Our personal definition of No Drama.. would have to be the TRAIN WRECK FOLK
y'know the type, they SEEM great.. until you actually TALK to them..
A recent example, similar to Julie's.. a couple new to the area here.. Moved 4000 miles to get here..
When they have the inital conversation, proceeded to bitch about the trip.. then as they suddenly realised this wasnt a "selling point" for them, & switched gears briefly..
BUT WAIT there's MORE!
As we explain how IF we all agree to MEET.. now I said MEET.. They said they could, on a afternoon... OK.. not a big warning sign..
BUT THEN.. this person goes on to explain that.. They have 6 Kids, and don't really like to leave them alone.. SO..they would have the KIDS camp out in the FAMILY ROOM, and while two go to their Bedroom to PLAY while the other two hang out watch TV, and wait their TURNS...
..
OH NO!!
" In the event of a PLANE CRASH....."



they would have the KIDS camp out in the FAMILY ROOM, and while two go to their Bedroom to PLAY while the other two hang out watch TV, and wait their TURNS...
..
OH NO!!


. After he told me why she burnt his stuff (and she really did
) I couldn't blame her
. Its a shame, we really liked this couple but kept everything vanilla. We just didn't like what they would do to each other....... We still associate with them, individually....... but swinging is out of the question 
