Last month's theme at Swing Lifestyle was, "Hi, I'm married but my wife has given me permission." This month's theme is building to be, "Hi, I really like BBWs."
Gentlemen. Do you really think that this statement, particularly when delivered as part of an introductory message, is going to prompt a favorable response? It's patronizing. That, at least, is what JoAnn is telling me. My own interpretation is that no woman completely approves of what she sees in a mirror. It's not going to help you if you pick up a mirror and hold it in front of her and reminder her of what might be the one of the salient reasons that she sees herself as less than perfect. I'll bet that never once has a woman sent a message to a man and said, "I really like beer bellies."
Now climbing down from my soap box,