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Hubby and I watch them together. How could watching people have sex not make you horny? We usually fast forward through the plot...well, because all the plots in our movies are stupid. So we only watch the actual sex. But maybe we'd like a porn with a good story line - can't say for sure 'cause we still haven't found one!!!

 

I do remember my ex watching a porn and I got very upset about it. I think it was different with him versus my husband because with ex, I was not confident or sure about our relationship. With my husband, I know he loves me, and I know those porn chicks can't compare to me in his eyes!

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btw, I HATE 'the money shot' in porn. The place for cum is deep inside the woman IMHO

J

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We love watching porn together. I'm (female) the one who tends to look at more pics online the he does. We've both been known to watch porn by ourselves. Most of the time I'm asking him which one does he want to watch. Something that may make your wife comfortable while watching a porn with you is give her the remote and tell her when they are doing something she doesn't like, fast-forward it to the next scene. Maybe then she'll be interested in it.

 

BTW... since when are there plots in porns? :rofl:

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Originally posted by hfire269

BTW...since when are there plots in porns? :rofl:

The question might better be: When were there plots in porns?

 

With a few relatively rare exceptions, it seems that the era of the plot-porn combo is now a long way behind us . . .

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I have never dated a women that didn't enjoy some porn. However, I've always made sure to select porn to a persons taste. For example if a women didn't show much or any interest in porn I would only rent "couples" movies instead of the more "nasty" movies. You would be surprised how many women actually enjoy adult movies if you know what to get.

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We're trying to source a copy of 'Insatiable' on the grounds that:

 

a) it does have a plot;

b) it has some genuine production values (i.e. 35mm, real locations);

c) though not as explicit as present day stuff, the sex is supposedly a good deal more erotic;

d) it's a slice of nostalgia;

e) it has Marilyn Chambers;

f) it has John Holmes (who we've never seen in a film before).

 

Is there anybody here who's seen it, and is therefore in a position to comment on the above points?

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But now I absolutely love it!

I am the one to tell the hubby that the collection is getting stale and we need to make a new purchase!

I found my way with the soft core stuff first.........and my hubby was the best. He was very patient with me.

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I watch a porno with my husband and I don't get turned on - but most pornos start right into heavy sex without foreplay to entice me. I like more subtle/ teasing pornos. I enjoy having a porno on when we go to bed sometimes and I get turned on hearing a porn during sex .

 

- I get turned on when my wife tries to watch porno with me. I think it excites me watching her during a porn not the porno itself.

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we are no longer in the dark ages...women can get just as much pleasure from porn movies as men...whether you are watching it with your partner or stag.

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It's really strange , I used to love porn would really turn me on as a bi sexual woman however I have seen so many that I have become numb to them. Yes the odd time there will be a sexy woman or man and wow they are hot but it does nothing for me to watch them. Really being in the lifestyle we get to see real sex and get to participate instead of watching it on a screen which is a fantasy to the normal folks out there who need porn.

Same with my man he really doesn't get into porn anymore kinda bores us both. We would rather call a couple over to our place and direct our own porno .....At least that way no chance of Ron Jeromy walking into a scene. :lol:::P::eek:

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I LOVE watching Ron Jeremy fuck a beautiful babe. "Beauty and the beast" sex is a turn-on for me. :fun:

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Have you seen that special on Ron ? If not watch it's a great documentary on him. He seems like a great guy and wow what a piece of equipment !!::P:

I guess I am jealous he gets all the babes ....:(

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No, I haven't seen it yet. I'm looking forward to watching the documentary. He is one of the richest adult film stars.

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Hey Lorrie hun that Documentary is called " Porn Star" The legend of Ron Jeremy ....Really check it out it's well done.

Enjoy !!

Love Deesire:kissface:

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My husband really enjoys watching porn. I view it after a few drinks. I particularly like lots of M/F/M action, it gets me hot. Sex is always hotter after porn.

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Some friends told us about a game that you can play with porn that is piped/cabled into hotel rooms.

 

In hotels where you are permitted to watch up to a minute's worth of action before you start getting billed, you watch the minute's worth, quickly switch off and then take it in turns to decide "what happens next?" You then have to 'do' whatever you've decided is the next thing to occur. Then switch back on, and see how close you are. Prizes and forfeits as you like.

 

Sounded a bit convoluted to us, but with enough alcohol, who knows?

 

;)

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We watch lots of porn, and some I like better that others. A few of our friends kid me because I know all the actors in 7 Lives Exposed, all about Tiffany and Julie (Playboy Channel), but I have learned a lot just by paying attention. :lol:

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My wife and I have been collecting porn for years, and we're tired of the bad-plot, "I'm here to fix your pipes" porn that seems to dominate the market. However, we've found that, if there is no attempt to create a plot, then we're happy with that too. Several of the titles from Diabolic video and a couple of the vids from Red Light District fit this description.

 

"Gonzo Porn" is also one of our newfound faves. Based on Hunter S. Thompson's concept of "Gonzo Journalism", Gonzo Porn involves the cameraman in the sex scenes. Everything is from the cameraman's point of view. With one hand on the camera and one hand on his partner, you get a first-person involvement that is an interesting twist. I think it probably evolved from homemade porn by couples who didn't own a tripod. :)

 

As for making our own, we've discussed the possibility of starting our own production company. Now, we just need a camera, a crew and some actors.

 

However, being in Alabama is a problem. They're hard on porn here in the Bible Belt. We can't access some satellite channels and some hardcore porn can't be mailed to Alabama addresses. We can't even rent hardcore films. You have to buy them outright and turn them back in for a "trade-in" credit.

 

Vjklander, I agree with you on the cum-shot issue. I'm not sure how the "facials" and cum-shots got started, but I have no use for them. I guess that in the early days of porn flicks, maybe there was a need to show semen to "validate" the film. As you see in behind-the-scenes films like "Boogie Nights", there's nothing that can't be faked in post-production anyway. My wife and I actually get a kick out of making fun of the porn conventions. We say, "and there it is — the cumshot" because we know it's going to happen. What's hilarious to us is that this guy has been humpin' to please for 30-45 minutes and he ends up having to masturbate to orgasm. I feel sorry for these guys!

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Originally posted by ionsawmill

"Gonzo Porn" is also one of our newfound faves. Based on Hunter S. Thompson's concept of "Gonzo Journalism", Gonzo Porn involves the cameraman in the sex scenes. Everything is from the cameraman's point of view. With one hand on the camera and one hand on his partner, you get a first-person involvement that is an interesting twist. I think it probably evolved from homemade porn by couples who didn't own a tripod. :)

 

As for making our own, we've discussed the possibility of starting our own production company. Now, we just need a camera, a crew and some actors.

 

I LOVE Gonzo Porn. :D

 

It's GREAT that you are considering starting your own production company. I believe getting in to the business (regarding being hired in the making of films, but not performing), is almost impossible these days.

 

In general, it's usually best being your own boss anyway.

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I just got a call from my local adult video store. I won 4 free movies!

 

The girl who called was so funny. She said my wife sounded gruff on the phone. She was afraid she had "outed" me. I assured her that we shop together and that my wife was as happy I'd won as I was.

 

Free porn! And I never win anything!

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Originally posted by ionsawmill

 

Free porn! And I never win anything!

 

COOL! :D

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Originally posted by ionsawmill

Free porn!

 

SWEEET!

 

Boobs , Bacon, and Free Porn make everything better!

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I think that your wife might be right...most women are turned off on it because we tend to think that the women in the movie look better than us, have bigger boobs than us or our men are attracted to the women more than he is to us. I however love spending time with Alex going to adult theaters and adult bookstore :fun: it has enhanced our relationship 200%.

 

Hope that you get the info that you looking for ;)

 

Billie

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My husband and i love to watch porn together. We love to please each other in ways most people don't know how to. We are porn addicts. WE LOVE SEX!!!!!!!!!

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It's how we learned to be expressive.

 

In the bad old days, if a guy wanted to do things with his dick other than get a BJ or insert it into her pussy he had to either be with a pretty wild (or drunk) chick or have a VERY strong and honest relationship with her.

 

Same applied to girls who wanted more than just the shy/inhibited attentions of the "average" guy making love to her in order to orgasm fully.

 

Prior to the easy access of pornography, a lot of guys wondered if they might be perverts and a lot of ladies wondered if they were irredeemable sluts.

 

Bud will never forget the first time his then girlfriend (but soon to be wife) was getting off totally on their sex and told him to stand above her and masturbate whilst she did likewise with her pussy and with her legs spread wide so he could see every action of her fingers as she pleasured herself (a daughter of very strict and conservative parents which might go some way to explaining her lack of inhibitions - lol).

 

Su found it hard to believe that a man would understand her need to flirt outrageously with other guys and girls, while she and Bud were out or while she was out alone with her friends and discuss her blatant sexuality and showing off and how it had turned her on whilst making love to Bud later.

 

Thank Buddha for porn.

 

In our joint opinion, much of it is becoming too extreme, recently, inasmuch that most appear to humiliate the female actresses.

 

Ass to mouth, slapping, cum-swapping etc. We don't need to go on.

 

But if it weren't for porn, we'd probably be living like our grandparents must have - in denial of our needs/wants through feelings of sexual isolation.

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I love porn. I have a fairly extensive collection on a variety of subjects. Friends come over, I pop in a DVD. I bring some to parties. Sometimes I watch 'em just because they're fun to watch (I just gotta remember not to eat Cheetos).

 

The VERY FIRST porn movie I ever saw was "Behind the Green Door" with Marilyn Chambers. Definitely a classic and generated some youthful fantasies for years! (Yeah I own a copy!)

 

On the subject of Ron Jeremy, he's one of those porn actors you either love or hate. I can't count the number of times I've heard the word "sleaze" associated with him, but I can't help but admire his longevity in the business. I mean, you got this guy who's basically a personified version of a porcupine screwing these hot babes.

 

Gives guys like me some hope. :lol:

 

But still, you know you watch too much porn when you hear some cheesy pick-up line and you think, "Hey, I gotta try that!"

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My first porn flick was "borrowed" from my dad at about 14. Hypatia Lee in the hottest solo sex scene I have ever seen, even now. The wife and I watch porn together from time to time, and when I see pics she likes I send them to her for future discussion. ;) I have an extensive (read exceedingly large) collection of DVD ripped porn. Something in the range of 450Gig, or close to 1000 hours. Ive only ever watched about 3 hours of it though. LOL So if you're looking for anything specific let me know I'll see if I have it.

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WE both love porn and watch it together. We alternate who picks. So far, I think my picks turn out better than his...

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We watch porn together. I (female) have been watching porn with various partners and on my own for years. I am definitely a visually stimulated gal.

 

It is hard to find good stuff these days but if you keep searching you never know. I believe there are a few threads on here to do with good porn for couples.

 

On the subject of Ron Jeremy, he's one of those porn actors you either love or hate. I can't count the number of times I've heard the word "sleaze" associated with him, but I can't help but admire his longevity in the business. I mean, you got this guy who's basically a personified version of a porcupine screwing these hot babes.
Ron started at a time when the men and women in porn looked like "normal" people. Ron in comparison at that time (he wasn't as portly as he is now) looked okay. Maybe a little geeky. He seemed to develop a specialty of anal sex at a time when it wasn't that popular or common in the movies.

 

Now I think it is just a porn star status symbol to fuck him on screen.

 

I also prefer the older porn to this new stuff...pretty plastic people who don't say more than 3 words on screen just don't do it for me.

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We love porn, but prefer amateur porn. I hate the big named ones with all of the production and noise....call me naive, but I like to believe that when the woman is having an orgasm she really is having an orgasm lol. I'm not bi, but I do enjoy watching women have orgasms, and with some of the productions you can just tell they are faking it.

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Ron started at a time when the men and women in porn looked like "normal" people. Ron in comparison at that time (he wasn't as portly as he is now) looked okay. Maybe a little geeky. He seemed to develop a specialty of anal sex at a time when it wasn't that popular or common in the movies.

I think that his ability to give himself a blow job could have had something to do with it too. :eek:

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I think that his ability to give himself a blow job could have had something to do with it too. :eek:

 

If Jay had this ability he would never leave the house! facelick

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I do like watching porn (wife), I find it a turn-on and sometimes very intriguing. We do watch it together but I would probably watch it alone as well, when we watch it together I like to comment on how they have sex, if it looks fake or how big their tits or and more, porn makes great conversation when kids are a sleep and plain fun.

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We like to watch it together; definitely gets us worked up and leads to great sex! But most of what we have stumbled across is boring or demeaning.

 

Neither of us like watching a) guys get a BJ (boooring) b) guys treating the girls like some crappy whore (demeaning and NOT erotic) c) loud unreal noises or horrible plots ( visualize an eye roll and pathetic sigh).

 

We especially like FF, multiple partner, and respectful clips. It can be MF, MMMFMM, FFFMFFF, or anything in between and be respectful (thus very entertaining).

 

Basically, drop the plot attempts and show close ups; that's what we want to see!

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Neither of us like watching a) guys get a BJ (boooring) b) guys treating the girls like some crappy whore (demeaning and NOT erotic) c) loud unreal noises or horrible plots ( visualize an eye roll and pathetic sigh).

 

This is why we prefer amateur porn. I hate the ones with the lights and the huge show. But yes, we enjoy watching them as well....even though we need to invest in some new ones. I think the actresses on the ones we have are on Medicare.

But hey, that's okay too!

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We both enjoy porn. It's fun to watch it together and with lifestyle friends. When Rob's away on business I like to curl up at home with a glass of wine, a few candles, a decent toy and, of course, a good porno. Rob watches them on his own as well but mostly me.

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I suggest it 90% of the time but that 10% when she does it is the wildest sex ever.

I was out of town last month and she calls me to say she has rented a xxx movie and is watching as she talks to me on the phone well I probably don't need to say what happened with me

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There was a time that I (female half) did not like porn movies and found no use for it. In the last year or so I think I have watch at least 50 to 75 porn movies. They are educational if you are looking about trying some new sex positions and different ways on turning on your man and/or woman. You know some..... :eatout::cunny::splooge: All are good. :guilty:

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We are a porn watching couple. Some of it is pretty bad...no, quite a bit of it is very trashy. We've found our niche with the Up & Cummers. Randy just seems to enjoy the ladies, and the ladies just seem to enjoy Randy. More like r e a l sex to us, and boy, oh boy does it do its magic. Mrs Co really gets going. :-')

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She loves good porn just as much as the next guy...We like to watch together and will masturbate while we watch the porn and each other. Something very hot about you and your partner masturbating together to some porn!

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Not that it's surprising considering the audience here, but this thread is so very different from the porn threads you find on "vanilla" websites. I especially liked the line about remembering not to eat cheetos while watching porn. Yowsa!

 

Mr knb

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Sex without porn??? :eek: Who woulda thunk it????

 

No, seriously, I enjoy watching porn with the hubby all the time. We have a "library" as he calls it. And I think we have watched all of them. The DVDs even have side A and side B. We were starting the second round of side A when we discovered the side B on them. It was like instantly doubling our collection!!! :D

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About the only type of movie we can agree on is porn. For the last 3 years or so, I'd say 99% of the DVD's we've watched together are porn.

 

We love it. It's a great way to get the juices flowing (pun intended) and ease into things. We are usually all over each other before the 3rd or 4th scene.

 

In fact, it's to the point where when one of use suggests "do you want to watch a movie tonight", we don't mean anything else except porn.

 

J & L

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