Hi all! I've begun a group in Bowling Green, KY for adult swingers. A topic of interest to me is how to keep couples/gals happy but also have a nice mix of single males.
Today, I received an email from a guy who said:
"First of all let me say that i am not a single male, my wife and i used to be in the swingers circle but no longer are. I am a married guy who is looking for a ..."
My response to him is that for all purposes he IS a single male when it comes to the lifestyle because he does not come into any relationship with another.
For any gang-bang that I lend my hand to, and help supply the male participants, I require all single males to meet with me before-hand. I chat with them to see what they are like, if they are hospitable, and if the stats they quote are accurate. (Yes, I even look at their cocks.) I then post those that I've "passed" onto a list on our site, thinking that I've weeded out some of the more aggressive ones out.
Your views on the matter? As a couple, would you appreciate this type of list? Secondly, is the male above a "single male"?
Thanks for any tips and hints and insight!