Wife sharing ... crossing the line?

[kellimc]

I've had a number of offers, mostly from couples on swinger sites, who have wanted to fly me to their towns all across the country and give me expensive gifts just for spending a weekend with them. I have always refused even on those rare occasions when I found the couples attractive. I swing because I like sex and I'm an exhibitionist, not because I want material possessions. If I wanted to exchange sex for valuables, I'd be an escort and take on anyone who was willing to pay.

[robel12550]

We think Chicup has the situation pretty much pegged or else the poster is looking to be cuckold ultimately. First he says his wife won't have sex with him after being with the rich guy then she's in collusion with that guy to have her husband eat her out after they had sex. Huh? And the husband doesn't like this, but now is OK with it. We're pretty much on the aspect this is "fantasy", definitely NOT "swinging", and should probably be posted more in a cuckold forum.

But it definitely has generated quite a bit of text traffic.

And KelliMC can contact us any time she's in the area for a nice dinner with no further expectations past that if not interested.

Enjoy!

[jandlvaldosta]

I realize this thread has generated controversy and that is not my intention. We are still involved in the relationship with our benefactor and his associates. I find nothing sexier for my wife to return at 2 am after entertaining one or more of them.

[dodgechevy]

So we agree then that the OP is a cuckold fantasy troll? I'm completely with Chiccup on this one. We have to discourage these types of posts from swingersboard, swinging in general really.

Swinging is an activity of sharing, bonding, and mutual respect. Really the opposite of the cuckold community.

I'm not saying that cuckolding (cuckoldism? haha) should be despised, everyone has their own fetish. Whatever floats your boat if you will. But there are other places to spell out those kind of fantasies.

Now the overall topic is interesting, minus the troll parts of course, but perhaps such a discussion would be better suited in a new thread with said parts gone. Do we really need to give advice to someone who obviously is just fantasizing, never mind that they actually get off on the "bad results."

Even if the entire story was all true. I think we can all agree that this is not swinging. So something we are ill prepared to advise on. Time to go to a different forum.

[Alura]

I agree. That swinging is different from society's norm is not a reason that we should embrace all sexual variations, especially a fetish that is diametrically opposed to our values.

Alura

[drinnt]

Hi jandlvaldosta,

Before I say this I want to also say that I need to take my own advise sometimes. Temptation DOES get the better of us. That said...when we make choices from a place of being tempted there are often unwanted consequences. The alternative would be to make a choice from a place of being THRILLED. It does not sound like this opportunity is one that THRILLS you. It sounds like you are TEMPTED. Which means you might be able to "stomach" this guy being with your wife in exchange for a certain amount of amenities. You have to ask yourself what exchange rate is he working on? Just when will he have had his fill? I would be leery of anyone offering an opportunity where s/he didn't stand to have as much to lose in the deal. It would be a HELL NO for me. It might be a HELL YES for you, and that would be okay, but it doesn't sound that way...

Steve