I changed your title to reflect what you shared here. I wasn't the one who originally changed your title but title changing to make a thread title more appropriate to the thread (or search engine friendly ) is a common practice here. In this case, until your last post your thread read as tho you were looking to swing on your own without your wife (even in your post about having asked her for permission and being declined). I'm glad to see that is not the case, and I know there are many others here in your shoes that empathize with you as well.




