Our little secret?

[Coupleerotic22]

I would say having conversations about things that most, if not all of our vanilla friends wouldn't understand. It is a nice guilty please to talk openly about our secret side to some people.

And it is sometimes fun in vanilla company listening to the conversations knowing what we do.

[Gordo]

I think a simple "yes" will do

[couple4couple]

We LOVE our secret little second life! We play the blue/green game so we can talk openly in public. When our swingdar goes off, we ask each other if a couple is blue (vanilla) or green (swinger).

Hot couple walks by. "I wish they were green, but probably are blue. Bummer." Nobody has a clue what we're talking about

It's beautiful.

[EnjoyingLife]

I love dressing up in sexy outfits and costumes. Going to swing clubs gives me a place to do it!

I have to agree with this one. I love that about it! The friendships we are forming are priceless too. Even in just the few short months we've been doing this we've made friends that we've been able to be more open and honest with than any other friends we've ever had.

Ha, ha, ha! "Swingdar." Hadn't thought of it that way, but that's exactly what it was this past weekend. We were out with vanilla friends and their friends, and we could just tell the way our friends friends were acting with each other that there was more going on there!