Starting things off with a BANG!!

[shootermcgavin6]

We've been together for 7 years and had a few escapades but nothing that we would consider crazy. We started playing a game to see which one of us could come up with the hottest, sexiest, dirtiest, raunchiest scenario to get into. To make a long story short I won well actually we both won. This is what we would like to do and we're hoping that some of you can help us with some logistical advice and/or any helpful hints to make our Endeavour a success. We've talked a lot about Dana being in a gangbang before we get married. So we actually want to have it right before we get married. She's going to wear her wedding dress and I'll be in my tux. We would like to get a couple adjoining hotel rooms with around 15 to 20 random guys for the fun. We would like to provide a nice party atmosphere with gangbang porn on the TVs and refreshments, condoms, food etc. Do you think it would be appropriate to ask for a small donation to help pay for the digs? On a another note, we would like to record the event but we know that the idea might scare them off. Do you think that if we offered to supply masks that it would make a difference? Being able to watch it over and over while cherishing the images of her beautiful body being plastered with dozens of hot loads would be the greatest wedding present either of us could ever imagine. Anyway, we live in Atlanta and would love to get some of the Swinger's Board members to attend if possible

[AuburnCpl]

By "escapades", do you mean swinging? If not then this might not be the best way to dive in.

Do you think it would be appropriate to ask for a small donation to help pay for the digs?

I can see why you'd ask for this but a lot of people, such as hotel management or the police, could see this as running a sex-based business or prostitution - especially since you're in Atlanta. No offence to Atlanta but it's no secret that the general population is very conservative there.

I'd also think that having a group of random guys would be a security issue. Maybe there would be less risk of things getting seriously out of hand if you did it with a smaller group of guys you've played with before. Just seems like the more variables you throw into the mix - the more chance for disaster. Maybe you could do this at a swingers club that has a good history of weeding out the riff-raff. Or, finding single guys on a site like Swing Lifestyle that have a lot of good certifications from past playmates (makes me think of the feedback system on eBay ).

[good times]

First off, no, you cannot charge the guys, that would be illegal.

As far as setting this up goes, the hard part would be to first find even 5 or 10 willing guys. Then if you do find, lets say 10 guys, getting more than 3 or 4 of them to actually show up would be a pretty good turn out as far as gang bangs go. We have been active swingers for many years, and know literally hundreds of swingers, yet, I don't know 5 that would be interested in a gang bang. While it is a great fantasy, very few guys I know are interested in actually participating in one. Judging by the dozen or so people we have seen try to set one up in the past that failed, in reality, it is a lot harder to do than it would seem.

[ncmd_couple]

Well, that is one hell of a fantasy..

But, as a guy, if I saw you advertising this, my reaction would be, "Are you fucking crazy?" No way would I participate in something like this.

S

[forfunonly692]

In the pacific northwest we have found multiple men in the swing lifestyle who would be willing to participate in a gang bang (we have hosted 2 of them), but even more of them in the fetish/BDSM world. (They are also into the sex, not just into flogging the bride to be). This may be out of line here to mention another group, but depending on location I would first check at local munches (as the BDSM folks call their meet and greets) or look to meet some folks on Fetlife.com. I would be careful about discretion and noise in a conservative community, and make sure you pay costs of rooms, condoms etc yourselves so there is no hint of prostitution.

Remember for every 3 men who RSVP that they will absolutely be there, only 1 will show up for the event (men fantasize about doing this but get cold willies at the last minute). Filming and masks should be asked about with the participants in advance. I might also suggest finding a good friend to be a fluffer for your bride, to keep the men who are in the warm up pen nice and warm (and hard). Good luck and have fun, too bad we live to far away to help you with despoiling your southern lady.

[Additude]

Sounds like a very hot fantasy. Actually I really like it.

But I agree with all the above. It's my understanding that there are many no-shows in a GB.

Second is, lets say you had 20 guys...traversing thru a hotel lobby...all in one room...that is kind of suspicious.

Maybe if you went to a swingers party hotel takeover where they allowed single guys you could somehow hand out invitations there. Just a thought.

But hey, good luck and CONGRATULATIONS!!!! on getting married.

If it works out, be sure to return here and tell us, in detail, how it went

[fun4Ds]

Interesting fantasy, not that I wouldn't think about joining in the fun but the pre-wedding idea, would not be my cup of tea.....

I'm one of those people who would have to know you well before hand and quite frankly Mrsfun would attend (not as a participant, but as my armed guard while my pants are down) so that leaves me out as random.

If I may ask, would the gang-bang idea/fantasy be as exciting after the honeymoon ?


Fun4ds

[DigginIt]

Mrs. Diggs, who had her dress stepped on and had the entire ass ripped out during the reception thinks that you may want to reconsider the Wedding Dress idea unless you do it after the wedding. They are way expensive and you might be slightly embarrassed if you can't get any necessary repairs done before the big day.

Congratulations.

[shootermcgavin6]

Thank you for your insite! You make some extremely valid points and issues to take into consideration. I especially like the idea of utilizing a club for a source of bodies. I probably could have expressed myself a little better when I used the word "random", what I meant was men that at this time have no immediate ties to us. As far as "escapades" is concerned, I have double teamed her with a friend of mine twice and just a short time ago I watched her get fucked by these two male strippers.

I'm not overly worried about hotel management or the police. After managing and having run security for a few of the busiest night clubs in Atlanta I am experienced in navigating those waters.

By "escapades", do you mean swinging? If not then this might not be the best way to dive in.




I can see why you'd ask for this but a lot of people, such as hotel management or the police, could see this as running a sex-based business or prostitution - especially since you're in Atlanta. No offence to Atlanta but it's no secret that the general population is very conservative there.

I'd also think that having a group of random guys would be a security issue. Maybe there would be less risk of things getting seriously out of hand if you did it with a smaller group of guys you've played with before. Just seems like the more variables you throw into the mix - the more chance for disaster. Maybe you could do this at a swingers club that has a good history of weeding out the riff-raff. Or, finding single guys on a site like Swing Lifestyle that have a lot of good certifications from past playmates (makes me think of the feedback system on eBay ).

[shootermcgavin6]

This is another topic where my management history gives me a little more knowledge about the can's and can nots. Take for instance you want to throw a party at your home. You want to provide food and beer and get a band that would cost you to book them for the gig. Because you would not have the proper licensing, it would be illegal to charge for any specific service or item. However you would be in your legal rights to charge a entry fee with the condition that anything there would be provided on a complimentary basis. This not about making money for sex. It's about providing a really great experience for everyone involved.

First off, no, you cannot charge the guys, that would be illegal.

As far as setting this up goes, the hard part would be to first find even 5 or 10 willing guys. Then if you do find, lets say 10 guys, getting more than 3 or 4 of them to actually show up would be a pretty good turn out as far as gang bangs go. We have been active swingers for many years, and know literally hundreds of swingers, yet, I don't know 5 that would be interested in a gang bang. While it is a great fantasy, very few guys I know are interested in actually participating in one. Judging by the dozen or so people we have seen try to set one up in the past that failed, in reality, it is a lot harder to do than it would seem.

[snapps]

wow, umm, a couple things. First of all congratulations on your marriage and your obvious exciting life together. Second, you may want to reconsider the wedding dress thing BEFORE the marriage and do it AFTER... besides that, good luck, and i hope to hear the full story after it happens!!

[bbarnsworth]

Having a party that you charge admission for at your house is one thing. Having a party where your wife to be is the main attraction and charging admission is quite another. If the police get involved, you can pretty much guarantee a prostitution charge, no matter HOW innocent it all is. Worse, whether the charge sticks or not, it will cost you a huge bundle of money fighting the charge.

If you can't afford the necessary room/drinks/etc. needed to set this up, forget it and hold off doing it until you can. You do NOT need this complication.

Also 100% agreement with what several have said. Your wife in her wedding dress? Having sex with 15-20 men? Do you honestly think the dress is going to come out of this scenario undamaged and (far less likely) unstained? The day my wife and I got married, we got busy just as soon as we had a private moment. Even with just the two of us, the dress did not come away intact.

[JustAskJulie]

Mrs. Diggs, who had her dress stepped on and had the entire ass ripped out during the reception thinks that you may want to reconsider the Wedding Dress idea unless you do it after the wedding. They are way expensive and you might be slightly embarrassed if you can't get any necessary repairs done before the big day.

Congratulations.

This was my first thought as well. Doing it in the dress BEFORE the wedding just seems like a disaster waiting to happen.

That said, as others have said your main logistical issue is going to be finding the guys. If you are open to black guys do a Google for Atlanta Mandingo Club. I'm not sure if there is an Atlanta based group or not, but if there is that will be your best bet for making this happen with some hot respectful guys who know what they are doing. Outside of finding an actual existing gangbang group (of guys who are experienced) it's going to be very difficult lining up guys you don't know (trust me I've done it). Lots of guys will commit and then flake or freak out when it comes down to it. I've given this number before as have others, invite at least 3 times as many guys as you actually want to show up.

[snapps]

might wanna push this to after the wedding... just s thought.. lol