We've been playing with the idea for a long time. Visting this site, reading and talking about what we want, limits etc. We've taken this long so that we don't waist others time and as sure as we can be that we're ready.
So we get a response on our add. After we read their profile we politely respond to make sure they read ours and what we are looking for. They respond bac with a possitive. Explain that while we've been here for a while we are newbies and while we're ready to meet we don't know where our limits are. Are they still interested? pick a time and place
We're nervous, but ready to go. So, long story short, it's the 3rd time we've been blown off after they asked to set up a meet.
One of her concerns have always been that the "people" on here are not real and now she's pretty much saying "told you so"
people always talking about newbies and how much drama comes with them etc. Yet here is a couple who contact us and now blowing us off.
So is this common, are we over reacting? I mean I know stuff comes up, but we sent a message hey we're available 1 - 2 weeks you pick the time and place and get nothing back