Ok...here goes..I'm not even sure if I'm posting in the right topic as we really aren't "newbies" yet, but just a couple talking and thinking about it.
We've talked for several years about a threesome with another female. We say it's my fantasy (which it is) but I believe it's also my husbands.
We've batted around the idea of a foursome. We always get into this "You wouldn't want to do that, would you?" "I don't know, would you?" thing. Then we say "Nah." But in truth, I find the idea interesting. I'm thinking that we are both rather interested, but may be afraid to tell the other thinking that they may get mad.
My thing is, how to breach the subject. And how to set boundaries. Is there such thing as hooking up with another couple for maybe just foreplay but no actual swapping, at least to begin with? Or maybe each staying with their own? I think that would be plenty of turn on for us for a while.
I'm not sure if I'm putting this the right way. LOL I think my big fear is that the experience will cause jealously and ultimately ruin our marriage. We've been together 6 years. Married for 4 and we're as close as I imagine a couple could get. I DO have a jealous bone in my body. My husband has never been overly so. I have had several very good male friend online in the past and it hasn't been a problem.
My other problem is my body image. I'm an overweight female who simply doesn't like her body and would prefer to hid in the dark during sex.
Ok..I have a million questions, but will let this suffice for now as I can't think of anymore at this moment!