For years before my husband and I ever discussed swinging, we talked about how nice it would be to find another spouse(s). I kind of dismissed it as being an unattainable dream. Now that we're getting into swinging and I'm reading the poly threads here, I'm wondering if it might actually be possible.
Do most poly relationships start with singles who aren't really in the swinging lifestyle, or do they start with swingers? How do you go about -finding- people who might be open to poly relationships? Do you have any reading suggestions?
Thanks a bunch!