So i drove home.

I know tomorrow I'll feel a better man about it.

Mecka,
Kudos to you! You did the right thing and just raised the image of the single male swinger!!
~angel~

[HotCoupleGnS]

Dito to what Angel said!

[SexhoundDog]

I agree Mecka, you did the right thing. But, I think you'd feel a helluva lot better if you quickly followed up with the single woman and said "Hey, make sure you tell your married friend to be sure her hubby doesn't pass out, and let's all make a play date . . . VERY SOON !!!! Good luck, hate to see your balls get too blue!

[akamgaxoxo]

You did the right thing and you know what the M will trust and respect you for it! WAY TO GO!

[EternallySingle]

You did the right thing. Since the husband knew you were coming, by passing out before you got there, he showed he was either not responsible or didn't take your feelings or those of his wife into consideration, especially since there was to be know sex if both were't present...meaning awake as well as in the same location.

[Mecka]

Well the single girl, might not be single much longer, and i might have to change my board status soon too. Never know.

But it wasn't cause he didn't care, the husband fell asleep cause it was late and he had to work, and i was already running an hour late due to back log at work. Swing shift sometimes ruins things, but i wouldn't take any other shift.

Just sorry things didn't happen. Cause me and the couple have been "friends" for a while, and we were really looking forward to adding more friends to our "party". Maybe later. But i still am glad i madee the descisions i did that night. Glad i wasn't an idiot and started something that wasn't right. He appriciated it too. But he even said damn, i don't know if i would have had that kind of restraint. Im super man ! Du dun dun !

[EternallySingle]

Originally Posted by Mecka

Well the single girl, might not be single much longer, and i might have to change my board status soon too. Never know.

But it wasn't cause he didn't care, the husband fell asleep cause it was late and he had to work, and i was already running an hour late due to back log at work. Swing shift sometimes ruins things, but i wouldn't take any other shift.

Just sorry things didn't happen. Cause me and the couple have been "friends" for a while, and we were really looking forward to adding more friends to our "party". Maybe later. But i still am glad i madee the descisions i did that night. Glad i wasn't an idiot and started something that wasn't right. He appriciated it too. But he even said damn, i don't know if i would have had that kind of restraint. Im super man ! Du dun dun !

When you said "passed out" I thought you meant drank too much and passed out from boredom. While going to bed makes sense since he had to work the next day, I still don't think they should have scheduled on a work nite, but thats just me.

Anyway, a dominatrix? Man, you're braver than I am.